Eligible Odd-Bods! - The Premier Aspergian Singles List

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Hi, all. I'm Bethie.

I'm 22, and I've always been different in one way or another- redheaded, lefthanded, vegan, atheist- the list goes on.

I'm extremely shy (totally mute except with people I know very well) and I'm often described as sweet, though I don't know if that's accurate. I enjoy scrapbooking, reading, spending time with my animals, and reading up on subjects of interest online.

I like to consider myself well-versed in psychology, philosophy, sociology, cultural studies, poetry...anything related to the human condition and individual expression.

I'm extremely liberal (especially for my state of Kentucky). I'm very passionate about issues of abuse, whether it be of animals, children, or the elderly. I'd describe my self as a socialist humanist. I'm also a hippie aesthetically.

I fall in love very fast and very intensely, which frightens away the neuro-typical. They also don't seem to "get" that my lack of social interaction is more than a want, it's a "can't". My asexual nature is also frustrating to the NT.

I'm just looking for someone with progressive ideals who appreciates who I am.


Hope this gets posted in the correct place. I'm a newb.

Gender: male
Age: 20
Location: Lancaster, England
Orientation: straight
Diagnose: aspergers
Status: Single
Seeking: dates & friendship
Restrictions for dates: within lancaster/cumbria region, 18 to mid 20s
Height: about 6ft
Build: medium
Eyecolor: Blue
Haircolor: Dark brown shoulder length
Alchohol habits: drinker.
Smoking habits: i don't smoke cigarettes
Interrests/time passing activities: watching films, comedy, cartoons, documentaries, listening to music, writing, reading, being with friends, chatting
Music genres: indie, punk, metal, alternative, outsider music, 80s-90s, electronica, folk/celtic, classical
Education: at university
The future: "the future is unwritten"- Joe Strummer
Job: artist/musician/writer
Quirks: odd/twisted sense of humour
Turn on: indie, punk & metal girls, creative people
Turn off: fake tans

Gender: male
Age: 26
Location: Memphis, TN
Orientation: straight
Diagnose: undiagnosed, suspected AS
Status: Single
Race: hispanic
Seeking: friendship and possibly more
Restrictions for dates: ages 21 - 30
Height: 5'5"
weight: 145
Build: medium
Eyecolor: brown
Haircolor: black
Alchohol habits: I usually only drink with my brother.
Smoking habits: I don't smoke cigs, or weed, however I tried a Hooka the other day and... I didn't hate it.
Job: Computer service technician
Quirks: too many questions in a short amount of time breaks my brain.
Turn on: women
Turn off: PS3

I have an easygoing and laid back personality and enjoy life as much as I can. My hobbies include computers, video games, martial arts, reading, theological studies,and attempting to learn different languages. I love technology and frequently check out the newest tech and science news whenever I can. I enjoy almost every genre of music with the exception of rap and country music, however there are even a few songs from those genres that I like. Dry humor is my preferred method of getting a joke across but I like all sorts of comedy styles. I hope to one day own a business and to eventually make black belt rank in Tae Kwon Do.

What I'm looking for:

I'm looking for a woman who is open minded, intelligent(don't have to be a physicist or anything), willing to try new things, cares for others, honest, and loyal. I do want someone I find attractive, don't have to be "hot" but definitely have to be "cute"(I have a thing for cute girls).

Hi i have AS and I'm forty years old. Friends say I look about thirty two tho cos I am small and have Aspergian good looks
I'm 5ft 4 and petite with short brown hair and green eyes. I'm pretty fit, I go to the gym regularly, and love sports. In my spare time I like cooking, gardening, and movies. I read an awful lot, and enjoy comedy and satire. I love music.
I could be terribly hypergraphic, but having noticed that I'm twenty years older than everyone else here, if anyone is interested in being friends or more, drop me a line. I have genuine photos on facebook.
Oh. I live in Birmingham England.
Thanks
L

Male, 27, Australia

Just had a shave, so looking razor sharp...

Well, just joined the site, just found out I have Aspergers (officially - suspected it for a few years), so in for a penny, in for a pound:

I'm 38 and female from Gloucester, UK looking for a male. I am 5'8" and have dark brown hair and eyes, and am caucasian.
I have a degree and am a qualified teacher, although gave that up many years ago. Then joined the Army. Gave that up to be a civil servant. I love the job I now have, partly because its perfectly acceptable go to work in jeans and t-shirts, and I feel comfortable doing so.

I love sports and outdoor pursuits, I also do my own DIY having done courses in plumbing, tiling and plastering. Starting to get a bit old for team sports now. I like jigsaws, doing tapestries and reading. I want to be sociable, but not very good at it, and I do like my time on my own.

I want to meet a loyal, caring guy of around the same sort of age, who will understand the issues I have, and I would dearly like to have a family. However, I'm also interested in meeting other people with the same diagnosis just to share experiences and allow me to see I'm not a freak of nature.

Gender: Male
Age: 20
Location: St Paul, MN
Orientation: Straight
Diagnosis: Asperger syndrome
Status: Single
Seeking: Dates, friendship
Dating restrictions: Within Twin Cities metro area; 18 - 22
Height: 5' 4"
Build: Slim / Athletic
Eye color: Brown
Hair color: Brown
Drinker: No.
Smoker: No.
Interests: Writing, reading, movies, TV, listening to music, composing music, filmmaking.
Music: All forms of rock, metal and electronic.
Education: Sophomore in college (working towards AAS in digital video production)
The future: How should I know?
Job: Stock worker
Quirks: Odd-ball sense of humor.
Turn on: Indie, punk and metal girls; creative people.
Turn off: Fake tans, excessive makeup.

Name: Julie
Gender: Female
Age: 19
Location: Alberta, Canada
Orientation: Straight
Diagnose: Aspegers' syndrome
Status: Newly single
Seeking: Males and friends (of both genders)
Height: 5'7
Weight: 120 lbs
Build: Slim and leggy
Eye color: Dark Brown
Haircolor: Dark Cherry red (impossible to really describe, I gotta get pics.)
Habits (Alcohol/Smoking): Drink rarely with friends, don't smoke.
Interrests/time passing activities: Learning, reading good literature, guitar, kalimba (african thumb piano), baking.
Music genres: Everything.
Education: Mostly done my BA in Drama (Performance) and then med school.
The future: Neurosurgeon/Neurologist
Job: None at the moment.
Quirks: I usually don't eat food during the day, passionately political about certain issues, photosensitive (but I don't really let it affect my life terribly)
Turn ons: Excellent sense of style, intelligent, creative,
Turn offs: Arrogance, Guys that don't get that I'm not an idiot

I live in the moment but plan for the future. I have a very dry sense of humor. I'm not very good at talking about myself to a blank screen, so if you want to know more then strike up a conversation with me.

They seriously ought to break this up into various countries or parts of them at least.

Hi. I'm a recently-diagnosed 40 year old Aspergant living in London. I'm an ex-soldier having been in the Army briefly in the 1990s and then gone on to further education. I've managed to have my own business and have turned my Aspie-ness into (hopefully) a positive (we're a niche business that does mathematical modelling (take a wild guess what my "focus" is)).

If you'd like to know more, please let me know.

Please see "Map for all Earthbound members of WrongPlanet" http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt104660.html
The main purpose of the map is to help people form local support networks.
Now, I'm trying to think of a way for my map to work for both ideas -- support and dating.
Please feel free to offer any helpful comments on my thread.