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Kilroy
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12 Dec 2010, 10:30 pm

ToadOfSteel wrote:
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there's a whole forum for that, let us have 1 happy thread
lord knows we need it

that goes for anyone else who feels like whining too


Except it's not a happy thread, it's a "rub it in everyone else's face" thread...


screw that!
this forum doesn't revolve around you
I am not going to be god damned miserable just because you say so
what is no one ever allowed to have any shred of happiness, just because you don't
you know you are far more immature then I had ever imagined

no one asked you to read any of this, but you do and whine and spam constantly how you are so sad and no one else deserves to be happy
you are a very immature person, and as long as you stay like this, I can guarantee you, you'll be miserable for a long time
this thread isn't going away just because you feel no one should be happy



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12 Dec 2010, 10:32 pm

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sry if i made anyone feel bad......that definitely wasn't my intention :/ i'll delete my post.


toad wants everyone to be miserable, just ignore him



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12 Dec 2010, 10:34 pm

I don't read this thread. :D


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12 Dec 2010, 10:35 pm

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I don't read this thread. :D


...what?


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12 Dec 2010, 10:47 pm

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I don't read this thread. :D


...what?


It upsets me.


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12 Dec 2010, 10:54 pm

pretty extreme stuff there man.....thanks for the concern though kilroy. glad you liked my post emilon :)



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12 Dec 2010, 10:58 pm

had to be said



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13 Dec 2010, 12:38 am

Kilroy wrote:
ToadOfSteel wrote:
Kilroy wrote:
there's a whole forum for that, let us have 1 happy thread
lord knows we need it

that goes for anyone else who feels like whining too


Except it's not a happy thread, it's a "rub it in everyone else's face" thread...


screw that!
this forum doesn't revolve around you
I am not going to be god damned miserable just because you say so
what is no one ever allowed to have any shred of happiness, just because you don't
you know you are far more immature then I had ever imagined

no one asked you to read any of this, but you do and whine and spam constantly how you are so sad and no one else deserves to be happy
you are a very immature person, and as long as you stay like this, I can guarantee you, you'll be miserable for a long time
this thread isn't going away just because you feel no one should be happy


If people want to be happy then they can go right ahead... I just don't want to hear about it. It sounds to me like the OP's relationship is going along just fine... so why does she need to go to a support forum for something that doesn't need support? If anything, i'm jealous... jealous of the fact that they have everything I ever wanted in life, with seemingly little effort involved. I see these posts and I feel mocked, as I have fallen short of the bar, unable to attain the same happiness as those around me. If you want to call that immature, go right ahead.



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13 Dec 2010, 12:42 am

ToadOfSteel wrote:
Kilroy wrote:
ToadOfSteel wrote:
Kilroy wrote:
there's a whole forum for that, let us have 1 happy thread
lord knows we need it

that goes for anyone else who feels like whining too


Except it's not a happy thread, it's a "rub it in everyone else's face" thread...


screw that!
this forum doesn't revolve around you
I am not going to be god damned miserable just because you say so
what is no one ever allowed to have any shred of happiness, just because you don't
you know you are far more immature then I had ever imagined

no one asked you to read any of this, but you do and whine and spam constantly how you are so sad and no one else deserves to be happy
you are a very immature person, and as long as you stay like this, I can guarantee you, you'll be miserable for a long time
this thread isn't going away just because you feel no one should be happy


If people want to be happy then they can go right ahead... I just don't want to hear about it. It sounds to me like the OP's relationship is going along just fine... so why does she need to go to a support forum for something that doesn't need support? If anything, i'm jealous... jealous of the fact that they have everything I ever wanted in life, with seemingly little effort involved. I see these posts and I feel mocked, as I have fallen short of the bar, unable to attain the same happiness as those around me. If you want to call that immature, go right ahead.


If you do not like what is in the thread, don't read it, and for the love of sanity QUIT WHINING!! ! :evil: Now, kindly hop away from this thread and find a nice fly to eat


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13 Dec 2010, 1:19 am

...true love unicorns fairies rainbows...happiness yay lol

:) don't worry, be happy!....



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13 Dec 2010, 1:42 am

rocknrollslc wrote:
...true love unicorns fairies rainbows...happiness yay lol

:) don't worry, be happy!....


[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NNnS6U6x4i8[/youtube]


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13 Dec 2010, 5:58 am

ToadOfSteel wrote:
If people want to be happy then they can go right ahead... I just don't want to hear about it. It sounds to me like the OP's relationship is going along just fine... so why does she need to go to a support forum for something that doesn't need support? If anything, i'm jealous... jealous of the fact that they have everything I ever wanted in life, with seemingly little effort involved. I see these posts and I feel mocked, as I have fallen short of the bar, unable to attain the same happiness as those around me. If you want to call that immature, go right ahead.


Not wanting to hear about it is fair, but this is specifically a happy thread for being positive about love and relationships. If you want a grumpy thread then go and make one. if you don't want to see happy stuff then don't look at the happy thread.

I guess even when relationships are going well they aren't always easy, so sometimes it's nice to have somewhere to write all of the lovely things so that we can look back at them when things are trickier or look at other people's and be reminded of the good things in our relationships. When things wobble and I get stressed this forum is often the first place I come to for help and advice.



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13 Dec 2010, 6:11 am

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husband just went and got all the groceries for the week because i am still not 100% stable from recent family events. i went and visited his family for a couple of hours today and it was exhausting. hard to socialize anyways, much less when i am feeling down. but he has been taking care of me... cooking and cleaning (well, he does half of it anyways, but now he was doing all of it to support me). he is being very good to me! :heart:


Aww that's so wonderful. My hubby is the same way. Whenever I'm feeling down, he's really pampering me (we also visited his family some days ago, and it had be exhausted, but he cared for me and told them why I was tired and melancholic, told them what they could do, and they tried to make me as comfortable as possible). Cooking dinner, cleans up after himself (cleaning is usually my department) and he buys me delicious snacks to watch in front of the telly. Had I been spiritual or religious, I would say I've been blessed. Hurray for good men! :3



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13 Dec 2010, 6:30 am

Gremmie wrote:
I guess even when relationships are going well they aren't always easy, so sometimes it's nice to have somewhere to write all of the lovely things so that we can look back at them when things are trickier or look at other people's and be reminded of the good things in our relationships. When things wobble and I get stressed this forum is often the first place I come to for help and advice.


If a relationship is having problems (or even just a bad argument or something). then by all means post... but as far as I can tell, if at any given point you have your significant other to confide in, why do you need some forum?



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13 Dec 2010, 7:55 am

because things aren't always that easy.
if you've noticed i also have a lot of bad days where i need support and where things go wrong.
i don't think it's your right to judge if i need help of the forum, because i know i do sometimes.
but OTHER times, i'm happy & i love to hear about things that make other people happy too - it cheers me up when i'm sad.

again - if you have a problem, don't read, it's clearly labelled for what it is.



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13 Dec 2010, 8:09 am

Moog wrote:
I don't read this thread. :D


But you allow other people to enjoy it because you're a lovely person, yes? :)