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23 Oct 2012, 4:00 pm

I have a six pack, great muscle tone, 5 scars, an average height, and weigh 117 lbs.

I may be a bit thin, but I consider myself pretty attractive



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24 Oct 2012, 2:51 pm

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I have a six pack, great muscle tone, 5 scars, an average height, and weigh 117 lbs.

I may be a bit thin, but I consider myself pretty attractive


i'm using the Exercise Recumbent Bike I have at Home every week now



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25 Oct 2012, 1:15 am

wtfid2 wrote:
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it also sucks that i'm short, i'm only 5'7

thats the average height.
keep telling yourself that lol. 5'9.5-5'10 is average.


Depend on were you are from

Country Average male height
Argentina 174.46 cm (5 ft 8.6 in)
Australia 178.4 cm (5' 10.2")
Bahrain 165.1 cm (5' 5")
Brazil 169.0 cm (5' 6.5")
Cameroon 170.6 cm (5' 7.2")
Canada 174 cm (5' 8.5")
China (PRC) 164.8 cm (5' 4.9")
China 169.4 cm (5' 6.7")
Colombia 170.64 cm (5' 7.2")
Cote d'Ivoire 170.1 cm (5' 7")
Czech Republic 180.3 cm (5' 11")
Denmark 180.6 cm (5' 11.1")
Dinaric Alps 185.6 cm (6' 1.0")
Estonia 179.1 cm (5' 10.5")
Finland 178.2 cm (5' 10")
France 174.1 cm (5' 8.5")
Ghana 169.46 cm (5' 6.7")
Gambia 168.0 cm (5' 6.1")
Germany 178.1 cm (5' 10")
Hungary, 179.14 cm (5' 10.4")
Iceland 181.7 cm (5' 11.5")
India 165.3 cm (5' 5")
Indonesia 158.0 cm (5' 2.2")
East Bali 162.4 cm (5' 3.9")
Iran 174.24 cm (5' 8.6")
Iraq 165.4 cm (5' 5.1")
Japan 171.2 cm (5' 7.4")
Korea, South 175.26 cm (5' 9")
Lithuania 176.3 cm (5' 9.4")
Malaysia 164.7 cm (5' 4.8")
Mali 171.3 cm (5' 7.4")
Mexico, 167 cm (5' 5.7")
Netherlands 184.8 cm (6' 0.8")
New Zealand 177.0 cm (5' 9.7")
Nigeria 163.8 cm (5' 4.5")
Norway 179.9 cm (5' 10.8")
Philippines 163.5 cm (5' 4.4")
Portugal 172.8 cm (5' 8")
Singapore 170.6 cm (5' 7.2")
South Africa 169.0 cm (5' 6.5")
Spain 170 cm (5' 7")
Sweden 180 cm (5' 10.9")
Switzerland 175.5 cm (5' 9")
Taiwan 171.45 cm (5' 7.5")
Thailand 167.5 cm (5' 5.9")
Turkey 173.74 cm (5' 8.4")
United Kingdom176.8 cm (5' 9.6")
U.S. 178.2 cm (5' 10.2")
Vietnam 167 cm



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25 Oct 2012, 12:20 pm

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Dinaric Alps 185.6 cm (6' 1.0")
Netherlands 184.8 cm (6' 0.8")

Wow! I may need to plan for some travel... ;) Meet a nice, tall, local, non-American lady interested in living in the frozen wastes of Canada!



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25 Oct 2012, 2:54 pm

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Dinaric Alps 185.6 cm (6' 1.0")
Netherlands 184.8 cm (6' 0.8")

Wow! I may need to plan for some travel... ;) Meet a nice, tall, local, non-American lady interested in living in the frozen wastes of Canada!
id feel inferior there even at 6;2 lol.


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25 Oct 2012, 4:48 pm

still, most girls want guys that are like 5'10 and above



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25 Oct 2012, 4:58 pm

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still, most girls want guys that are like 5'10 and above


yep. Women have a standard of wanting taller and men of wanting shorter. Those who dont fit into that group have to do a bit more looking it seems. Thankfully Im 6ft tall and due to my proportions I look atleast 6'3". Heck even next to my dad everyone thinks im inches taller than him, yet hes 1 inch taller than me. Mostly due to him wearing thick shoes and me thin ones though



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25 Oct 2012, 5:06 pm

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still, most girls want guys that are like 5'10 and above


I'm 5'9.25. Eh. It's whatever. My dad was 5'10, now he's closer to my height due to poorer posture over the years. I can easily be 5'10 with a pair of boots on. Now that I think about it, though, shorter girls do give me more attention. I think it'd be cool to have a girl who's like 5'7 or so, not towering over me, but enough that I don't have to look down at her like she's a kid.

Anyway, do I consider myself attractive? Well. I'm perfectionisty, so no. I'm 17% bodyfat, so I think I'm fat. To normal people, it's not really fat, but to me it is. I'm also larger framed, but I don't like that either and wish I was smaller. But I also like being strong. Also, I have big giant legs and a big butt (which I used to be a lot more insecure about, but found out girls actually love it,) and a not as huge upper body. Like my first time ever squatting I managed to parallel squat 225, then my first time benching I could barely do 95. Also, my main athletic hobby is figure skating, and there's not too many like, larger framed/muscular figure skaters. I'm gonna have to be single digit bodyfat before I even hit a 25 BMI, but most figure skaters sit at 21-23. I'd like to be around 170lbs or so at 10% bodyfat or less. Currently 189 at 17% bodyfat.

Supposedly I look good. I didn't think so until recently. I also used to be fat, too. I was 230lbs at 5'9 at one point. That was unfun. Even while fat I probably wasn't "bad" looking, but I was probably 5/10 or so. Now from what people tell me I'm probably 8+, and I guess I can accept that without being incredibly prideful, it's a gift I guess. Looking at things, I'm probably ridiculously more socially awkward than the average person, so being good looking kinda covers over the sins of social awkwardness somewhat. Oddly, one remarkable feature about me is people think I pluck my eyebrows. I've always had perfect eyebrows, all I do is once a month or so I shave my unibrow fuzz, and that's all. I get a little acne, but usually it's caused by diet and I can easily get it under control.

I kinda wish I was Asian, too. But being white is fairly OK. But I do wish I was Asian. Hopefully my kids turn out to be beautiful Asian/white hybrids that will be able to conquer the world. I probably do got decent genes, really. My dad had a Chinese girlfriend who wanted him to get her pregnant because "You make beautiful children!" Yay.



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25 Oct 2012, 5:56 pm

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still, most girls want guys that are like 5'10 and above


I'm 5'9.25. Eh. It's whatever. My dad was 5'10, now he's closer to my height due to poorer posture over the years. I can easily be 5'10 with a pair of boots on. Now that I think about it, though, shorter girls do give me more attention. I think it'd be cool to have a girl who's like 5'7 or so, not towering over me, but enough that I don't have to look down at her like she's a kid.

Anyway, do I consider myself attractive? Well. I'm perfectionisty, so no. I'm 17% bodyfat, so I think I'm fat. To normal people, it's not really fat, but to me it is. I'm also larger framed, but I don't like that either and wish I was smaller. But I also like being strong. Also, I have big giant legs and a big butt (which I used to be a lot more insecure about, but found out girls actually love it,) and a not as huge upper body. Like my first time ever squatting I managed to parallel squat 225, then my first time benching I could barely do 95. Also, my main athletic hobby is figure skating, and there's not too many like, larger framed/muscular figure skaters. I'm gonna have to be single digit bodyfat before I even hit a 25 BMI, but most figure skaters sit at 21-23. I'd like to be around 170lbs or so at 10% bodyfat or less. Currently 189 at 17% bodyfat.

Supposedly I look good. I didn't think so until recently. I also used to be fat, too. I was 230lbs at 5'9 at one point. That was unfun. Even while fat I probably wasn't "bad" looking, but I was probably 5/10 or so. Now from what people tell me I'm probably 8+, and I guess I can accept that without being incredibly prideful, it's a gift I guess. Looking at things, I'm probably ridiculously more socially awkward than the average person, so being good looking kinda covers over the sins of social awkwardness somewhat. Oddly, one remarkable feature about me is people think I pluck my eyebrows. I've always had perfect eyebrows, all I do is once a month or so I shave my unibrow fuzz, and that's all. I get a little acne, but usually it's caused by diet and I can easily get it under control.

I kinda wish I was Asian, too. But being white is fairly OK. But I do wish I was Asian. Hopefully my kids turn out to be beautiful Asian/white hybrids that will be able to conquer the world. I probably do got decent genes, really. My dad had a Chinese girlfriend who wanted him to get her pregnant because "You make beautiful children!" Yay.


i ought to kill myself already



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25 Oct 2012, 5:58 pm

MXH wrote:
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still, most girls want guys that are like 5'10 and above


yep. Women have a standard of wanting taller and men of wanting shorter. Those who dont fit into that group have to do a bit more looking it seems. Thankfully Im 6ft tall and due to my proportions I look atleast 6'3". Heck even next to my dad everyone thinks im inches taller than him, yet hes 1 inch taller than me. Mostly due to him wearing thick shoes and me thin ones though


Thinking back over the guys I have been liked, it makes me wonder how much the height factor is subconscious.
I wonder how many women actually consciously know they are judging by height and how many just do it subconsciously without thinking about it? Same for guys?

I'm tiny at 5 ft and therefore everyone is bigger than me, but every guy I have liked has been between 5'10 and 6'4.
It doesn't really make much sense since technically if your theory is correct, anyone a few inches taller would qualify - so there's no need for them to be that tall.

:?


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25 Oct 2012, 6:12 pm

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still, most girls want guys that are like 5'10 and above


yep. Women have a standard of wanting taller and men of wanting shorter. Those who dont fit into that group have to do a bit more looking it seems. Thankfully Im 6ft tall and due to my proportions I look atleast 6'3". Heck even next to my dad everyone thinks im inches taller than him, yet hes 1 inch taller than me. Mostly due to him wearing thick shoes and me thin ones though


Thinking back over the guys I have been liked, it makes me wonder how much the height factor is subconscious.
I wonder how many women actually consciously know they are judging by height and how many just do it subconsciously without thinking about it? Same for guys?

I'm tiny at 5 ft and therefore everyone is bigger than me, but every guy I have liked has been between 5'10 and 6'4.
It doesn't really make much sense since technically if your theory is correct, anyone a few inches taller would qualify - so there's no need for them to be that tall.

:?


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25 Oct 2012, 6:15 pm

huh.

In that case, my money is on subconscious.


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25 Oct 2012, 6:20 pm

mines on subcoscious mostly with a touch of conscious. Most girls seem to like guys in the range you mentioned. I knew a couple in highschool where she was 4'7" and he was 6'10".



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25 Oct 2012, 7:51 pm

I'm 5'6 =O. Although I already got over it, all my girlfriends have been roughly just as tall as me, and they didn't seem to care much about it. And more often than not girls are smaller, so it's no big issue.

Reminds me of the time where I had to hang up something and couldn't reach it, and a girl at the university offered to do it for me. She did it effortlessly. What a nice gal :lol:


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25 Oct 2012, 7:55 pm

Well average height for Colombia is 5'7 - so you're normal height.
At least people help you, people just enjoy watching me struggle. :lol: :razz:


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25 Oct 2012, 8:12 pm

^ :lol:

Reminds me of this old joke: http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/4 ... SS500_.jpg (partial nudity)

Sorry... couldn't resist.


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