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I am just not clear as to how kissing and making out isn't some kind of relationship

I mean, who goes around randomly making out with complete strangers !?

I know Americans have this term 'dating' which means people can see multiple other people and kiss/make out with them and that's completely normal, but (correct me if I am wrong), that sort of thing is not very common in Europe and even if it was, I'm not sure I could ever make out with more than one person on a regular basis - isn't that cheating?

anyway, as an Aspie, I probably need to know a person better than their own mother before I'd even consider kissing them, so this is a moot point as we were talking about 'normal' girls

Zilch. TBH, I give up with it. My pictures aren't too great and I have no real means of getting any good ones for a long time now so I might as well not bother.
I've sent out a few messages now, nothing back. I've had people rate my profile yes, a few. I've had a couple of conversations where I was expected to carry the entire convo like some sort of entertainer (hello, princess, you're supposed to be interesting too!). There are some girls on there that seem great but I honestly have no way of telling if I can't score a date with any of them, let alone hear what they have to say back.

I do okay locally without a dating site, frankly this is just damaging to my esteem and unnecessarily so.
I'm obviously good enough for girls in my area not on those sites, but I don't live up to the standards expected of me from women on that site. It could be something as small as my writing style, who knows. I'll just tell myself they are too picky and that answer to my question of "why?!" will suit me just fine.

Edit: Guys, DO compliment them on how they look and be classy about it. I can never bring myself to do this specific bit which could be my undoing on such sites.

You're bit fat.

That's why.

Fat guys wouldn't get anything from okc.


All this talking about "pics should have more lighting" - "too smiling" or "too casual" or "too laid back pic" are all irrelevant and nor they change anything.

The only thing that might has impact is losing weight.

He's got a few extra pounds (as do I) but he's hardly obese. It might help a bit but I doubt it will change much. He's still quite handsome.

What kind of girls are you messaging, Januaryman?

What kind of girls are you messaging, Januaryman?