The_Face_of_Boo
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30 Apr 2015, 2:48 am
30 Apr 2015, 2:51 am
I am probably getting closer to find love!!
Maybe after a few more animals the PM:s will come rolling in
More cute animals needed?
30 Apr 2015, 2:52 am
Bad idea Boo, whiny is not attractive, that along with being bitter are two of the worst things you can do when you look for love, at least in my opinion
Stay with being amusing, that will take you further 
The_Face_of_Boo
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30 Apr 2015, 2:57 am
I will be trying the whining tactic in few post!
I am so sad and lonely....waiting for my love of life under the rain.
30 Apr 2015, 2:58 am
Amity, now we have increased the chances for Boo to meet his true love! Now he has the chance to meet foxwomen, dogwomen, bunnywomen, catwomen and mousewomen 
30 Apr 2015, 2:59 am
Yes Boo, but you have to be the Doctor for that to work
30 Apr 2015, 3:01 am
The_Face_of_Boo
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30 Apr 2015, 3:01 am
Fine Katten, I ll be waiting for the sunrise....
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO - too romantic for my loneliness.
30 Apr 2015, 3:04 am
I want a pet fox, but I'd have to move to another state to have one 
30 Apr 2015, 3:05 am
hahah Boo ...WTF...
How about the tactic of beeing a nice, funny, smart and wellbehaved man???
I know you have it in you Boo
The_Face_of_Boo
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30 Apr 2015, 3:13 am
How about the tactic of beeing a nice, funny, smart and wellbehaved man???
I know you have it in you Boo
The wellbehaved is the hardest part.
30 Apr 2015, 3:15 am
Try for a little wellbehaved with a twinkle in your eye then
The_Face_of_Boo
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30 Apr 2015, 3:18 am
Maybe I need some dominant mistress to tame me and teach me some manners.
30 Apr 2015, 3:22 am
I think you just scared away some potential girlfriends...
30 Apr 2015, 3:23 am
I was thinking you just needed a brolly
30 Apr 2015, 3:26 am
My apologies to boo for clogging his thread with some serious stuff. 
...but it just upsets me to see nice people like yourself, Boo or some of my friends being depressed because of it.My friend has money, isn't ugly, is nice, and funny - but that's not enough apparently.
Every single one of them treated him like sh*t, or would cut him off after a while. I introduced him to a girl, she cut him and me off as well after a while.And I don't get what should people like you do to get a girlfriend - it's beyond me. I see nothing wrong with any of you, you're just fine the way you are, but whether is it stupid laws of evolution, this shallow culture where only narcissistic well off types have some luck in love or what....
if I were you, I'd treat myself with respect, do whatever makes me happy, be busy with some hobby, make myself interesting, sign up somewhere, and then perhaps try to befriend someone...I don't see any other way. Since females seem to flee like plague those overly needy, despondent, depressed, unhappy with themselves....they don't see them as adequate mates. maybe it's our damn genetic matrix
odd hearing it from a female. normally women here jump to the defense of the women and agree about how awful we are and that's what we are alone. unless you're a male in which case sorry.
how much money does he have? they tend to want middle class people so like 3-5k a month income or more. because only middle class and rich people have kids. I just popped into existence out of no where. this goes for rich women or poor women. women here anyways could be obese and jobless but still demand a guy making 200k a year and physically fit and handsome. in fact they do. women seem to have a entitlement issue. it snot for sex, but they feel being a woman entitles them to a well off great looking guy. but its ignored or supported by other women.
wish I had friends to introduce me to women.
yeah Idk. I like my hobbies but none of them them are social anymore and women don't do them, except married women. I don't believe in the fake a hobby to get women. I don't want to have to lie to get a gf then keep up the lie for rest of my life.
hard to respect yourself when everyone says your worthless.
even when I was happy I was still dependent. i wouldn't want a independent person that means they don't need or want a relationship so they'll just there for the sex and money. they'll go away for weeks or months without talking to you and be fine. its hell.
no I'm a woman, but usually get on better with men, in fact I don't have a single female friend - women don't like me either
i think it's because of my AS, I just have a bit more masculine brain I guess 
I'm sorry it's been so difficult for you, my friend works in a factory and earns about 2000 euros per month, so money is not an issue. I think he has some issues with socialising (very bad OCD) which make it difficult for him to find a woman who wouldn't blow him off soon. I don't get what's the problem exactly, he is in fact good looking, isn't stupid, can speak better Latin than English, but I guess he just doesn't understand how women operate. Personally he was one of the nicest people I met, he has very good sense of humour, so I don't know what those women want?
I'm not sure whether with you just being too nice is the problem? They see you as a doormat perhaps (it happened to me actually as well when i tried to befriend a few women before). Couldn't be just the weight issues...I've seen plenty of chubby men getting a woman.
I told you that about hobbies, since some time ago I asked one older person from here how to help my friend get a woman, since he is married now. And he told me something along these lines....that he had similar issues, he was too weird for them (bad case of AS), and it just wasn't working. Then he gave up, focused on the things he liked, hobbies etc, and suddenly women found him more interesting. Neediness is apparently repellent for the females, so if you can somehow muster the strength to be content even without them, acting nonchalant, (since they can smell neediness from miles away) being just happy with who you are, and what makes you happy, maybe it would work for you too, maybe suddenly by the odd laws of this universe, you would attract some. Detachment is the key, I think.
I've been trying to help my friend with the same issue for months, it didn't work. He won't listen...he is acting similarly needy, despondent, and it doesn't work. YOu sound just like him, he wants someone who'd need him.
I don't know you well enough to offer any better advice, sorry.
I just wish I could talk to those people who say you're worthless - like they're what, mana from the sky?
god given deities to whom we all must prostrate? how are they any better than you - since they can sell themselves better?
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