WHAT ARE YOUR DEAL BREAKERS WHEN IT COMES TO RELATIONSHIPS?

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09 Aug 2015, 8:06 pm

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-Dishonest
- Puts me under pressure to do things I'm not ready for
-Doesn't genuinely like or care about me
- Arrogant
- Doesn't like animals
- Can't be themselves and tries to change for me or other people
- Doesn't want to be in a committed relationship
-Doesn't understand or listen to me


those sound like reasonable things. I wish more women were like you.

I would likewise not want those things.



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10 Aug 2015, 7:55 am

Agree with you face of man boo....



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10 Aug 2015, 10:34 am

So ... no deal breakers about penis size? :jester:


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11 Aug 2015, 8:10 am

I'm only interested in romantic relationships with human*** women who have XX sex chromosomes. When laboratories figure out how to change genetic code to make men into genetic women (XY to XX), I'll just abstain completely from relationships.

There are a few genetic men who have undergone the process to look like women that I find attractive but, due to my own personal amalgam of beliefs, I could not and will not knowingly engage in a relationship with them.

(Hint: I'm not religious.)
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11 Aug 2015, 10:54 am

1. Must love me
2. Must love/tolerate my cat.
3. Must accept me for who I am.
4. Must be kind to me
5. [Secret Condition]

I don't really have a "type" and I'm really open to different kinds of people, so long as they love me for me and don't want to "change" me into their neurotypical dreamgirl then I'm fine.



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12 Aug 2015, 9:13 pm

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To add to the list, would be a strange/odd sense of humor, and the inability to find humor in other people's jokes (everyone laughs, except them). What this tells you, is that this person doesn't think, or see things the same way that normal (mentally healthy) people do.


I completely disagree with this...what people laugh at in a group is not a sign or standard of being mentally healthy.


Laughing/not laughing in a group is one thing, but I'm referring to someone with a sense of humor, that very few, if any people would even understand. I'm talking really weird, creepy, totally out there stuff here. People have many different kinds of humor (sarcastic, dry, satire, etc.), and not everybody will find them funny, but there are still many people that do.



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13 Aug 2015, 9:42 pm

-Has to be able to drink (this one guy who flirted with me too strongly doesn't drink... sorry, I can't commit to him)
-Has to be huggable.
-His last name should come before mine in the alphabet, so when I officially became his girl, I could move up. (I don't like being Ms. T.)
-I want to be honored to have him as my ball and chain.



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13 Aug 2015, 11:20 pm

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-Has to be able to drink (this one guy who flirted with me too strongly doesn't drink... sorry, I can't commit to him)
-Has to be huggable.
-His last name should come before mine in the alphabet, so when I officially became his girl, I could move up. (I don't like being Ms. T.)
-I want to be honored to have him as my ball and chain.


wait you want a guy who drinks a lot?

I have s for last name. though I Think i may want to take any woman i marries last name. is that weird?
my dad and his family is pretty horrible. so I've started to think perhaps its best to lose the name. though i don't know for sure I use to hope to impove its status from that of horrible to honorable.



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13 Aug 2015, 11:34 pm

A woman that makes lists about romance.


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14 Aug 2015, 12:51 am

Being whimsical shows you can afford it.


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14 Aug 2015, 9:23 am

Is OP even a woman? On the internet you can not ever know for sure.



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14 Aug 2015, 9:47 am

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Is OP even a woman? On the internet you can not ever know for sure.


You mean me? Yes, the last time I checked I was a woman. What are you?


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14 Aug 2015, 11:01 am

I am a god :) Well no, that is not true, sometimes I lie. I am actually a human, with male sex.

To me woman should be kind, sharing and romantic also she should be faithfull untill the end of days.



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14 Aug 2015, 11:08 am

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I am a god :) Well no, that is not true, sometimes I lie. I am actually a human, with male sex.

To me woman should be kind, sharing and romantic also she should be faithfull untill the end of days.


Huh. Interesting. I thought the same about men and then I found out about this polyamry thing. It's changed my whole view of men and relationships and not in a good way.


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14 Aug 2015, 2:52 pm

nurseangela wrote:
Sokoro wrote:
I am a god :) Well no, that is not true, sometimes I lie. I am actually a human, with male sex.

To me woman should be kind, sharing and romantic also she should be faithfull untill the end of days.


Huh. Interesting. I thought the same about men and then I found out about this polyamry thing. It's changed my whole view of men and relationships and not in a good way.


polyamry isn't a male only thing or even male dominated thing .its both. I've seen a few women on okcupid who are with someone seeking another .

I'm super loyal to only one person at a time. you shouldn't change your view on men based off what a few asexual aspies said.



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16 Aug 2015, 5:21 am

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If a woman killed her landlord, that would be a deal-breaker.


WTH. I missed this one.


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