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sly279 wrote:
yeah no. because we still have sexual drive so yeah . we can't stand going that long without sex with the person we love being rejected sex says they don't find us attractive or like us.
So you have a sex drive. Then may I ask how often you have sex with a woman? Probably not that often, I suspect. However, you are saying you cannot wait for more than a month if you are with a woman, which to me implies you are with her for the wrong reason, as you probably wouldn't have sex with a woman within a month if you were single either.
So, no, your reasoning makes no sense to me.
sly279 wrote:
really because all the girls I've dealt wtih want sex before I do.
So then you have no problem. You don't need to require sex within a month because all the girls you have been with have wanted sex before you.
30 Jul 2015, 3:13 am
rdos wrote:
sly279 wrote:
yeah no. because we still have sexual drive so yeah . we can't stand going that long without sex with the person we love being rejected sex says they don't find us attractive or like us.
So you have a sex drive. Then may I ask how often you have sex with a woman? Probably not that often, I suspect. However, you are saying you cannot wait for more than a month if you are with a woman, which to me implies you are with her for the wrong reason, as you probably wouldn't have sex with a woman within a month if you were single either.
So, no, your reasoning makes no sense to me.
sly279 wrote:
really because all the girls I've dealt wtih want sex before I do.
So then you have no problem. You don't need to require sex within a month because all the girls you have been with have wanted sex before you.
see what happens is the longer I wait the more an dmore and more it takes over what I think about to the point where I feel aweful looking at porn like its cheating on them. so now I'm going months without 0 reeife whole time thining sexual about them whic will come up also they expect to cuddling tightly and kiss. which is going to make me hump them then they'll get upset because they want to wait half a year or more. well i don't want to deal with any of that.we'll not sexual compatible or they wouldn't want to wait either. so thats a big sign to me it won't work out. I've waited 27 years already I can't wait even longer on top of that. maybe if it was back when I was 20 I could wait hell when I was 18 I was going to wait to marriage but I didn't know that meant never back then.
but when seingle there isn't any of that added sexual contact and added emotional connection causing emotional sexual desire. I can just go and look at porn multiple times a day to deal with it. so yeah 3-5 dates for me. I can't wait longer. and if they can then its not a good match they'll likely be the ok with 1 time a month or less girls and I 'm a few times a day if possible guy. so not compatible.
but no of those girls matched out. one was too pushy, another an abusive liar, the other had very few intersts and stuff in common.
27 years of pent up sexual desire means its near impossible to wait to have sex when have the chance.
go days without water and see how long you want to wait when there's a glass of water in front of you.
or compare it to any thing you had to wait for then got access to and you don't want to wait longer.
but whatever. I'll just save up go to a whore then kill myself . problem solve now I won't be a horrible burden to women and they can live single lifes complaining about how there's no good men left in the world. never realising its because what the define as good men and what they really want aren't the same thing. they don't want good men.
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30 Jul 2015, 4:22 am
nurseangela wrote:
Sweetleaf wrote:
Kurgan wrote:
Sweetleaf wrote:
So guys have trouble picking up a date....girls with their easy picking up of dates are more prone to rape, abuse, being taken advantage of for sex ect.
As long as you are giving your consent, nobody is taking advantage of you for sex. Nobody owes you a relationship.
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all wonderful things the self identified 'forever alones' should be totally jealous of. Oh yeah geting unsolicitated hits on you from guys twice your age who only want sex is great....let me tell you, so much better than being single not
If that's what's hitting on you, that's your league.
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I mean really what do you guys think it is we chicks get so easily, and as if you can go out just dressed in normal casual comfy dress and get a date.....no women are expected to have make up on, wear an outfit that compliments their figure, or use weird undergarmet items to make your body appear more appealing as in the hour glass shape.
You could always try intensive weightlifting for hours per week, clothes that highlight your muscle, anabolic steroids and a strict diet; i.e. stuff men need to go through to look good.
The hourglass shape is the desired figure in women because hourglass shaped women tend to be more fertile and have better genetics.
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Oh and its rude for a women to get offended by some street a** saying 'hey baby you're hot' when they are just trying to go about their buisiness......oh yes women have it so f*****g easy compared to men in all circumstances ever.
Nobody said this was rude.
Sorry but you've got to have a screw loose or something to think someone cannot be taken advantage of for sex. It is a different thing than rape since as you say its not 'forced' however its not unheard of for guys to lead girls on to sleep with them and then drop them like a potato infected with the plague when they've had their fill. But if you haven't experienced it I wouldn't expect you to understand.
I also never said anyone 'owes' me a relationship...but I think they at least owe me the respect to be honest about whether or not they want one. If a guy starts a relationship with me and passes it off like they care for me as a person, but really they just want someone to sleep around with till they find something serious or just someone to sleep around with they at least owe me the truth. I mean there are times I desire sex and would be willing to hook up for it with no intentions of a serious relationship with a guy willing difference is I would know what it going on, rather than being led on. But that said regardless of if anyone owes me a relationship or not, women are still statistically more likely to run into abuse, rape, being taken advantage of sexually(exploitation).
And know if that is what's hitting on me, that means such people hit on me....not that we're in the same 'league', guys will hit on all kinds of girls whether in their league or not, and my opinion a daily bar hopper twice my age with enough alcohol on their breath to kill a small rodent most of the time who has a nasty disrespectful way of flirting is not my 'league' or what I ought to be pursuing. But this just further shows your entire lack of understanding of this experience...maybe in your view you'd be grateful for any attention from any women because at least a woman talked to you.
Well I guess I have other things in life that are more practical/important than having a guy, any guy even a potential rapist/abuser talk to me being the sole focus of my days...if you interacted with an abusive woman you might later come to find you'd rather have not had that interaction, or if you got with a women and later find out they where just using you wilst making you the butt of their jokes to their friends you might begin to understand why some people feel not having an interaction would have been better than having the initial interaction.
Also I know lots of guys, no one who really weight lifts or wears clothes to show off muscles and what not...and these are guys who do date and have girlfriends. But I understand guys have their own social pressures to look a certain way as well that may be a little different than social pressure girls have.
And no one 'here' said the last bit was rude, but yes I've seen it referred to as rude when women have negative responses to a random street stranger calling them a sexy baby or something...not on W.P, just in general.
This is why the "no sex for 6 months rule". If a guy can't stick around and actually "date" a woman and really get to know her - he isn't worth her time. You will know then what his real intentions were. And some men may say that 6 months is too long, but it isn't if both people have a life and only see each other a couple times a week.
I don't think 'no sex for 6 months' is necessary to determine the true motives are sincere...especially if neither party wants to wait that long. Some females say 6 months is too long, and it might progress to seeing each other more often than 'a couple times a week' quicker than 6 months as well...not sure what the bit about 'having lives' is, if a couple sees each other more often than that within the first six weeks that means they don't have lives?
30 Jul 2015, 4:30 am
Couples who live together see each other every day and usually sleep together. If that means they don't have lives, I don't want to have a life myself 
30 Jul 2015, 4:31 am
sly279 wrote:
the thing I've learned on this site is if you want anything even a tingy bit your'e desperate for it. so don't want things. which sounds like a good plan if you never ever want to have anything.
In the previous post you were desperate for sex, and now you don't want anything.
No, I don't think desperate is the same things as not wanting anything. If I say "I must have sex right now" that's desperate, but if I say "I want sex in a relationship", that's certainly not desperate, rather pretty normal.
sly279 wrote:
its called having a repressed sex drive and thinking you'd be married in a year after 18.
I thought I'd be a marine and have a wife by 19 so really wasn't anything to worry about.
yeah i know wanting to be loved, wanting a relationship, wanting physical touch are turn offs to women according to wp.
I thought I'd be a marine and have a wife by 19 so really wasn't anything to worry about.
yeah i know wanting to be loved, wanting a relationship, wanting physical touch are turn offs to women according to wp.
I don't think anybody suggested that. I'm pretty sure a huge majority of WP women want to be loved, be in a relationship and even want physical touch (at least hugs). I have no idea where you got that idea from.
sly279 wrote:
another thing they do is cheating and divorce. I don't want any of that. and I already said because it feels disloyal and like cheating to look at other women besides my love. also from what women here say they dislike it and see it as cheating as well.
I agree, but then you need to select a partner carefully and not just jump at whoever appears and wants sex.
sly279 wrote:
no I don't think girls wanting sexx too soon has any connection to those wones being not good for me. as there's no personality that is connected with high sex drive. you could have a nerdy nice girl with a high sex drive and a abusive club girl with a low sex drive. Christians with high sex drives and whores with low sex drive. there's no connection.
Well, I do think they are connected. That's because sex is a way to form quick connections to men. So if you are looking for men to abuse, having sex with them so they attach to you is a pretty good plot.
sly279 wrote:
you could apply that to anything then. so you should give up all your hobbies, all youf family, all your likes and wants and dreams to be with a woman. whats compatibility anyways.
Why would I ever want to do that?
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