do you find autistic girls attractive?

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Same here.

Oddly enough I know and I have known quite a few in my time!

Better still I'm on good terms with with many of them. Let me tell you about some of them.

The first (Aspie) girl that I was attracted to was a girl that I knew at a school for kids with AS and Autism that I attended for a number of years when I was a child (natrally)

If you must know she was not only the spitting image of Zia from The Mysterious Cities of Gold but she acted a lot like her too!

It should come to no surprize that she had a boyfriend and he was just like Esteban! (Save the fact that he had blond hair)

Another girl that I really fell in love with (but was not really suited to when I look back on it) I met as an adult. Sadly she had a lot of problems in her life, most noteably with her dad who would sometimes be quite nasty to her. And when I offered to 'fix him' she refused as ''He's my dad!''

I no longer know this girl but I'm happy to report that she's getting along very well now and is happy.

At present I know a few girls (some of whom with AS) that I get along with very well, however at the moment I'm playing it cool in order not to scare them away as a number of them are very sexy.May I add that my views on female beuity are the 'noramal' ones that most men have, i.e. slim, fenamie, fun loving, and blond (but I'm not too fussy about the hair colour)

So, thanks to modern surport systems (as let's face it most of them nowadays will have been/be in such living curcomstances) We now are having an infulx of Aspie girls who ARE good looking! Also they often do have VERY fenamine looks and attacheweds, as I only know one Aspie tomboy, (who I get on with very well) the rest are a load of very intellgent Princeses and cultuered Ladies abet with a bit of sassyness put into the lovely mix!

Of choares I have known a few 'ugly' ones but they tend to be the less able ones of have been sheltered to the extreme.

Often, as is well known the probem that sadly sometimes faces girls with AS is not GETTING dates but KEEPING them.

However on the whole let me shout out that Aspie (and Autie) girls are hot (when they know how to do themselves up) and they rock!

So then why hasn't anyone written a story about a Aspie girl who inspite of the fact she can make any man go wild with passion just by looking at her, but she's never had a boyfriend as she's really fussy and hardly goes out? Which is often the case in real life!

Go guys (and gals) on I dare you!

Goodbye Till Next Time.

Way I look at it, attractiveness goes deeper than physical beauty. It encompasses the individual themselves. Too many people are too superficial and pass by some wonderful people based solely on physical appearance and sadly it's a loss that they chose of their own accord.

I have a memory foam mattress...in real life

I like clumsy/nerdy/geeky types in general. (Probably the unwritten correlation with intelligence.) It I met an autie girl who met my standards, and had a pleasing personality/appearance in general, I'd definitely be open to dating.

As long as someone takes care of their body, meets most of the basic expectations of society, and doesn't act like a jerk 24-7, it's not terribly difficult to get a relationship, and for girls, as long as they're careful and smart, a stable marriage isn't just a possibility, it's a certainty.

That applies to everyone, men and women, Autie or NT. You can either take care of yourself and do what's expected, or have people look down their nose at you.

I'd just like to find someone I compatible with regardless AS or NT I'm not fussed. I'd like to experience love at least once in my pointless life.

It would depend on the attractiveness of the girl.

Yes, I do find them attractive. Heck, I find Mish attractive. *blushes and runs from Mish fast*

How much of a head start you want?

No offense to anyone, and I'll understand if this arouses flames, but--such statements are frequently made by unattractive people.

And I agree with Sefirato. Mish is hot.

For me, I've dated some nice looking guys, most of them ended up in me not finding really any connection as their appearances well hid their personalities and some of them were really horrible personalities because they were too focused on appearance and some that were plain and have honestly experienced a better relationship with those that were more attractive to me personality-wise because I found myself having more of a connection than with someone that simply had the looks myself. If the person has both looks and personality it's a nice bonus but I prefer personality because looks fade as one gets older. Once they fade, does it make it fair to that other person if the only thing that made them attractive to you is their looks? Then what? That's just me.

I hate when people bug you when you're obviously trying to be unconscious! WTF!. If my eyes are closed and I'm not moving...LEAVE ME ALONE. This girl on the bus was like that to me. I'd be listening to music, and she'd constantly tap me to talk about stupid stuff. She didn't even want a conversation, she just wanted me to sit and listen to her boring middle-school day stories. If I was asleep, she'd wake me up to do it.

I disagree. Attractiveness is different than beauty. There's an insanely hot guy at our school, and I've never been attracted to him. I can plainly see he is hot, however, and he is physically beautiful. Physical beauty plays a role, but it won't determine whether you'll be attracted or not. And some not-so-pretty people can be attractive.
Ugly people say physical beauty is unimportant.

Hah, I hate that noise. It makes any situation awkward.




Sorry, this is my third post I noticed. XD
I think if she was very obviously autistic, it would be unattractive. I saw this severely autistic girl on the boat, and she kept moving back and forth, and howling and whooping in public. That's not attractive. If she was awkward like one of the main characters in Mozart and the Whale, it could be attractive.
I tend to like slightly awkward guys, so I think same would go for the ladies. XD

Same

Well, I'm already down in Florida... I've got a HUGE head start.