sociable_hermit wrote:
Emp, read my words again and you will see that I have said nothing untruthful or misleading.
I DO think he has made a mistake, because Hale_bopp seems like a good person to talk to, and therefore I do not feel that she deserves to be mistreated or made to feel miserable.
It is jolly nice of you to re-write my text for me, and funnily enough I can empathise with your version. I do agree with it. However you are simply amending my STYLE in order to suit your own pedantic sense of logic. You've amended my words in order to say EXACTLY WHAT I WAS SAYING IN THE FIRST PLACE but in a different way.
I can just about cope with that, but I'm really very f-cked off that you think that (because I haven't used the exact words you'd have used) I am somehow lying. You are confusing INTERPRETATION OF INTENT with right or wrong. They are not the same.
You will note that I write in a personal manner. This is because I am writing what I think, and as such my comments cannot be lies because I am honest to myself. I know I'm not always right, which is why I'll use words like "sometimes" or "maybe", or start sentences with "I think.." or "In my opinion..". This does not mean that my views are invalid. You do not have the right to put words into my mouth because you do not and cannot know what I am thinking.
I appreciate you style and way of thinking sociable hermit. Just different ways of expressing the same thing. I am very honest in my thinking too, and often can't help the way someone interprets my intent. I wonder if you you mind reading some of my topic posts and replying about what you honestly think. I can provide the names of topics if you agree. I miss a guy terribly and I think because of AS, misscommunication and emotions running high during our last conversation he will never talk to me again. I don't know if Aspies change there mind, this one seems very B/W like once he makes his mind up that is it. You have a wonderful day in the UK.