how do girls signal interest?

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If men want women more than women want men, why are so many women almost always in relationships? Seems they want to be loved too.

Also, I still don't know how women signal interest, lol. Never had a woman show obvious interest.

Oiutrider, I'm sorry if I hurt you, It was not my intention, although yeah reading it back what I wrote can be viewed as mocking. I apologise.

And no, I don't have friends, I have some mates I hang out with sometimes but that's it. I had to realise none of my "friends" were friends. I was there for them , they weren't.
For about a year now I'm kinda on my own and I am happy about it. I am free finally. I go wherever I want, I do whatever I want, I have time to study, to read, to travel and nobody tells me what I am supposed to do.
My last boyfriend wanted me to sit and watch Top Gear all the time. I told him he can watch it, I don't mind, I'll just do something else and we meet later. He threw a tantrum?!
Eff No, I don't need this shite.

Thank you. Sorry too if I seemed aggressive at all.

I do well for myself, these last months have been the happiest times of my life. The freedom is amazing.

My first girlfriend was trapping.

I got where I am without support from friends or partners like most need. Im proud, don't need anyone but my family, live by my terms, do what I want.

Its hard sometimes, everyday I feel lonely, depressed. I fight it, 75% of each day feels good.

The loneliness bug is hitting me hard the last few days.

My friend lives far away. I haven't seen him in 1.5 years.

I want true friends, theyre hard to come by . Most "friends" are fake, come to us when they're bored/need something. Usually money. That's most of my family.

I have some people I talk to at a group I visit once a week. Its nice.

Sometimes I think that the best way around this is to be a friend to everyone. Don't separate from the opposite gender SO much and don't view them as untouchable and mystical to where you are always groveling. I don't mean to accept being friend-zoned! I mean to be open, smiling and polite to all the girls. Be a gemntleman. Eventually, one will actually come to you and show her interest directly. You have to be patient and the best way to be patient is to say to yourself, "Look (your real name) you may NEVER get a date or fall in love but just be a social humanitarian with no expectation whatsoever. Always be very hygienic and look your best." The first clue is if a girl asks if you are seeing anyone. That's how a responsible girl shows her interest. If you are going to answer, say this: "Work and study keeps me away from dating. I need to free up some time to enjoy life a bit more. A really nice girl would help me do this." Don't be surprised if she says, "Well, how about me?" or "Would you like to meet my friend?" Joining a gym and getting muscular makes a hugh difference with the opposite sex. It's good for health too. Build your muscles. You don't have to be athletic to do this. I lift weights and I'm a 57 year old female that only marginally attractive but my body is really something and it's all down to health and weight lifting. Women admire men who take care of themselves. That means that he is physically strong and can protect them. It a head thing. When women feel safe, they are receptive to sexual advances as well. BUT GET TO KNOW SOMEONE A LONG TIME BEFORE YOU PUT THE MOVES ON HER!! ! Nobody likes a masher. So, that's the best I got to give you. I hope it's good advice.

[1] Resources (money) are extremely important.
[2] Resources (money) mitigates stress, but there comes a point where this stops.
[3] Having children is stressful on many levels.
[4] Women are vulnerable when pregnant, and after birth.
[5] Men are often the source of resources (money) during this time.
[6] Imagine a point when pregnancy was much more random.
[7] Men being a source of resources (money) during pregnancy / birth was more important back in the day.
[8] So, yeah men gathering resources (money) is important, but is WAY less important now that we have birth control.

I, for one, am thrilled that my wife earns more money than I do. We lived off of her income before the children went to school. Now that I have obtained a job, I can save ~50% of my income for retirement, and do other things like remodel the bathroom.

Btw when I give examples of women I know in real life, it's not to discredit you. I'm not saying you're liars on here.

I'm trying to point out there are people you haven't met yet. That there is hope.

Not all women are gold diggers.