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04 Jan 2018, 11:34 pm

Some lady messaged me.

But her profile says she i. College and working so I haven’t replied yet



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04 Jan 2018, 11:39 pm

sly279 wrote:
Some lady messaged me.

But her profile says she i. College and working so I haven’t replied yet


You’re only cutting off your nose to spite your face if you aren’t going to reply.



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05 Jan 2018, 12:06 am

hale_bopp wrote:
sly279 wrote:
Some lady messaged me.

But her profile says she i. College and working so I haven’t replied yet


You’re only cutting off your nose to spite your face if you aren’t going to reply.


She probably hasn’t read my profile. She’ll just see me as a lazy burden. Seems to be how all such people see me. Even you did once. Cause they work so hard and such.

What’d I even say to her?
She said
Hi (name) how are you?


It’ll probably be like every time. She play me along for few weeks then just ghost me after saying she found my ugly or not good enough whole time



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05 Jan 2018, 1:04 am

sly279 wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
sly279 wrote:
Some lady messaged me.

But her profile says she i. College and working so I haven’t replied yet


You’re only cutting off your nose to spite your face if you aren’t going to reply.


She probably hasn’t read my profile. She’ll just see me as a lazy burden. Seems to be how all such people see me. Even you did once. Cause they work so hard and such.

What’d I even say to her?
She said
Hi (name) how are you?


It’ll probably be like every time. She play me along for few weeks then just ghost me after saying she found my ugly or not good enough whole time


Well you’re still going to be in that situation if you don’t try. At least if you try there is a tiny possibility it might work as opposed to 0%.



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05 Jan 2018, 1:24 am

Ok I’ll try



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05 Jan 2018, 4:34 am

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Ok I’ll try


:D Good luck :D


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05 Jan 2018, 4:52 am

She already lost interest in me her replies have become increasingly shorter and are now just short one sentence replies to paragraphs I send her and ignoring questions. And now she knows my job so it’ll probably turn into one word replies and shortly just ghost me. Women with me are sadly so predictable :(



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05 Jan 2018, 5:05 am

^That doesn't sound good. Normal people are very strange.


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05 Jan 2018, 5:59 am

Most girls don't like walls of text.


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05 Jan 2018, 6:53 am

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Most girls don't like walls of text.


Most people don’t. Someone said to me once “I would have thought my message would warrant more than one sentence”. lol.

But people very easily lose interest on dating sites, moreso than here where you sort of “get to know” the people.

I reckon if you stop whining on here sly and add to discussions about interesting topics, you may meet someone like Nick 007 did.

The love and dating forum is mainly whiners and people who don’t like them, antagonists and trolls. People would be better off posting in other areas.



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05 Jan 2018, 7:09 am

True. L&D is mostly single people lamenting about being single rather people discussing their relationship problems.


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05 Jan 2018, 7:17 am

fluffysaurus wrote:
^That doesn't sound good. Normal people are very strange.


Nope, women have a lot of options. So it's not strange.



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05 Jan 2018, 7:45 am

RetroGamer87 wrote:
Most girls don't like walls of text.


I wouldn't mind a freaking novel if the text was interesting. :D

But maybe that's just me.



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05 Jan 2018, 8:36 am

Fireblossom wrote:
RetroGamer87 wrote:
Most girls don't like walls of text.


I wouldn't mind a freaking novel if the text was interesting. :D

But maybe that's just me.


You're not most girls ;)


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05 Jan 2018, 9:10 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
fluffysaurus wrote:
^That doesn't sound good. Normal people are very strange.


Nope, women have a lot of options. So it's not strange.


:star: Which unicorn to ride :flower: which dolphin to play with :flower: which tiara to wear :queen: options :star: options :star: options. :star:


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05 Jan 2018, 10:19 am

Sly.....I hope you edit what you write to these girls, by going back over what you wrote, then correcting the mistakes.