Anyone terrified of being alone for the rest of their life?

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17 Mar 2021, 8:45 pm

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like nobody to help pop a zit on one's back.


Chases Auntblabby around the thread with a giant mechanical 3 headed Zit extractor . :twisted:


The desire for popping other people's zits isn't that unusual.
Personally, I find it revolting. :eew:



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17 Mar 2021, 8:51 pm

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like nobody to help pop a zit on one's back.


:eew:
EEWWW..!


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17 Mar 2021, 10:33 pm

Pepe wrote:
Jakki wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
like nobody to help pop a zit on one's back.


Chases Auntblabby around the thread with a giant mechanical 3 headed Zit extractor . :twisted:


The desire for popping other people's zits isn't that unusual.
Personally, I find it revolting. :eew:

i have done it [hygienically] for others. wear gloves, use alcohol disinfection/anti-sepsis. golden rule. the giant mechanical 3-headed zit extractor sounds a bit frightful, no? ;)



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18 Mar 2021, 2:49 am

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I'm a 35 year old virgin male. I desire a lifelong romantic partner but it's just hasn't happened for me. It terrifies me that I may very well end up alone for the rest of my life. Does anyone else share this fear and what do you say to yourself that brings you comfort?

ya it is something i am afraid of too.



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18 Mar 2021, 2:53 am

it needs to be repeated that for a sense of perspective, one must remember that there are far worse possible fates out there that could befall any of us. what has happened to me in recent years makes me wish for the mere social outcast part instead of that combined with all the rest of the problems i have now.



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18 Mar 2021, 6:15 am

auntblabby wrote:
it needs to be repeated that for a sense of perspective, one must remember that there are far worse possible fates out there that could befall any of us. what has happened to me in recent years makes me wish for the mere social outcast part instead of that combined with all the rest of the problems i have now.


Well said, and I'm sorry for what you're going through. That's a very nice perspective.



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18 Mar 2021, 6:30 am

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it needs to be repeated that for a sense of perspective, one must remember that there are far worse possible fates out there that could befall any of us. what has happened to me in recent years makes me wish for the mere social outcast part instead of that combined with all the rest of the problems i have now.


Well said, and I'm sorry for what you're going through. That's a very nice perspective.

thank you :flower:



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18 Mar 2021, 7:41 am

auntblabby wrote:
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it needs to be repeated that for a sense of perspective, one must remember that there are far worse possible fates out there that could befall any of us. what has happened to me in recent years makes me wish for the mere social outcast part instead of that combined with all the rest of the problems i have now.


Well said, and I'm sorry for what you're going through. That's a very nice perspective.

thank you :flower:


Seconds that opinion , about that perspective! Society does love to put the pressure on people pairing up.
Unreasonably so . :!:


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18 Mar 2021, 7:48 am

auntblabby wrote:
it needs to be repeated that for a sense of perspective, one must remember that there are far worse possible fates out there that could befall any of us. what has happened to me in recent years makes me wish for the mere social outcast part instead of that combined with all the rest of the problems i have now.


Tell me about it. :roll:

Try being mentally crippled at age 5, mind raped and gang-stalked for almost all your life. 8O

"You call that I a knife? :scratch:
*This* is a knife," sort of thing. 8)



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18 Mar 2021, 9:23 am

auntblabby wrote:
it needs to be repeated that for a sense of perspective, one must remember that there are far worse possible fates out there that could befall any of us. what has happened to me in recent years makes me wish for the mere social outcast part instead of that combined with all the rest of the problems i have now.


Was only joking about giant mechanical 3 headed devise Auntblabby am sorry about your other issues . Have a number of those myself , just sometimes am able to look the other way for however brief periods of time .
Am quite sure a number of us can relate to those social outcast thoughts sometimes more often than not .! :?


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18 Mar 2021, 10:04 am

Jakki wrote:
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it needs to be repeated that for a sense of perspective, one must remember that there are far worse possible fates out there that could befall any of us. what has happened to me in recent years makes me wish for the mere social outcast part instead of that combined with all the rest of the problems i have now.


Was only joking about giant mechanical 3 headed devise Auntblabby am sorry about your other issues . Have a number of those myself , just sometimes am able to look the other way for however brief periods of time .
Am quite sure a number of us can relate to those social outcast thoughts sometimes more often than not .! :?

one leg is swollen twice its normal size up to the hip, idiopathic in cause [x-rayed, cat-scanned, MRI'd to no avail].



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18 Mar 2021, 10:13 am

i live in deep fear of being alone
i don't want a partner
i want friends



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18 Mar 2021, 10:14 am

good friends are just about as handy to have close, as a partner.



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18 Mar 2021, 2:22 pm

auntblabby wrote:
Jakki wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
it needs to be repeated that for a sense of perspective, one must remember that there are far worse possible fates out there that could befall any of us. what has happened to me in recent years makes me wish for the mere social outcast part instead of that combined with all the rest of the problems i have now.


Was only joking about giant mechanical 3 headed devise Auntblabby am sorry about your other issues . Have a number of those myself , just sometimes am able to look the other way for however brief periods of time .
Am quite sure a number of us can relate to those social outcast thoughts sometimes more often than not .! :?

one leg is swollen twice its normal size up to the hip, idiopathic in cause [x-rayed, cat-scanned, MRI'd to no avail].

Maybe get a second opinion. Am sorry the tests have turned up nothing, am surprised they did not come up with something . Was having some long term chronic issues, finally went for a integrative medicine doctor , whom is also a md
And he has used some unusual therapies to use on me , ( prescriptions) that have seemed to help a lot .
He has cautioned me about traditional medicine. In private . Will hope a offer a prayer for your leg . Hope it recovers soon .


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19 Mar 2021, 5:46 am

Jakki wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
Jakki wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
it needs to be repeated that for a sense of perspective, one must remember that there are far worse possible fates out there that could befall any of us. what has happened to me in recent years makes me wish for the mere social outcast part instead of that combined with all the rest of the problems i have now.


Was only joking about giant mechanical 3 headed devise Auntblabby am sorry about your other issues . Have a number of those myself , just sometimes am able to look the other way for however brief periods of time .
Am quite sure a number of us can relate to those social outcast thoughts sometimes more often than not .! :?

one leg is swollen twice its normal size up to the hip, idiopathic in cause [x-rayed, cat-scanned, MRI'd to no avail].

Maybe get a second opinion. Am sorry the tests have turned up nothing, am surprised they did not come up with something . Was having some long term chronic issues, finally went for a integrative medicine doctor , whom is also a md
And he has used some unusual therapies to use on me , ( prescriptions) that have seemed to help a lot .
He has cautioned me about traditional medicine. In private . Will hope a offer a prayer for your leg . Hope it recovers soon .

no insurance, no second opinion. i took what i could get from the VA.



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19 Mar 2021, 11:34 am

Integrative medicine has less costly to me than coping with trips to tradition va type doctors .
Am (sorry ) that they were not of more help . Certain va hospitals are better than others , I have heard ..
vA are rough places to get anything but a bone set .I have heard . Do you have some complication that is adding to this leg issue ? If ok to ask? Please feel better , heal quickly .
You would think that the VA would treat their people better , imho.


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