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09 Jul 2022, 10:21 am

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So when I hear about women having dating/sexual problems, I take it with a grain of salt so big, it'll take hours to melt in a pot of boiling water. Not saying it's false, but still.


You have this attitude towards women and you wonder why you are single…

Therapy might help.



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09 Jul 2022, 10:23 am

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Therapy might help.
Therapy? Hahahaha!

Haven't you read ANY of my threads about my therapy experiences? Probably yes. (And the therapist was a woman, so... ;))



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09 Jul 2022, 10:23 am

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This is the very definition of “anecdotal.” Anecdotal evidence is that which is based on personal experience.

“Anecdotal evidence is evidence based only on personal observation, collected in a casual or non-systematic manner.”

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anecdotal_evidence
Ahh... but think about how many young beta males were stupid enough to go to nightclubs where they didn't stand a chance, and saw what I saw. 10? 1000? 10,000? 100,000,000?

ONE man's account is "anecdotal". But what about 100,000,000 men's, even if never posted here? Do tell.

Consider this, my fellow WrongPlaneteer: copying from one book is "plagiarism"; copying from many books is "research".


How does the theoretical experience of 100,000,000 theoretical men mean anything?

I don’t deny that dating is extremely difficult for men AND women, especially if they are shy and socially awkward.



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09 Jul 2022, 10:53 am

It'd probably come as a surprise that I am a "virgin" upon first glance. I've probably said it, but I need that longstanding deep loving deal there with a woman to consider such, and to be honest, it doesn't even need to be there for me at all if for some reason the opposite can't do such.

I don't really pay attention to what others think in these things, as love is personal to me.



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09 Jul 2022, 11:07 am

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It'd probably come as a surprise that I am a "virgin" upon first glance. I've probably said it, but I need that longstanding deep loving deal there with a woman to consider such, and to be honest, it doesn't even need to be there for me at all if for some reason the opposite can't do such.
Today, I wouldn't be surprised to see any man a virgin, regardless of his age (unless maybe if he was over 60, and had grown up in older, better times). It's as unsurprising as seeing a homeless person in a downtown area of a liberal city. There's a narrowing concentration of sexual desirability among human males, just like there's a narrowing concentration of wealth among society. In recent past, top 20% of men were desired by women; today, that number has shrunk and is still shrinking.

Now, if a woman were a virgin and she wasn't a Catholic nun, that's where I'd think "does not compute!".



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09 Jul 2022, 11:16 am

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Now, if a woman were a virgin and she wasn't a Catholic nun, that's where I'd think "does not compute!".


Good point! That’s due to confirmation bias.

You wouldn’t even notice her to begin with because it doesn’t fit in with your incel ideology.



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09 Jul 2022, 11:20 am

Twilightprincess wrote:
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Now, if a woman were a virgin and she wasn't a Catholic nun, that's where I'd think "does not compute!".


Good point! That’s due to confirmation bias.

You wouldn’t even notice her to begin with because it doesn’t fit in with your incel ideology.


LOL!



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09 Jul 2022, 11:24 am

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What are the hard parts women actually encounter while dating, OTHER THAN being rejected by Chads and other leftist stuff? Serious, geniune question.


Abusive Relationships

Here's a thread for starters.

There are many other threads and posts in the women's subforum, The Haven, L&D, PPR, Adult, Parenting, and GAD.


Are you ever going to respond to this, Aspie1, or did I waste my time?

I guess I'm naive, but I was hoping you'd spent the last 24+ hours reading women's posts to get the information you requested in your "serious, genuine question", before ignoring my link and telling articulate female members what they really think.

I'd be more than happy to send you an advanced search-bar for WP, and a list of key words that might help you to understand women's dating experiences with more clarity.

For starters, you might want to search some of these words:

- assault
- trauma
- CPTSD
- divorce
- rape
- pregnancy
- bodily autonomy
- narcissistic abuse
- manipulation
- exploitation
- lawyers
- child support
- independence
- restraining orders

I would link specific members and posts, but I don't want to exploit any women's trauma without their permission.


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09 Jul 2022, 11:29 am

HighLlama wrote:
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Now, if a woman were a virgin and she wasn't a Catholic nun, that's where I'd think "does not compute!".


Good point! That’s due to confirmation bias.

You wouldn’t even notice her to begin with because it doesn’t fit in with your incel ideology.


LOL!


Credit where credit is due. During debates, I think it’s constructive to point out the good points that our opponents may make.



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09 Jul 2022, 11:32 am

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I would link specific members and posts, but I don't want to exploit any women's trauma without their permission.


I can’t speak for anyone else, but you would have my permission.

It most likely would be a waste of time, though, because I think the door is closed here.



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09 Jul 2022, 2:27 pm

Funny. If I'd put a link to women's sex fantasies they'd be all over it.



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09 Jul 2022, 2:41 pm

As a side note have you seen how Elon Musk and Jeff Bezos looked when younger compared to what they are now. They had that autistic look to them back in the day and now look them. Amazing what a scrub up and bulking up will do.



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09 Jul 2022, 2:45 pm

No I haven't. ^ I don't even know who they are. I think the first one has something to do with cars. No idea of the second one. I don't follow celebrities or media, just like I don't esteem people with money and media influence.


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09 Jul 2022, 2:54 pm

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No I haven't. ^ I don't even know who they are. I think the first one has something to do with cars. No idea of the second one. I don't follow celebrities or media, just like I don't esteem people with money and media influence.


I have a nose at them from time to time cos I just love a good story of how someone became unfathomably rich.

Look at that transformation. Just oozing confidence after somehow being awkward looking guys for their entire early adult life.

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09 Jul 2022, 2:57 pm

To be completely honest, not trying to prove a point or anything, I prefer their younger pictures.

They both look like friendlier, more humble and approachable people then.


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09 Jul 2022, 3:03 pm

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That's basically what happened to me: It's called "aging into your looks", like I did.

Back in early 20's, I looked disgusting! I don't blame women back then for not wanting to have anything to do with me. And the escort who took my virginity probably scrubbed herself with steel wool in the shower for hours after I left her hotel room.

But around age 26 or 27, I started to look better. Women started to actually show me romantic attention. And if a woman didn't feel attracted to me, and I approached her anyway, she reacted like "Hey now, play nice", rather than "Get away from me, you filthy beta male; do you have any idea how ugly you are?!".



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