I am the XX year old virgin. Add your name to the list.

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Wrong answer. You said you're 25. The further away you get from college age, the more proactive you're going to need to get because you are rapidly falling behind the curve. Once you hit thirty it's downhill from there. Believe me, there has been many a middle-aged virgin who thought exactly the same thing as you when they were your age.

If you want it, in the near- or long-term future, you're gonna have to go out and get it.

p.s. I lost it at 28. I'm 29 now.

And I suffered. I often wish I would have lost it in my late teens or early twenties so that I wouldn't have suffered so much over it. Now I'm cool as ice, and I have a serious girlfriend for the first time ever, to boot.

p.s. I used to be of the "wait until marriage" mindset but I just couldn't take it any more. It was f***ing killing me. Good luck to those of you willing to continue with that, though I anticipate a great deal of needless frustration and painful longing for years and years to come for many of you that do.

I am a 16-year old virgin, and proud of it! I'm saving myself for my honeymoon, which is a long way away from now.

-Mist

HOW CAN YOU PEOPLE STAND IT?! I didn't care for awhile, but I lost it last year, because something kicked into gear. I met the love of my life, and we're getting married. It was a painful experience, but at the same time very awesome. It doesn't suppress talents or geeky tendencies. I would highly recommend it, as long as you're careful and love the person.

22. I want to lose it to one and only one person, ever. I feel no pressure at all, though.

17 here. I intend to stay that way untill I meet my partner for life (Whoever that may be)

29. What I regret is the lack of intimacy, I don't like to be touched but at the same time I miss physical closeness. I can't possibly see anything changing, the pressure of being spontaneously exciting, witty, charming, collected and naturally expressive was intimidating before I had to start worrying that most of everyone I know is in a serious relationship or wouldn't be interested in someone either as old or immature (sometimes both) as I am.

On the plus side I can always be myself, I can always plan my own day and I don't have to worry about hurting a partner I don't have.

I'm the 23 year old virgin, I may not be much longer.

Hey, I can dream can't I?

I'm the 20 year old virgin. I've thought about waiting 'till marriage but now I figure what's the point. I'm just waiting for the right person. I've had opportunities but I'm so glad I waited because it wasn't right and I really don't want to have regrets about it.

[quote="Turtle000"]I'm the 20 year old virgin. I've thought about waiting 'till marriage but now I figure what's the point. I'm just waiting for the right person. I've had opportunities but I'm so glad I waited because it wasn't right and I really don't want to have regrets about it.[/quote]
I think I can relate to you here, because you're right about at that age where I started thinking about it way too much, IE getting horny. For me it started about a year and a half ago. It's good that you are proceeding with caution though. Men are like dogs; they can smell it on you.

My situation is nearly identical.

I am 18, and intend to stay a virgin until marriage. I am shocked about the amount of people who have the same view as I do on the subject to be honest with you. I am also encouraged, since I would like the girl I end up with to have done the same.

25 and still counting...

I'd find it more special if the person I was with was a virgin too. Yes, I want me a virgin. If you're in a stable relationship why should your "utter skillessness" matter. You should be able to learn together or something. Well, that's what I'm looking for.
I find the first time to be special. I hate when I hear people waste their first time on some random person.

Have to agree. It is a very special thing if both people care about each other and it is their first time. My first was with my girlfriend of over a year when I was 15, we had no idea what we were doing. That may seem young but we were really in love.

By Clinton's definition I am a virgin, officially however I lost it last year. I bragged, and it was awesome, and I'll get to brag again when I'm no a longer a street version of a virgin.

Of course, in the end, this doesn't really matter. I wasn't exactly satisfied by what I experienced. It was a screwed up manner of sorts in which I did this (screwed up but it was also romantic), so for those here who haven't done it yet, it isn't really that big of a deal. I was very sad after my last liason with this person and even cried. The romancing that leads up to the act, has a much larger purpose, I believe.