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14 Mar 2013, 6:50 am

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If you like Asian girls solely for looks then you'd probably have a better chance with a girl who was born in the same county as you.


Suppose I were to mention on a first date that I was looking for a wife who would take care of my aging parents and obey my mother? Even without mentioning how cantankerous my mother was, in North America, I would most likely get the same reaction that men get when they ask Luvsterriers for coitus.

In many parts of Asia, this wouldn't be a deal-killer at all.



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14 Mar 2013, 6:53 am

South Korea is another civilization importing the worst from the west, without copying the best.



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14 Mar 2013, 7:27 am

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And I don't think they see them more feminine because they perceive them as submissive and sweet but mainly because of their looks, Sri Lankan women are raised to be submissive too but you don't see Caucasian men liking them.


I have never been to Sri Lanka, nor have I heard of Sri Lanka particularly as a destination to pick up chicks. It is listed as a popular destination for sex tourism

http://www.sextourism.net/best-destinations/

possibly for Indians? The site didn't provide any details, nor could I find any other information that suggested mutual coital interest between Sri Lankans and Caucasians.

One Sri Lankan man that I met told me that Sri Lanka was a very conservative country.

Moslem women are also raised to be submissive, but, for non-Moslems, it is strictly "Hands Off!! !"

In other parts of Asia, the women are not only sweet and submissive, but accessible. Accessibility is a very important issue.



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14 Mar 2013, 8:45 am

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[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=edyARJq9sgM[/youtube]

It is the most girly song in the entire world. And I love it.

And Psy at least seems better than LMFAO. I don't like most Korean music I've heard. It sounds too much like American pop just sung in Korean. It doesn't have much of a real identity like I feel Japanese pop does. Also, I can understand usually 10%? or so of what's going on in a Japanese song, and zero percent as I know no Korean at all. On the flipside, Korean pop has done well in the whole world and J-Pop hasn't.

And I don't like Pitbull as all he does is rap gibberish over otherwise nice songs. He just grabs a song and is like "man, this song is so cool, BUT IT'D BE EVEN COOLER IF I TALKED OVER IT AND SAID "HEY SEXY MAMA" A BUNCH OF TIMES, YEAH!"


That's why I adore Pitbull so much :wink:


In some ways I admire people who can base their careers on such things.



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14 Mar 2013, 9:06 am

ArrantPariah wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
And I don't think they see them more feminine because they perceive them as submissive and sweet but mainly because of their looks, Sri Lankan women are raised to be submissive too but you don't see Caucasian men liking them.


I have never been to Sri Lanka, nor have I heard of Sri Lanka particularly as a destination to pick up chicks. It is listed as a popular destination for sex tourism

http://www.sextourism.net/best-destinations/

possibly for Indians? The site didn't provide any details, nor could I find any other information that suggested mutual coital interest between Sri Lankans and Caucasians.

One Sri Lankan man that I met told me that Sri Lanka was a very conservative country.

Moslem women are also raised to be submissive, but, for non-Moslems, it is strictly "Hands Off!! !"

In other parts of Asia, the women are not only sweet and submissive, but accessible. Accessibility is a very important issue.


Irrelevant, a country being a destination for sex tourism doesn't mean it has the most desirable women.



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14 Mar 2013, 9:42 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Irrelevant, a country being a destination for sex tourism doesn't mean it has the most desirable women.


Well, enlighten us, then. Tell us about the advantages of Sri Lankan women, and their likelihood to have any interest in North American/European men.

Where I am, a South-Central Asian person is seldom seen, except in science laboratories.



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14 Mar 2013, 10:09 am

ArrantPariah wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Irrelevant, a country being a destination for sex tourism doesn't mean it has the most desirable women.


Well, enlighten us, then. Tell us about the advantages of Sri Lankan women, and their likelihood to have any interest in North American/European men.

Where I am, a South-Central Asian person is seldom seen, except in science laboratories.


The prostitution industry itself there might have advantages for the sex-tourists, not necessary the general beauty of women there, it might be the prices, the accessibility ...etc. I dunno, never been a sex-tourist myself.

A country being a sex-tourism destination is hardly an indication of the attractiveness of their local women. Plus, most prostitution traders usually don't rely only on local women but more often on foreigner women, especially women from nearby countries.

My country is a sex destination for tourists from nearby country, not become our women are the most desirable or something like that, but simply because prostitution exists here.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prostitution_in_Lebanon



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14 Mar 2013, 10:11 am

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^^ and I believe this all goes down to...again.... humans proven to be apes again: looks.

Masculine features vs Feminine features .

- Asian girls have "typical feminine" physical features: short height, the softness of skin, the eyes, ..etc/ while their men have the same features making them look "less masculine".

Africans have the opposite case of Asians.


Lol. This is the biggest load of crap I ever heard. There is no source that shows Asians have softer skin, or have more feminine eyes. In fact, Asian women have relatively small eyes. Bigger eyes are proven to be related to more estrogen. All this has to do with prejudice and racial bias. Asian women are seen as submissive, cute and sweet. The 'feminine' qualities in looks that they do posses (Full lips, round face, small chin) are 'enlarged' in peoples perception and now people say they look more 'feminine' than any other race. Which is completely untrue. Asians have softer hair? Not in my experience. White women have far softer, flowier hair. You could also say that Asians have the flattest ass, smallest tits and are therefore less feminine. Thinner is not more feminine, at all.
Thus, absolute nonsense.


lol...Café...
You've missed the " " for "typical feminine" since I am talking on people perception basis, not being scientific. The " " were put there to indicate that it's not really true.

As for the eyes, I meant the shape, not their size.

This is my hypothesis why Caucasian men are so crazy about them.

Personally I find Asian women have a bit more ....child-like physical features but that's just me, I might mistake a typical 20 years old Asian woman for being 15-16; but they have the advantage of looking younger in 30s. However, many men perceive them as more feminine.

And I don't think they see them more feminine because they perceive them as submissive and sweet but mainly because of their looks, Sri Lankan women are raised to be submissive too but you don't see Caucasian men liking them. Every time a such forum debate arises you see men posting pictures of beautiful Asian women, this is all how they think of "Asian women".


The fact is those perceptions are biased. The average Asian woman you see on the streets looks nowhere near those beautiful models posted. And how is the Asian eye-shape more feminine? In fact, women on average have more obvious tearducts, something a lot of Asian women lack. My mom is half Asian herself... Mila Kunis for example has typically 'feminine' eyes.



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14 Mar 2013, 10:16 am

Cafeaulait wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Cafeaulait wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
^^ and I believe this all goes down to...again.... humans proven to be apes again: looks.

Masculine features vs Feminine features .

- Asian girls have "typical feminine" physical features: short height, the softness of skin, the eyes, ..etc/ while their men have the same features making them look "less masculine".

Africans have the opposite case of Asians.


Lol. This is the biggest load of crap I ever heard. There is no source that shows Asians have softer skin, or have more feminine eyes. In fact, Asian women have relatively small eyes. Bigger eyes are proven to be related to more estrogen. All this has to do with prejudice and racial bias. Asian women are seen as submissive, cute and sweet. The 'feminine' qualities in looks that they do posses (Full lips, round face, small chin) are 'enlarged' in peoples perception and now people say they look more 'feminine' than any other race. Which is completely untrue. Asians have softer hair? Not in my experience. White women have far softer, flowier hair. You could also say that Asians have the flattest ass, smallest tits and are therefore less feminine. Thinner is not more feminine, at all.
Thus, absolute nonsense.


lol...Café...
You've missed the " " for "typical feminine" since I am talking on people perception basis, not being scientific. The " " were put there to indicate that it's not really true.

As for the eyes, I meant the shape, not their size.

This is my hypothesis why Caucasian men are so crazy about them.

Personally I find Asian women have a bit more ....child-like physical features but that's just me, I might mistake a typical 20 years old Asian woman for being 15-16; but they have the advantage of looking younger in 30s. However, many men perceive them as more feminine.

And I don't think they see them more feminine because they perceive them as submissive and sweet but mainly because of their looks, Sri Lankan women are raised to be submissive too but you don't see Caucasian men liking them. Every time a such forum debate arises you see men posting pictures of beautiful Asian women, this is all how they think of "Asian women".


The fact is those perceptions are biased. The average Asian woman you see on the streets looks nowhere near those beautiful models posted. And how is the Asian eye-shape more feminine? In fact, women on average have more obvious tearducts, something a lot of Asian women lack. My mom is half Asian herself... Mila Kunis for example has typically 'feminine' eyes.


I agree - but it's that bias which is creating all this "Asian fetish" you're seeing here and there.

When men say they prefer Asian women, they usually mean above-average-looking Asian women. Meh. Don't shoot the messenger.



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14 Mar 2013, 12:53 pm

Cafeaulait wrote:
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This thread is full of so many assumptions and stereotypes, it's crazy. None of the Asian girls I know personally would be comfortable with a guy who sits around and analyzes their race so much. It's like an obsession/fetish and dehumanizing. However, most of the people I know are mostly recent immigrants or, like me, did not become very Westernized. I do know there are American born Asians who are culturally like every other American, though. The only Asian thing about them is their genes.

If you like Asian girls solely for looks then you'd probably have a better chance with a girl who was born in the same county as you.


I think it's scary and sickening.


Let's keep in mind that Asia is a continent. This discussion thread is clearly focused on Eastern Asia along with neighboring Pacific islands and the peoples of that region. Clearly, there are cultural commonalities and cultural differences in that region that have an effect on the customs and functionalities of interpersonal relationships. When one speaks of an "Asian", the discussion is actually of very broad scope. So, when someone says that Asian women tend to have better compatibility with men, that is a statement of culture and not race. However, if an individual has an appreciation of their physical characteristics, then that is an appreciation of their race. Some of the issues and exceptions taken to this discussion are really founded in the ambiguous use of the term "Asian." However, I think it's very reasonable to expect that readers can understand the implied context of statements. I can tell you from personal experience, that a Chinese woman can be very quick to make points of Chinese culture that are not racial. And, I can tell you from personal experience, that a woman who has a very positive attitude toward men seems a lot more warm and cuddly - attitude counts.



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14 Mar 2013, 4:44 pm

I could date a female Chinese bodyguard I wouldnt have to worry about protecting her since she could protect me from evil ex gfs! [youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qF9iofDpf0g[/youtube]Ill...just be sure to not make her angry.. I could end up dead but aww they are so cute awwwww!! !


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14 Mar 2013, 7:36 pm

I'm speechless.

Where exactly do you guys get information about Asian women?

Taking care of aging parents wouldn't be a deal breaker?

Asian girls are more "accessible"?

What am I reading? I think you might need to step into a TIME MACHINE before trying to get with an Asian girl. I'm just.... speechless... is this thread real or is it meant to be sarcastic? I don't know anymore. 8O



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14 Mar 2013, 8:00 pm

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Where exactly do you guys get information about Asian women?

Taking care of aging parents wouldn't be a deal breaker?

Asian girls are more "accessible"?


Here is one documentary, relevant to the current situation in Korea:

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jqh3EZDRLa8[/youtube]

Here is a Singaporean documentary:

http://www.cutv.ws/documentary/watch-on ... Match-Made

The documentary follows a middle-age Singaporean man who travels to Vietnam to select a wife. Heavens, what a selection.

The fellow lives with his parents in Singapore, and wants a wife to take care of him and his aging mother. In America, a middle-aged man who lived with his parents would be labeled a "loser", and have zero chance for romance (except for our Howard Wolowitz 8) ), particularly if he expected his wife to take care of his mother. I sure wouldn't want to marry the guy in the documentary--he seems a bit strict, and what if his mother didn't like me?



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14 Mar 2013, 9:02 pm

Um, you do realize these aren't common scenarios, right?

I guess all Americans DO live in mansions and have blonde hair!



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14 Mar 2013, 9:21 pm

Yes, in some Asian countries, like India for example, it is more common to live with family. It's the same way in Latin America and many other cultures, as well. Not exclusive to Asia.

As far as being accessible, submissive, etc., I think you are looking for an Asian prostitute.

If you have any male Asian friend in RL, ask him "are Asian girls really crazy?" You will get a funny answer. Asian guys have their own generalization of Asian women and it's very much the OPPOSITE of what you guys seem to think of them. That quiet and shy Asian girl might only be quiet because she doesn't know you. That's common social etiquette in Japan and Korea. She might be a party animal when hanging out with friends. You don't know.

I don't understand how this type of stereotyping is considered okay. Many of you have a lot of strange notions about Asian culture that are far from true or extremely outdated. Why can't you just say that you like submissive and feminine women instead of saying you want to date an Asian girl because she's more likely to be submissive and feminine (alongside other stereotypes listed here).

BTW, when I say "Asian", I mean mostly Japanese and Korean which are the cultures I'm familiar with. I am extremely familiar with India and lived there for some time with a family.



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15 Mar 2013, 7:52 am

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As far as being accessible, submissive, etc., I think you are looking for an Asian prostitute.

By "accessible", I meant as opposed to some Moslem countries, where the women would be completely off limits.

kouzoku wrote:
BTW, when I say "Asian", I mean mostly Japanese and Korean which are the cultures I'm familiar with. I am extremely familiar with India and lived there for some time with a family.


There is a lot more to Asia than that.

There is Thailand

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_lroiE91Q2g[/youtube]

where the ladies are more than accessible.

Also, the Philippines

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7M-taILlmms[/youtube]

And, Singapore was having a sale on Vietnamese brides

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dnm1v3ju9w8[/youtube]