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I'm a 21 year old virgin, while I'm not saving myself for marriage, I am saving any intimate relationships for someone who is just as interested in spening a life together as I am, in other words a future wife, but if she wanted to wait till we we're married id be fine with that.

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I am the 19-year-old virgin. I've never even held hands. Not until fairly recently did it begin to dawn on me that most people my age aren't virgins any longer. Why even really unattractive people can get some action is a mystery to me.

That's a mystery to me too.

Aspies can be good looking and still be virgins. This leads me to believe that we are unattractive in a mental way rather than a physical way. Women (and men to a lesser extent) don't want to have sex with someone they view as weird or insane, not even if they are good looking on the outside.

This notion has always bothered me but sadly I can't say it isn't true. Many men around my age who are uglier than I am have had much more success with women. I like to think more that these people are just more shrewd than I am (we are?) when it comes to these things, being more charming and being there first, though even then that sort of thing may make the difference to how happy we'll ultimately be

Anyway, I'm 21

There's no mystery to it. It's just that being the cool guy people like is FAR more important in attracting women than looks are. It seems looks only help as kind of a tiebreaker when you already have all the social aspects in place. I've always described myself as looking good on paper, as I look decent, have a good job, well educated, and have many interests. However, personal interface is not made through online profiles & people get a much different impression of me in real life being a fish out of water socially.

Unfortuantely, my social issues will be a lifelong problem to some degree. However, I have had success with women by just being forward. From much expereince, having the guts to make your move without fear or hesitation goes a long way.

As of June 2008, I will be The 18-Year-Old-Virgin.

OMG, are you serious?
As for me, it's none of you people's business.
I don't have a virginal problem.

I am now trying my best to wait until marriage.

i am the 18 year old virgin
i used to think it was "normal" (i hate that word) for me to be virgin a this age, but i realize all my schoolmates are not.
I have never dated a girl, Ever, but one girl kissed me one time (i was talking to my friend in school when this girl came out of nowhere and kissed me, i totally freaked out and backed of), thats as far as i have gone in terms of relationships
but im happy the way it is, you know, ill get to it when it is meant for me.

Of course not. You're a female. Aspie women have far more luck than Aspie men.

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Of course not. You're a female. Aspie women have far more luck than Aspie men.[/quote]
That's not true according to what I've read and also from talking to a few aspie women on this site. Relationships can be just as hard for us sometimes. We might get laid, but that's because it's what most men want. We're likely to get taken advantage of, and raped in some cases. Pick your poison.

Did I hit a nerve on Psychlone?

Maybe I should stop teasing ppl about sex, it seems to be a big issue on some of these forums.

As for me, I don't take sex serious. I'd like to get laid but in reality that's stupid, sex is meaningless without some relationship.

I agree. I don't think it's any easier or more difficult for either gender.

18 and still a virgin, but most of my peers are.

It is probably very hard to make comparisons to different situations. There is; however, some advice that I can give to an aspie woman. The best way to find the perfect guy is simple. Obstain from having sex with him for up to a year, if he really love you, he will stick around. If he is a user, you will just be wasting his time. If you cannot do this, you have to rethink your priorities.


As for aspie men or aspie woman having equal hard time dating, it cannot be scientifically correct. Different situation always bring up different results. For example if you created two different 2.3ltr Sports car,same specs, from two different countries and raced them the chances of them passing the finishing mark within one tenths of a millisecond( THE SAME TIME). is one in amillions

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