Will any female here actually admit to liking jerks?

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It was mutual I know how to shut my legs and open them if I want it. It just didn't never work out. I'm over it!

I just don't like people implying to me that I was a jerk because I didn't spread my legs. "He has needs you know" So f*****g what!

If people need me to clarify. Why? then don't they just ask instead of jumping down my throat first and was very quick to remark insinuating insults.
I have never got a response to a thread so fast - You wonder then if they was not sure what I meant ? they can reply with judgments so quick.

Last edited by BellaDonna on 05 Feb 2009, 11:35 am, edited 1 time in total.

Same here. Problem is, that seems to happen A LOT....

Belladonna, you're never going to control how others react, respond, or reply. You can either make a big deal about every time you're unhappy with what happens, you can deal with it directly with that person, or you can accept that these things happen and move on, among a litany of other options. The continual diatribe of your past experience is understandable, but does grow to become a distraction. People are people, they're going to be rude, inconsiderate, irrational and cruel - and none of us can change that in others, only in ourselves. If it something you face, then it might be best to change the environment instead of being constantly upset by their responses.


M.

No why should I! I say it like it is and if people don't like it they can go else where or keep their opinions to themselves.
There is a difference between being assertive and upset.

I agree with Cartesian Atheist. However, you don't have to be all "man roar" about it.
That sort of attitude is the real cause of the feminist problem.

As soon as you start to stick labels on people and assign them roles, chaos will emerge to destroy the order that controlling humans try to create.

I have quoted this for truth. Those who complain about another group of people that won't stay down and know their place are the cause of the resultant upsurge against them. It is the oppression and resistance to change that makes it intolerable.

Merle

It is the ugly side of human nature to seize an opportunity to benefit from another's misfortune.
By sticking people in a corner and creating expectations of them, you sort of create an illusion for them to be something other than who they really are. Personally unaware people are fuel that drives our economy.

*shakes head* Nope, sorry - the world doesn't revolve around you. You can either learn to adapt, or continue to be unhappy, but you're not going to change others. From this perspective, you aren't being. Demanding and petulant would be a little more apt to be the words I would choose, since you seem to believe your public demands that people conform to your expectations and desires will be met. Instead of following your own advice and asking questions, you've launched on offensive diatribes. Take a moment and think about it.


M.

Every one has the right to thier opinion and to express thier emotions. That is all I have done and I see no fault. Rather I would have done if I had not taken a stand against sexually oppressive comments.

Taking a stand against a point of view is one thing; taking aim at others is another entirely. You can stand up for yourself, by all means, but you're not welcome to attack others in order to defend your standing. I'd be curious what is sexually oppressive in what was said, though... some people believe sex is a right, others a privilege, others have a lot of context required. Your statements have been somewhat erratic and inconsistent concerning the story, to a point where it is easy to get confused as to what you are actually referencing in your posts.

Again, consider that you did the opposite of what you demand from others - you expect them to ask questions, but instead spew vitriol when you are confused.


M.

BellaDonna, once again, my comment wasn't meant how you seem to have interpreted it.

Thankyou I think it was of just one person who kept posting (s**t stirring) - now I think they was doing. That upset me.

Belladonna -

I don't quite see where you were attacked in this thread; even if you were, it does NOT justify your behavior. Period. If anything, be the better person rather than being drawn down to their level, if that is how you feel. I've looked, and I see no apology as I read back through the thread. If I've missed it, you have my apology, but with the amount of editing and confusion through your posts, it is hard to figure out what is being said consistently. Calm down, and hopefully you will have a better day.


M.

I may have made this apology in another thread. I did express why and how I am sorry.

If it is not in the relevant thread, then I am uncertain how you would expect anyone to know about said apology.

I think this has been hijacked long enough; anyone still on the original thread?


M.