Do you miss someone right now?

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20 Oct 2018, 11:41 pm

The same Aspie man I have been missing for at least six months, perhaps years with whom I have only had brief encounters of varying intimacy. From just knowing each other are in the room, intense moments of eye contact, to cuddles that feel like a hurricane of emotions all at once to recently being completely unable to be restrained in intense passion....

I have had previous relationships and longed for an intense connection that didn't need constant verbal validation, I was conditioned to neurotypical relationships... I have never felt this intensity with another person before.

He needs time to process. I need time to allow my life to properly ground itself.

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21 Oct 2018, 12:24 am

Yeah. I can't say much more, just that I'm concerned.

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21 Oct 2018, 12:34 am

RightGalaxy wrote:

Yes. My husband of 25 years who is (thank God) alive and well. He's a workaholic. I can't even sleep in the same bed with him at night because of my horrendous snoring. I miss him. At dinner, I am shooshed because the news is on. After dinner, I am shooshed because his favorite shows are on. On weekends, I am shooshed because he is either thinking, praying, or listening to something. I am depressed and very lonely.

That is really sad. I know how it feels to be feeling neglected, lonely and depressed in a relationship. Seems like a silly question, but have you spoken to him about how you feel, how you would like more quality time together and how this is affecting your health?
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21 Oct 2018, 12:58 am

Yes, but it was best we lost contact. Long story on that though.

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25 Oct 2018, 3:56 pm

I miss two WP someones very much: a male someone and a long-lost female someone.
I hope they know who they are. :cry: :cry: :cry:

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25 Oct 2018, 4:56 pm

I don't think I have the ability to miss someone or at least don't recognise the feeling

sound like a psychopath

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25 Oct 2018, 5:08 pm

SaveFerris wrote:

I don't think I have the ability to miss someone or at least don't recognise the feeling

sound like a psychopath

I hear you Ferris! I don't miss anyone in real life, except for my late father and a friend from 35 years ago.
I wouldn't really know that feeling either.

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25 Oct 2018, 6:38 pm

IsabellaLinton wrote:

SaveFerris wrote:

I don't think I have the ability to miss someone or at least don't recognise the feeling

sound like a psychopath

I hear you Ferris! I don't miss anyone in real life, except for my late father and a friend from 35 years ago.
I wouldn't really know that feeling either.

My GF used to hate it when she'd been on holiday for two weeks and asked if I missed her.

She understands me better now.

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25 Oct 2018, 6:40 pm

SaveFerris wrote:

IsabellaLinton wrote:

SaveFerris wrote:

I don't think I have the ability to miss someone or at least don't recognise the feeling

sound like a psychopath

I hear you Ferris! I don't miss anyone in real life, except for my late father and a friend from 35 years ago.
I wouldn't really know that feeling either.

My GF used to hate it when she'd been on holiday for two weeks and asked if I missed her.

She understands me better now.

(Isabella laughs out loud, knowing your predicament all too well.... :roll:

I hate that question, too!)
Why does missing have to mean caring? I don't get it.

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25 Oct 2018, 7:23 pm

my 6 year old daughter and 16 and 14 year old step daughters and my 12 year old step son, it will be 3 years this xmas since i was last allowed contact with them.

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02 Nov 2018, 3:19 pm

It's complicated, but yes. More than I ever believed I could possibly miss another person. More like how I'd miss oxygen if somehow that situation wasn't allowed to resolve itself and instead dragged on endlessly (although more like the sensation when CO2 saturation can't be resolved, since lack of oxygen just leads to unconsciousness, it's the other one that induces panic). I suppose a sinus infection that instead of being centred behind and between your eyes was consuming your entire soul might serve as an analogy.

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18 Nov 2018, 1:28 pm

I miss my social butterfly, but I know she doesn't miss me.

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18 Nov 2018, 11:08 pm

OK, I officially miss someone and I feel it. :cry: :cry: :cry:

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11 Dec 2018, 6:50 am

I miss someone i never met and only have been talking for a few weeks.

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12 Dec 2018, 7:53 am

I miss the same person I wrote that I missed months ago on here.
Have shared special experiences with him since.

I want to tell him "I miss your touch.
I'm also in love with you.
But you may of guessed that by my touch."
But I don't want to make him feel uncomfortable or overwhelmed by my feelings.

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12 Dec 2018, 6:43 pm

I really do but nobody was looking for me, she just found me anyway & that's simply the way things are.

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