Why do guys hate fat chicks?

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Would you date someone fatter than you?
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17 Jul 2010, 6:36 am

yeah, seriously. I'm just not attracted to fat people. ew.



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17 Jul 2010, 7:48 am

lotusblossom wrote:
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Why would I hate aids? Why would you hate anything? I have never known a fat vegetarian. ever. It's impossible. Eating meat, we are cannibals. We are animals eating animals.

Ive known lots of fat vegetarians, there would not be a 'vegatarian low carb diet cook book' if there were not lots of fat vegetarians. I was even fat when I was a vegan, I could make a lovely vegan chocolate cake


I'm a chubby vegetarian. I actually GAINED weight whewn I went veg, cuz I gave up lean meats and fish for more carbs as protein.

That said, who cares? Seriously, if a person is a bit heavy that doesn't mean they are unhealthy, My cholesterol is 130.



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17 Jul 2010, 8:36 am

Why would I not date fat chicks? Because they might explode if I try to...

Wait, you meant women...

I've dated overweight or "oddly proportioned" women before. And while there are a lot of big girls out there who are really nice, I've also found that they tend to be more contentious than slimmer girls.

I'm not saying all big girls ARE like that, but that has just been my personal experience, and after breaking up with one in particular who made my life a living hell I avoided big girls. It might be coincidence, but those girls I've been with since seemed to have a much happier outlook on life!



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17 Jul 2010, 8:46 am

Regarding low carb diets, make sure you pick cheap cuts of meat and not good cuts or ground meats. The tougher the meat, the better. The reason is that tougher meats fill you up faster and prevent you from getting hungry for a longer time than tender cuts.

Also, you should avoid fats, but not at the expense of carbs. A lot of fat free stuff is loaded down with carbs and it rarely tastes as good. Generally, the "light" version is a good compromise between lots of fat and lots of carbs.

Lastly, avoid diet products that contain aspartame. It has no carbs itself, but I have read reports that it actually lowers your metabolism and makes you gain weight. Use diet products that have Splenda or saccharin instead.



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17 Jul 2010, 8:47 am

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I don't hate fat chicks, I just avoid them. Like aids. They are unhealthy. I have never met an interesting fat person. I don't know why, this just seems to be the case. Fat people are naturally unappealing. It is possibly natures way of punishing people who eat too much meat or people who don't take care of their bodies.


Really? Larger people tend to have a better sense of humor I think. Skinny girls tend to be more high-maintenance. They complain that they're fat when they're not just for attention.

I do take care of my body, sir. I'm rarely sick. I'm just large. (If you saw my family, you'd see that we're all large people save for the lucky few with high metabolism) Does this mean I deserve to be punished because I'm not magazine worthy?

Also, thank you for comparing me to the incurable AIDS. That does wonders for the self esteem. :/



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17 Jul 2010, 8:49 am

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Regarding low carb diets, make sure you pick cheap cuts of meat and not good cuts or ground meats. The tougher the meat, the better. The reason is that tougher meats fill you up faster and prevent you from getting hungry for a longer time than tender cuts.

Also, you should avoid fats, but not at the expense of carbs. A lot of fat free stuff is loaded down with carbs and it rarely tastes as good. Generally, the "light" version is a good compromise between lots of fat and lots of carbs.

Lastly, avoid diet products that contain aspartame. It has no carbs itself, but I have read reports that it actually lowers your metabolism and makes you gain weight. Use diet products that have Splenda or saccharin instead.


Doesn't Splenda have aspartame in it?



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17 Jul 2010, 11:10 am

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Also, thank you for comparing me to the incurable AIDS. That does wonders for the self esteem. :/


Don't listen to him, he only posts when he can start trouble.


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17 Jul 2010, 1:55 pm

Erisad wrote:
Doesn't Splenda have aspartame in it?


Doesn't look like it does:

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Splenda usually contains 95% dextrose and maltodextrin which the body readily metabolizes, combined with a small amount of mostly indigestible sucralose. Sucralose is made by replacing three select hydrogen-oxygen groups on sucrose (table sugar) molecules with three chlorine atoms. The tightly bound chlorine atoms create a molecular structure that is remarkably stable.[10] Sucralose itself is recognized as safe to ingest as a diabetic sugar substitute,[11][12] but some Splenda products may contain sugars or other carbohydrates that should be evaluated individually. Research as of 2003 suggested that the amount of sucralose that can be consumed on a daily basis over a person's lifetime without any adverse effects is 15 mg/kg/day,[13] or about 1 g for a 70 kg (150 lb) person. This was revised downward in 2008 to 9 mg/kg/day, or about 0.6 g.[14]


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17 Jul 2010, 3:24 pm

Pistonhead wrote:
Erisad wrote:
Also, thank you for comparing me to the incurable AIDS. That does wonders for the self esteem. :/


Don't listen to him, he only posts when he can start trouble.


Yeah. I wasn't fully awake yet when I replied to him, if I was I would have ignored him. *shrug*

Besides, I'm happy because my clothes are starting to fit better. Hooray for progress!^_^

@SabbraCadabra - huh. My mistake. I use Truvia sweetener instead because I prefer the taste of it to Splenda but to each his/her own. XD



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17 Jul 2010, 4:24 pm

Erisad wrote:
Does this mean I deserve to be punished because I'm not magazine worthy?
Your picture shows you to be magazine worthy, You are reading the wrong magazines.


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17 Jul 2010, 6:20 pm

I don't date or not date based on looks. I date the person behind the body. I guess I'm one of the apparently rare people who can actually differentiate between sex and love.



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17 Jul 2010, 7:15 pm

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Why would I not date fat chicks? Because they might explode if I try to...

Wait, you meant women...

I've dated overweight or "oddly proportioned" women before. And while there are a lot of big girls out there who are really nice, I've also found that they tend to be more contentious than slimmer girls.

I'm not saying all big girls ARE like that, but that has just been my personal experience, and after breaking up with one in particular who made my life a living hell I avoided big girls. It might be coincidence, but those girls I've been with since seemed to have a much happier outlook on life!


Chubby girls with bad attitudes are just a big plate of suck.

I think there is some sort of subconscious thing where they will s**t test you harder because they think there is something wrong with you for dating because they are profoundly aware of what is wrong with them.

Which is really an example of a maladaptation. The only guys who will pass these s**t tests are the complete as*holes who have other factors holding them back from getting someone higher up in dating market value.



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17 Jul 2010, 7:16 pm

Narwhal wrote:
I don't date or not date based on looks. I date the person behind the body. I guess I'm one of the apparently rare people who can actually differentiate between sex and love.


Should we give you a cookie? :wink:



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17 Jul 2010, 7:57 pm

Erisad wrote:
SaNcheNuSS wrote:
I don't hate fat chicks, I just avoid them. Like aids. They are unhealthy. I have never met an interesting fat person. I don't know why, this just seems to be the case. Fat people are naturally unappealing. It is possibly natures way of punishing people who eat too much meat or people who don't take care of their bodies.


Really? Larger people tend to have a better sense of humor I think. Skinny girls tend to be more high-maintenance. They complain that they're fat when they're not just for attention


I notice the same things. I've known a few skinny women who wer obsessed with their appearance & they wer using their looks to trick/manipulate guys. I never heard of a fat crack-whore


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17 Jul 2010, 8:35 pm

RICKY5 wrote:
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Why would I not date fat chicks? Because they might explode if I try to...

Wait, you meant women...

I've dated overweight or "oddly proportioned" women before. And while there are a lot of big girls out there who are really nice, I've also found that they tend to be more contentious than slimmer girls.

I'm not saying all big girls ARE like that, but that has just been my personal experience, and after breaking up with one in particular who made my life a living hell I avoided big girls. It might be coincidence, but those girls I've been with since seemed to have a much happier outlook on life!


Chubby girls with bad attitudes are just a big plate of suck.

I think there is some sort of subconscious thing where they will sh** test you harder because they think there is something wrong with you for dating because they are profoundly aware of what is wrong with them.

Which is really an example of a maladaptation. The only guys who will pass these sh** tests are the complete as*holes who have other factors holding them back from getting someone higher up in dating market value.


Anyone with a bad attitude is a big plate of suck...


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17 Jul 2010, 10:54 pm

RICKY5 wrote:
AngelRho wrote:
Why would I not date fat chicks? Because they might explode if I try to...

Wait, you meant women...

I've dated overweight or "oddly proportioned" women before. And while there are a lot of big girls out there who are really nice, I've also found that they tend to be more contentious than slimmer girls.

I'm not saying all big girls ARE like that, but that has just been my personal experience, and after breaking up with one in particular who made my life a living hell I avoided big girls. It might be coincidence, but those girls I've been with since seemed to have a much happier outlook on life!


Chubby girls with bad attitudes are just a big plate of suck.

I think there is some sort of subconscious thing where they will sh** test you harder because they think there is something wrong with you for dating because they are profoundly aware of what is wrong with them.

Which is really an example of a maladaptation. The only guys who will pass these sh** tests are the complete as*holes who have other factors holding them back from getting someone higher up in dating market value.


I've never thought about it that way before, but this does seem to be accurate, at least from my perspective.

I don't want to come across as a misogynist because I do have a lot of respect for women, regardless of size and shape. But yeah, I got "tested" on a daily basis with one girl.

What happened to me was that EVERY FREAKING DAY I was accused of doing something disgustingly horrible. It didn't matter how important whatever "it" happened to be that day really was, but I ALWAYS ended up having to apologize for SOMETHING, half the time I didn't even know what it was.

The problem is eventually you just get used to being "wrong" all the time and just take your punishment. For me, I got a wake-up call that made me really ponder whether it was right to just live with that crap for the rest of my life. There are two words women in general should just eliminate from their vocabulary when talking to or about men: "Always," and "Never." My reawakening happened when I could look at myself in the mirror and honestly say that AT LEAST 85% of the time I'm a nice guy. So I made up my mind that from that point forward I'd "NEVER" be wrong again. ;) And I was amazed by how often I seemed to be "right" after I broke up with her!

The test is definitely a setup in which the man must necessarily fail. I'm not saying big girls always do this, but assuming for the sake of argument that they do, isn't it hypocritical that such unreasonable demands be made when the girl making said demands fails to address her own perceived faults? Putting a girl, regardless of her looks, through that kind of trauma is just more than I can stand. Don't MAKE me responsible for your own insecurities.