hyperlexian wrote:
i'd go for it anyway Quartz11, because you have nothing to lose (unless she's actually in a relationship, because that would be weird). you've been waiting a long time already.
but i am not an expert on how to deal with hings like that appropriately - i tend to really bold and brash.
good luck, i'm crossing my fingers for you.
Nope. She's not in any sort of relationship. I just saw her leave at about 4, so she could get back to her apt. and get ready to head back home to visit friends there... and apparently the other guy.
I had gone to the city about 11 with my brother, my cousin, and my cousin's fiancee. The gal came along at about 12:30 or so, I had her meet me at a subway station. She followed the four of us for a few hours as my cousin and her fiancee (here from the west coast) followed their touristy itinerary.
I'm not sure what to make of the day. I really don't. I really should ask my cousin and try and get her thoughts on what happened. I hope she had a good day today, and she did give me a hug right before we split off - us to the car, her to the subway station.
While we were walking, I had mentioned to her that I had two goals for the day. One was to see her, the other was to go to a record store. And she had responded something like "cause I'm the cool girl"? I said something like... yea. Never got to the record store either... my brother wouldn't let me stray off long enough to make a quick stop there.