Reasons why you're a bad catch

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25 Jul 2011, 4:30 pm

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-Have trouble when receiving pep-talks because my mother uses them as a starter for the why dont you get a girlfriend question(something like you have a great personality, are a very bright person.....so I wonder why dont you have a girlfrend and then a 20 minute rant about how much my life sucks because I dont have a girlfriend). I know that they are needed at certain times but whenever I think I dont need one which is 99% of the time I´ll tell the other person that I appreciate their effort but its not needed which can hurt other people.

I hate when pep-talks end up changing to why you or your life sucks talks...meh.

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-Have an odd sense of style and isnt ashamed of showing it most of the time.(Currently working on changing this one)

I have a childish style half the time because I LOVE colors.

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-Have been an spoiled brat for 14 years of my life and have been trying to hard to pretend Im just an average person the last couple of years(If I cant accept myself as I am no one else will, Im aware of that but I still need some time to accept the being forced to play golf/do poshy things since I was 6 and being bullied at school because of this) which has had its up and its downs. Everything is fine until somebody asks for where I live/I get out my visa gold then they start asking questions about my background and i begin to worry about the just being around me for monetary reasons.

This is what inspired me to remark on your post:
My dad is a doctor, yet I don't fit into the stereotypical doctor's kid role.
We live in a big-ish house, but nothing extraordinary, and it isn't furnished nicely.
We have cars, but they aren't your typical "nice" cars.
I could go on and on.
I am not used to living posh, that being said, I am used to having the type of food I need.
Apparently I have an expensive taste because a bowl of soup can run a couple of dollars-homemade.
But both my parents grew up poor, so I have no idea if that is expensive or not.
I am always scared to say my dad is a doctor because that implies wealth when really, I have no clue if he is rich or not. My mom's a saver, and pretty much enforces that on my dad.
Ok, done with extraordinarily long rant.

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-Still trying to find my way through university, Im getting there but Im probably going to be living with my parents for a few years.

I can't WAIT to get out of the house.

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-Lack of several skills needed to do something that seems simple to most people. Ive been doing some efforts but i still cant cool down a coffee changing it from glass to glass at constant speed for example.Please reffer to the spoiled brat part,if something was too hot my mother cooled it down.

Don't drink coffee then.

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25 Jul 2011, 7:19 pm

Sometimes I feel just as Calvin does:

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25 Jul 2011, 10:10 pm

I ignore my own feelings.

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25 Jul 2011, 10:14 pm

I'm a bad catch because when I hold hands, I burn a hole right through as I'm so hot.

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25 Jul 2011, 11:57 pm

swbluto wrote:

I'm a bad catch because when I hold hands, I burn a hole right through as I'm so hot.

I'd take the heat. :wink:

Sorry, couldn't resist.

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26 Jul 2011, 12:06 am

-terrible listener
-self centered
-insecure
-cant make friends
-10 lbs overweight
-unemployed
-wont sleep with you
-wont kiss you
-hate being touched
-attention span of a 2 year old
-terrible drunk

How i plan to fix this:
-get a job
-listen to other people
-stop eating only waffles, chocolate, and peanut butter
-drink only after noon (vodka shots are not breakfast)

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26 Jul 2011, 12:08 am

I think too much. Too cautious.

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26 Jul 2011, 8:21 pm

Im overy logical
too nice
not emotionaly suportive
im restless
easly distracted wait a minute what were we talking abought :oops:
steel the blakets, hog the bed, and kick while asleap
ramble on while talking
have to be reminded to do every thing thats not habit
i smoke
drive realy fast
and cant spell to save my life
have a rediculus sx drive
awake 40 sleep 6 and pace at night
could take on the world if i could rememer what i was doing

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26 Jul 2011, 10:58 pm

I'm a fuddy-duddy and an eccentric.
I usually use language that is so elaborate as to be confusing to 99% of people.
I don't have conventional (predictable) emotions.

Ok, that's enough pessimism for one post!

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26 Jul 2011, 11:06 pm

*Addendum*

In addition to what I mentioned before:

- Relies on WP as sole social support network.

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26 Jul 2011, 11:09 pm

Grisha wrote:

*Addendum*

In addition to what I mentioned before:

- Relies on WP as sole social support network.

Well there issssssss always FB. There's a whole WP community on there.

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27 Jul 2011, 12:32 am

chrissyrun wrote:

Grisha wrote:

*Addendum*

In addition to what I mentioned before:

- Relies on WP as sole social support network.

Well there issssssss always FB. There's a whole WP community on there.

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27 Jul 2011, 1:48 am

I worry WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY too much. Drama queen I guess. :oops:

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27 Jul 2011, 1:49 am

haha you made me cry a bit.

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27 Jul 2011, 1:54 am

sagan wrote:

haha you made me cry a bit.

Wait, WHAT? When did i make you cry....owowowo, today. :roll:

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27 Jul 2011, 7:54 am

Is it bad that quite a few of these reasons for people being a bad catch would actually make me attracted to the person?

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