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09 Jul 2022, 5:08 pm

IsabellaLinton wrote:
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When it comes to women being attracted to the best genes, wouldn't a lot of them put more emphasis in autism being a deciding factor in genes or no?
Autism wasn't even in the equation until 1980's. Nobody knew about it. Before then, it was much simpler:
* good looks = good genes
* bad looks = bad genes

Until 1960's, there was also the social control that pushed people to marry young regardless of their marital partner's looks and/or genetic desirability. But I'll get issued a warning if I discuss it in any more detail than this.

In addition, most autistic men don't look attractive during their young years, because nature. So it all checks out.



Why do they get raped and preyed upon by men whether NT or Autistic?

Is that just part of male genetics?


Autism makes everyone more vulnerable to manipulation and crime regardless of sex.

It's part of autistic genetics.



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09 Jul 2022, 5:09 pm

IsabellaLinton wrote:
Oh wait. I forgot. Autistic women usually have vaginas. ^

Silly me.


Yes, they are a different species entirely.



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09 Jul 2022, 5:12 pm

Nades wrote:
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When it comes to women being attracted to the best genes, wouldn't a lot of them put more emphasis in autism being a deciding factor in genes or no?
Autism wasn't even in the equation until 1980's. Nobody knew about it. Before then, it was much simpler:
* good looks = good genes
* bad looks = bad genes

Until 1960's, there was also the social control that pushed people to marry young regardless of their marital partner's looks and/or genetic desirability. But I'll get issued a warning if I discuss it in any more detail than this.

In addition, most autistic men don't look attractive during their young years, because nature. So it all checks out.



Why do they get raped and preyed upon by men whether NT or Autistic?

Is that just part of male genetics?


Autism makes everyone more vulnerable to manipulation and crime regardless of sex.

It's part of autistic genetics.


Crime, including rape, can certainly happen to anyone.

Women are much more likely to be raped by males, though.

Is raping people a male trait?

Do we see where the problem lies here?



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09 Jul 2022, 5:14 pm

We need to stop using science to further sexism. Back in the day, people argued that since women’s brains are smaller they are less intelligent. Now people vaguely talk about genes and evolutionary biology to make their misogyny sound fact-based.



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09 Jul 2022, 5:17 pm

Nades wrote:
IsabellaLinton wrote:
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When it comes to women being attracted to the best genes, wouldn't a lot of them put more emphasis in autism being a deciding factor in genes or no?
Autism wasn't even in the equation until 1980's. Nobody knew about it. Before then, it was much simpler:
* good looks = good genes
* bad looks = bad genes

Until 1960's, there was also the social control that pushed people to marry young regardless of their marital partner's looks and/or genetic desirability. But I'll get issued a warning if I discuss it in any more detail than this.

In addition, most autistic men don't look attractive during their young years, because nature. So it all checks out.



Why do they get raped and preyed upon by men whether NT or Autistic?

Is that just part of male genetics?


Autism makes everyone more vulnerable to manipulation and crime regardless of sex.

It's part of autistic genetics.



I do agree that autism makes all genders more vulnerable to manipulation and crime.

That's one reason why I'm trying to support male virgins who read this thread.

I wouldn't want them to be manipulated into thinking they are genetic garbage.

I wouldn't want them to experience cyberbullying or harassment from threads like this.

Autistic men are NOT genetically inferior unless their character dictates otherwise.


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09 Jul 2022, 5:24 pm

I guess judging by some of the responses from the men in this thread
They haven't yet worked out
that what makes them especially unattractive
is treating women like they don't matter.

But please,
Keep banging on about your physical appearance
Bank balance
Genes etc

Because you obviously have it all sorted
And you dont need to listen to an actual woman talking about what she actually thinks.


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09 Jul 2022, 5:26 pm

Raleigh wrote:
I guess judging by some of the responses from the men in this thread
They haven't yet worked out
that what makes them especially unattractive
is treating women like they don't matter.

But please,
Keep banging on about your physical appearance
Bank balance
Genes etc

Because you obviously have it all sorted
And you dont need to listen to an actual woman talking about what she actually thinks.


There should be awards on WP.



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09 Jul 2022, 5:31 pm

Well put, Rals.

A good friend of mine said something similar, and I think you'd agree with him:

A man who decides what women like doesn't know what women like.
A man who asks women what they like gets a bit further.


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09 Jul 2022, 5:35 pm

If Jamesy's cousin
In the origonal post here
Which, i think is pretty much forgotten now
Had asked the woman about her thoughts at the time
He might well know why she was of the opinion
That he was a virgin.
I believe this is the common failing of a lot of autistic men.
Lack of conversation skills
And maybe too self centred and lacking reciprocity.
Of course, this may be true of all men.


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09 Jul 2022, 5:36 pm

IsabellaLinton wrote:
A man who decides what women like doesn't know what women like.
A man who asks women what they like gets a bit further.
The problem with your statement is that what people ACTUALLY LIKE and what they SAY they like are often total opposites.

For instance, most women SAY they want a nice guy as a boyfriend. Well, fine, it's freedom of speech. But the reality is... ;).

Perhaps there should be discount plastic surgery centers, specializing in facial correction for beta males. They'd make a fortune!



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09 Jul 2022, 5:42 pm

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Have you seen this one before?

I think it's fairly accurate whenever this argument is made.


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09 Jul 2022, 5:43 pm

What do you think a "nice guy" is?

Please explain the difference between a nice guy and a "bad boy".


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09 Jul 2022, 5:43 pm

Twilightprincess wrote:
Nades wrote:
IsabellaLinton wrote:
Aspie1 wrote:
ironpony wrote:
When it comes to women being attracted to the best genes, wouldn't a lot of them put more emphasis in autism being a deciding factor in genes or no?
Autism wasn't even in the equation until 1980's. Nobody knew about it. Before then, it was much simpler:
* good looks = good genes
* bad looks = bad genes

Until 1960's, there was also the social control that pushed people to marry young regardless of their marital partner's looks and/or genetic desirability. But I'll get issued a warning if I discuss it in any more detail than this.

In addition, most autistic men don't look attractive during their young years, because nature. So it all checks out.



Why do they get raped and preyed upon by men whether NT or Autistic?

Is that just part of male genetics?


Autism makes everyone more vulnerable to manipulation and crime regardless of sex.

It's part of autistic genetics.


Crime, including rape, can certainly happen to anyone.

Women are much more likely to be raped by males, though.

Is raping people a male trait?

Do we see where the problem lies here?


Why has this turned into posts about rape?



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09 Jul 2022, 5:46 pm

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Perhaps there should be discount plastic surgery centers, specializing in facial correction for beta males. They'd make a fortune!


Perhaps there should be discount psychotherapy specialising in personality correction for Incels.

They'd make a fortune too.


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09 Jul 2022, 5:47 pm

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That pill is neither Red nor Blue; it's white. I'm sure it's the same color as the antibiotics and painkillers I'd have taken during aftercare, had I gone through with that plastic surgery back at age 21.



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09 Jul 2022, 5:49 pm

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That pill is neither Red nor Blue; it's white. I'm sure it's the same color as the antibiotics and painkillers I'd have taken during aftercare, had I gone through with that plastic surgery back at age 21.


??? Why does the colour of the pill matter?

Most pills and tablets are white.

"Hard to swallow" means "hard to believe" or "hard to accept".


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