I am the XX year old virgin. Add your name to the list.

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Wouldn't it be the guy who is wasting his time?

Did I say obtain, I meant obstian.

The vast majority of you people are very young. It's not that unusual, despite what you may imagine, to be a virgin at your ages (teens to early 20's).

[quote="Aspie_Chav"][quote="Tim_Tex"][quote="KateShroud"][quote="Psychlone"]
Of course not. You're a female. Aspie women have far more luck than Aspie men.[/quote]
That's not true according to what I've read and also from talking to a few aspie women on this site. Relationships can be just as hard for us sometimes. We might get laid, but that's because it's what most men want. We're likely to get taken advantage of, and raped in some cases. Pick your poison.[/quote]

I agree. I don't think it's any easier or more difficult for either gender.[/quote]

It is probably very hard to make comparisons to different situations. There is; however, some advice that I can give to an aspie woman. The best way to find the perfect guy is simple. Obstain from having sex with him for up to a year, if he really love you, he will stick around. If he is a user, you will just be wasting his time. If you cannot do this, you have to rethink your priorities.[/quote]
For one thing, my fiance says he's met at least twenty users who will wait over a year to take advantage of a woman because they're control freaks. Once I became interested in experiencing sex there was no way I could wait a year. It just didn't happen that way. Most couples who are genuinely interested in one another could never make it one year. It's almost impossible to have that kind of self control.

Talk to a Christian they are experts in that field.

I'm a seventeen year old virgin.
I'm saving myself for someone special...kinda.
If that person doesn't come along, then I guess I'm just saving myself for college.

If I was a 30 year old virgin, I'd hire a hooker.
I'm not kidding either.

I am the 16 year old virgin, which sounds so normal as to be laughable if you don't go to MY school.

18 and still a virgin.

If you're between the ages of 18 and 30, female, live in South-East England and want to change that, drop me a line . (Applicants must be born before 02/10/89 to be eligible).

35 here, too much ADD and immaturity to get that final math exam so I can get into College, too Asocial to function in a job, too suspicious and scared of people to trust them. I had a chance of getting a girlfriend who was 12 years younger than me that e-mailed me, but I was sure she was just some kid making fun of me, and she probably was. I just wish they had kicked me out of school at 13 and given me a job. That would have made life so much easier for me.

I lost it at 19. In some ways I regret it, in many I don't, but there are still so many things I would change if I could go back to that night. To all you guys waiting for that special person - amen to you. That's the right way to be.

I´m the 21 years old virgin ..but I desperately want to change that ..hopefully next week!

Here's the thing: I read about all these 20 year-old virgins, 18 year-old virgins and remember when I was that age pining to lose it. Although I had sex at school between the ages of 16 and 29 I had not so much as a peck on the cheek. It's frustrating because whilst you're trying hard to impresss a woman enough to get them to slep with you there's some fella who can just walk off with them whenever he fancies it.

I'm not a virgin but I may as well be.

Add another 28 year old virgin to the list.

In my case, the term "technical virgin" very much applies, as I was in a committed relatively long-term relationship for a few years. From the get-go, we were fairly sexual but full-blown intercourse never happened.

There were obviously some commitment and communication issues between us, but the main technical reason was that I was unable to use a condom. (Call it George Costanza Syndrome--remember that Seinfeld episode?) There were some other intimacy issues too, as per my sensory sensitivity.

This has made me completely insecure about approaching women and I'm terrified that the same thing will happen again.