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I posted here already, but some of my interests have changed since then
I'm looking for a girl, between the ages of 18 and 25, and lives in Manhattan or any of the nearby boroughs, or possibly Westchester. I live Larchmont, NY, so it will be easy to commute.
My favorite shows are Beavis and Butthead, The Big Bang theory, and My Little Pony Friendship is Magic (yes, I am a Brony)
She has to share my interests in anime, cooking, animals, reading, and photography.
I am very sympathetic, nice, and a good listener. I hope to hear from you soon

Okay I am not good at talking about myself AT ALL I don’t like that kind of attention but im going to try it... and by the way I’m am gonna be brutally honest here so there aint gonna be no puffing my story up to make me look better than I am so sorry...  here it goes (with commentary ) (oh and im also lloking for just firends as well)
Well I guess I will start with my age and stuff... I’m 21 years old (best designated driver ever cause I cant drink/ seizures) 6 foot 2 and slightly underweight (those damn meds kill my appetite). I have an athletic build though and I love my sports. I am a talented artist and I don’t feel that I am bragging to say that, and I have lots of interests…I love art, and music (oh boy do I love it). All genres of music I like and I have kinda perfect recall so I know lots of tunes… my fave genres are Theatrical Composition’s/ orchestral (geeky.. I know) and my fave artists are Hans Zimmer, Howard Shore, and John Powell (all those guys)… After that I like my Hard rock and metal and some pop, r and b I love most music… My other hobbies include playing sports, online gaming, photography, gardening, and more stuff I cant think of right now.

Alright on to the things I Love my real passions… I LOVE JESUS he is my rock and basically everything I don’t know how I would go on without him. having said that as an aspie I am VERY open minded and accepting I basically don’t see a person by color, religious views, sexual orientation, etc and I am not judgmental at all (so it really irks me when people judge each other by stupid stuff like that we can all have our own opinions and should respect the others). Okay continuing on I LOVE KIDS!! They are basically my whole life! For some weird reason they are drawn to me like a magnet (it’s a gift and a curse trust me) and I am so much of a kid inside that they are the easiest age group for me to get along with (after that is older people then last is people my age).
I work at a children’s hospital ( oh I can’t stand Shots and needles I’m outa there when they come to me with those things) in the Child Life department.. Someday I hope to combine my love for children my strong interest in psychology and my knack for art to become a child therapist with art up my sleve. I am a born adventurer and I LOVE to travel so once I get my degree I plan to travel to 3rd world countries and work with traumatized kids and bring art as a therapeutic device. That is the ideal plan but it may not go that way. Either way I do plan on pursuing child psychology and taking my Child Life Specialist exa, to become certified and work at a hospital while I’m stateside. Hmm other than that I LOVE my Philly eagles and can talk football all day (yes I know it is a huge turn off but its true so…). Oh and I ADORE animals and am an acting member of the Orangutan Conservation Programs taking place in Borneo (find out more at redapes dot org)…

Personality
I am not super outgoing although some people seem to think I have a clever sense of humor I don’t see it. The best way to describe my personality is to say that I am a little different and sometimes an oddball but I am VERY proud of who I am and I won’t change it just to please the crowds. I am an enforcer and protector for the little guy as I was once bullied; if anyone is bullying or picking on someone who is different I step in and either make the bully leave em alone Or take the beating for the little guy, people can be horrible I know that more than most. Like I said im not super great at talking about myself and stuff (in fact I am surprised I have not gone off on a tangent about all my imperfections and faults.) SO I got my Friends (yes ALL 3 of em ) to write a few words they would use to describe me… ne thing I do know is that while maiking friends is not a strong suit for me when I do I am super loyal and all of my 3 friends I consider best friends and they consider me the same . I am currently waiting for the last one to respnd to my question to name some things about me so I will post them in another post later on.. I will also post what I am ideally looking for in women for the 1% of you who have actually read this far.

okay since im not good at taling about my traits and sometimes dont recognize them in myself i got my froends to tell me a few words to describe me iso here were responses to me asking them...

Sarah: sweet, caring, artistically skilled, protective, and friendly is a good start
Charity: okay hmm id say silly, nice, artistic, enthusiastic, adventurous, and artistic
Sean: Why? (lol that is sean for u) (afterwards he said Artistic, off rocker a bit, loyal. and AWEsome LOL)

Ooga booga where da bisexuals at?
http://aspieaffection.com/7104.htm

Still open to anyone who's qualified.

I’m a bit embarrassed to be posting something so personal, but I haven’t really had a lot of luck in this area so…I’m looking for a guy near NYC anywhere from 20-30 years of age interested in a serious relationship. I’m almost 5’7, have brown eyes and hair with some red mixed in, and carry some extra weight around by hips. I’ll be 23 this summer and am currently studying my interest at a university. I love going to museums and losing myself for hours in them, but I do like to do other things that do not involve immersing myself in knowledge (I randomly like the action of fast-paced sports for example.) I have a large, traditional family and two adorable cats back home. I enjoy anime, music, video games, winter holidays, biomedical research, and relaxing with people I can trust. The big thing for me has nothing to do with a guy’s looks or cultural background: it’s that he has to be passionate about something. Whether that passion is in trains or quantum mechanics, subject doesn’t matter. I’ve found that I have a lot of trouble connecting with people that don’t have a special interest or goal in life, and once I make that connection, I try hard to maintain it. So even if someone just wants to be friends, I want to be good friends, since I have a hard time understanding the social rules of casual ‘see you once every few years’ relationships.

Whew…so that was more than I’d thought I’d write. If anyone is interested or just wants to be friends, feel free to PM me!

*sigh* Still single!
Straight 27m aspie (diagonsed 5-6 months ago). Here's the profile:

http://www.aspieaffection.com/7113.htm

P.S. Does anyone else find this dating website is very buggy?

Hi, I'm new here and i'm hoping to find a partner to get close with and share some of or all of my life with. Perhaps also some new friends at least too.

I recently discovered I have aspergers from reading about peoples experiences on this site. Although i am undiagnosed I feel fairly certain its the reason why I have always felt different to everyone else and outside of the norm. I've never really understood what your supposed to do in social circumstance and have generally had to fumble my way about. Because I have become fairly good at appearing NT and find it okay to deal with life general (I have a job and have a social circle) I think most people don't see me as any different and so when meeting someone new, I never know how to start the initial interraction and if what i am doing is correct (or something!), I probably come off as not interested so never get anywhere. Once past this point i am very easy to get along with and like getting involved in lots of things and try to get the most out of life.

I'm 28 and live in Southampton in the UK. My stats are 5' 8 and I weight 10 and a half stone. I like to keep fit by running and going to the gym. I like going to pubs and enjoying meals out (would love to wine and dine someone!). I also like to keep up with my local football team and go to games occasionally with a group of friends. I have travelled to Las Vegas and New York (both great cities) and would like to try some more physical holidays like walks around the Peak District and possibly some hiking over the mountains in the Andes (doesnt mean you need to come along!).

I have interests in computers science and technology but in general I like talking about any subject really and I can be philosphical and love expanding my view and understanding of reality and what it means to exist (sorry thats deep!). I enjoy watching comedy like The Big Bang Theory and love Sci-Fi's like Battlestar Galactica (need a new Sci-fi show though!). I am fascinated about the prospects of what the futue holds for humanity and wondering if we will survive and expand into space or just blow ourselves up in a needless arguement with some nukes! I also enjoy gaming on the PC, watching films and have even recently been snowboarding!

I am looking for a girl aged 20-32 who I can talk to freely. you don't have to be very local to me as I can get about, hopefully in the Hampshire area or maybe London? Although a new long distance pen pal or two would be great too! However, that said I do greatly feel the need to touch skin and hope to find someone who is equally lonely and in need of some hugs and cuddling! I'm perfectly happy to find someone who is quiet and doesnt feel like getting out and about much. Even if it means only meeting up once week or two weeks. For me the two things I feel I need to happy in life is unrestricted conversation (I can be very open and understanding once some trust is gained) and to be able to enjoy the simple pleasures of some skin contact. Something as simple as holding someone elses hand is soooooo underrated in life! I have dated a girl with AS in the past (this has lead to me to understand AS and eventually realise I had it too!) so don't feel that you could be someone who is too difficult to handle of get along with. I can be extremely patient and caring

If your curious about anything or just want to start a conversation please PM me. Trying to write about myself so honestly in a public forum is odd and I am not sure I have conveyed who I am that well!

Give me a chance and say hello

Hello, world of Aspies!

My name is Jack and I'm from Anchorage, Alaska. I am uncertain that there is really an organized Aspie community anywhere in Alaska, so I might as well the ball rolling! I am newly-diagnosed, yay!

I am 170 cm (5'-7") and 72kg (160 lbs). I sometimes receive female comments about going to the gym, though I have absolutely no idea how to respond and end up blowing it--a classic Aspie conundrum!

I can assure you my brain is cooler. I humbly cannot call myself a savant, but in the immortal words of Napoleon Dynamite, I do have some great skills.

I love to read about business, business people and run a small multilevel marketing coffee side business--so I like entrepreneurship. Did you know that Bill Gates is an Aspie? I am very highly-functioning when it comes to formal communication and business dealings, and actually give excellent presentations and have potential as a public speaker (a very admirable accomplishment!), but the minute I try to initiate something casual like to go out for drinks--game over!

My second skill is computers. The first computer I used ran DOS 4.0 back in 1990 (I was only 4 and had a *very* trustworthy mother with a Zenith laptop.) My day job involves selling and troubleshooting e-readers for a very well-known American bookstore. I run and administer both PC's and Macs on my parents' network. I have built five machines from parts in my day. Computer hardware, I can do, but all I can really program at this time is "Hello, World!"

I am a connoisseur of languages. I taught myself basic Japanese in middle school and kept on taking it through high school and college. I'm probably fairly fluent in everyday situations, but I need more practice. At my peak, I knew about 600 Chinese characters and still aspire to learn all 2,000 "daily use" characters at some point. I also took a year of French, in a pitiful attempt to meet women. C'est la vie.

My final skill is the arts. I love to draw, and I'm pretty skilled at Life Drawing, where I can draw the human figure. The arts community in Anchorage is awesome, though they like to party a bit more than I'm comfortable with. I also have perfect pitch, though I can't really read music, but I own two synthesizers and love to play around with music. I have a knack for being able to listen to a song and play it by ear by reconstructing it in my mind, sometimes even the chords.

I forgot to mention that I really like space. Everything is space is cool. I'm looking for a girl that can light up my world like an X-Class solar flare.

I have an A.A. in a university's General Program, but have enough credits to have a de facto B.S. in "everything." I dropped out of college later on.

As far as girls, someone fairly close to my age (+/- 5 years), who can enjoy some form of regular physical activity that we could share interests in -- I really like yoga/pilates and swimming, but other activities like sports and the outdoors are good, too. Like many Aspies, I have a sensory sensitivity, but mine is smell--so be careful with the perfumes, but I love cuddling and physical contact.

I'm aware that I am in Alaska and am likely many thousands of kilometers from most of the active Aspie community, but I'm very hopeful. I'd be happy to correspond, Skype, etc. I do have a thing for Seattle and am hoping to move there someday.

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Hi, I'm Sarah. I'm a 22 year old Asperger female from Arkansas. I'm looking for a single, male Asperger in the Arkansas or Missouri area about 20-25 years old. I'm looking for someone who is understanding and I hope I can be understanding for them. I'm hoping I can find someone a little more like me here, since I have had some pretty rotten experiences with NTs so far. I was diagnosed when I was twelve. When I was younger I was bullied a lot.

I find it a little difficult to talk about myself, sorry. I'm usually shy and quiet, though I love to talk once I get to know someone. I'm short, about 5' tall and have brown hair and green eyes. I'm a senior in college right now with a major in English and Writing.

I like to read and write short stories and novels. I spend a lot of time in the bookstore or the library. I like to read a lot of the classics, as well as sci-fi and fantasy. I'm interested in a lot of books about languages and other peoples' experiences.

I enjoy genealogy and intend to go into that full time after I graduate. I've always wanted to travel to some of the places where my ancestors lived. I hope to be a professional genealogist soon.

I love to camp and be outdoors. I've been a Scout for most of my life and am now an adult leader in Scouting. Arkansas has many great parks and opportunities for Scouts ^.^

I love to watch movies. My favorite TV shows are Dr. WHO, Criminal Minds, and Big Bang Theory. My favorite character is Dr. Reid. I find The Big Bang Theory always makes me laugh. I've always wanted a Tardis, too, I could go back and fix some of my social blunders.

This is probably futile considering how few people there likely are in the area but I'll give it a go! Here's the text from my introduction thread:

I'm generally a quiet person, but I'm not a small person. In public I'm reserved but in private I'm a bit of a monster (but in a nice way, I promise). I love animals and hugs. I also like video games and have a soft spot for JRPG's despite recognising that they're basically terrible. My favourite TV shows are generally British comedies by the likes of Armando Iannuchi and Chris Morris - in particular I love I'm Alan Partridge and Brass Eye.

If you're female and live in the north-west of England I'd love to hear from you! I know most (if not all) of you are going to be a little nervous about contacting me, but I don't mind if you don't have anything to say. Just drop me a quick "hi" and I'll try to get a conversation rolling, okay? and feel free to add me on MSN or even Facebook if you want, but if the latter do tell me why you're giving me the add 'k?

(PS. here's a picture I posted in another thread, so that you have an idea what I look like [url]http://i.imgur.com/I8O3v.jpg[/url] also my avatar but that's kinda tiny and stuff)

Given the fact that dating sites haven't really helped me. Here I go!

I've had Asperger's most of my life. When I was a kid, I read things like "Stone Age Present" and Stephen Hawking's "Universe in a Nutshell", and was in the region's 5th grade Astronomy Oylmpiad, where, if I remember correctly, my school placed 3rd.

I'm 20 and live in Northern Viriginia, and my stats are 5'6" and 140lb. I'm pretty pale, a bit chubby, and have short, red hair, although I love wearing wigs and such. I'm still learning to drive, but I feel like I'm pretty close. Some of my favorite hangouts are Kingstowne, Fair Oaks Mall, and a Starbucks near my house. (I actually have a special order I get there every time - A half steamed apple juice, half steamed lemonade with raspberry syrup - we're still trying to come up with a name for it!)

I love anime, The Big Bang Theory, fashion, cartoons, reading books, stand up, music, lanuguages, cosplay, sociology, art, art history, and a lot of other stuff. I'm sure we can find something to talk about.

I am looking for a sweet, loving, guy who's in the Northern Virginia and is willing to meet up with me in a close location, I'm partial to guys with long hair, shaggy hair, or medium-shortish hair. I like holding hands and snuggling, and playing N64 video games co-op with someone. I really like playing Monopoly and Trivial Pursuit.

Let me know if you're interested!

Hey all. I'm 32 years old and I'm single and bi-sexual. I'm looking for either a male or female to get to know and possibly have a relationship with. I like to make people smile and laugh. I like to laugh, myself. I enjoy many different things, so just ask and I'll tell you all about my interests. I'm looking for a fellow Aspie who is younger than me...between the ages of 18-27. I seem to just get along better with people who are younger than me. My Facebook is linked in my profile. So, hit me up on there if interested in getting to know me better.

I am not sure what to say. I'm 32 years old, female, and Texan. I love to read. My favorites are the Harry Potter series, and The Hunger Games series. I have depression. I am very short and very chunky. I love to laugh. I dance at the supermarket. I'm goofy and my idea of a good time is a movie and Barnes and Nobles. I am looking for a guy 27-43 but I am flexable about age. If you want to know more, just send me a message.

Single
Straight
Looks good in Skinny Jeans.
Tries to take care of himself!


Loves to bake cakes and other sweeet treats

Looking for like minded Person who's into Simcity, The sims, Lord of the Rings, or intellegent and thoughtfull Chat



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