Eligible Odd-Bods! - The Premier Aspergian Singles List

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Metaljordy, a swinging club is where couples can meet up with other couples for sex. Sort of like "wife swapping" (except it's "husband swapping" as well), to put it crudely.

And the Victorians knew all about long-term, unconsummated homosocial relationships. Restart the Inklings

So I am supposed to tell a bit about who I am and what I am looking for?

I am: Male
26 years old
Have a college diploma in Customs and Border Services, currently work in a Bonded Warehouse.
Looking for a lady, preferably no younger than 22 years old. Preferably in or around the Ottawa area.
OKCupid name is mildlymike if anyone is curious about what I look like. No Aspieaffection name or account, simply have not been interested in signing up.
I am watching an episode of Breaking Bad as I type this.
Anyone wants to know more, refer to OKCupid profile, or from what I post in the forums here. You get an idea of who I am from what I post anyway.

My name is Aaron and I am currently living in a small town near Belleville, Ontario.

I am 5'5.

I am straight.

I am 23 years old and was born on St. Patrick's day.

I have Swiss and French heritage.

I know some French and I hope to learn more later on in my life.

I have a diploma in business and I'm going back to college this fall to do a 1 year graduate certificate in marketing research.

I'm very interested in french culture, astronomy, space exploration, geology, physics, traveling, and business.

My activities/hobbies are hiking, water sports, reading, amateur astronomy, and cooking.

My favourite music genre is electronica, my favourite movie genres are comedies, thrillers, sci fi, and adventure, and my favourite video game genres are RTS and FPS.

I have an INTP personality.


I'm looking for someone who has similar interests to me and lives near me.

I tbought that since I'm not having much luck and I'm extremely timid and don't know where to meet girls I'd try here.

I'm a 19 year old guy (straight)
I am 5'9"
I live in West Michigan
I'll give some pros and cons about myself as well.

Cons:
I live with my parents still (moving out within the next month or so for college)
I am a bit overweight at 250lbs (with a decent amount of muscle though)
I am shy, nervous, have a lot of anxiety in social situations and have depression from time to time. And I can't always see the positives in myself.

Pros:
I am SCUBA certified. I am currently enrolled at MCTI which is a technical school and I'm going into electronics, specifically alternative energy and security systems my current plans involve me getting through that to make enough money to support myself and them go get a degree in marine biology.
I enjoy fishing, paintball, movies, hanging out with friends, and video games.
I am a very caring and loyal person.
I am looking for a meaningful relationship with someone not just a fling.
I enjoy the simple aspects of dating like holding hands, watching movies or taking walks together, cuddling and just in general anything that lets me spend time with you.

If any ladies are interested please PM me. And if I don't respond right away don't worry, I'm probably just trying to work through my anxiety to respond back to you.

Hey all how do I post my picture here. Im male in Norway!

I posted here about 2 years ago...

I'm a 27 year old male from California who was diagnosed as "asperger's-like" almost 20 years ago. But I may be more NT than a lot of people who never had any diagnosis.

I'm generally looking for a woman who appreciates generic alternative rock, likes baseball, and eats red meat. (But also eats healthy food too, to set a good example.)

More specifically, I want a woman who is manipulative, arrogant, selfish, and blunt to the point where people think she is mean. That's a bit weird, I suppose... but I think society has trained women to be unnaturally docile and "nice" and that's not how it should b.e

Not very good with coming up with things to say so i've ripped off someone elses list and added my info, sorryyyy!

My name is UnBored and I live in the west midlands, uk.

I am erm, i usually say 6'2" but the last time i had a medical and my height was measured they said 6'3" so dunno, maybe somewhere inbetween. I weigh about 15- 16 stone/ 98 kgs/217 lbs, and although that might sound like im overweight im not, I think im just one of those skinny but strangely heavy people. I was good at sports at school, i represented my school for things like sprint, relay, long jump, high jump, a few others. Not that i like sports anymore, just i was an active kid and it came naturally.

I'm straight and would be happy with anyone around about my age. Looks and body type don't matter, i'm far more interested in mental compatibility.

I'm 32 years old although im often often told i don't look my age. More like few years younger.

I'm not very qualified as far as jobs go but i do have a lot of potential, i've challenged myself in lots of ways and i've come to realise that the only thing holding me back from learning basically anything is an interest in said subject. At school i guess you could say i was gifted but uninterested, i was easily in the top 5 for every subject i liked and i'd not even pay attention in class, never mind revise/ do homework. Things have always just come naturally with me, so much so that i kinda gave up trying to find something to challenge me. To gain an interest in a subject i just have to have a practical use for it and then it flows from there. So stick me in any job and regardless of whether i like it i get better and better. Previous jobs have seen a lot of travel and for at least a few years of my life i was very restless. I'm settled now though and anyone that makes an effort with me will get a lot back.

My activities/hobbies are reading, listening to music, playing games of all kinds, from computer games to board games ( particularly against other people. although im not competitive, i just enjoy the challenge that other people add ), watching movies, eating, long walks with my dog, stuff like that.

For reading i'd probably lean more towards fiction with things like fantasy/ science fiction ( i prefer science fiction but i can never find that much that suits me). I'll read anything on a recommendation . Reading used to be my main obsession, just now i've moved on and diversified. It's something that will always be in my life though.

My favourite music genre is erm, trip hop i guess, kinda do like a lot of other stuff though, from classical, 50s, 60s, 70s, 80s, 90s music, rock, erm, just all sorts, it's not so much about the type as specific artists within those genres.

For movies i'll just watch anything really. I started off as a kid just watching typical boy type stuff, horrors, science fiction, stuff like that, just i've watched everything i can think of to watch and im at the point where i'll sit and watch things that i would never have wasted time on when i was younger. So that basically means i'll watch anything of a certain quality.

I have an INTJ personality.

It'd be nice to meet someone logical / with similar tastes to me that isn't going to mess me around.

Okay, here goes! My name is Candace, I'm 22, and live in Orlando, Florida. I haven't been officially diagnosed with Asperger's, but I'm in the process of finding someone nearby who deals with female AS to get an accurate diagnosis.

Hmm, let's see... I'm female, straight, 4' 10 1/2", about 105 lbs, and majoring in graphic design (formerly majored in saxophone music performance). I've been described by my family and close friends as very kind, empathetic, quirky, intelligent, and interesting. I really enjoy reading, writing, working with graphics, listening to music, playing the saxophone, watching movies, traveling, and learning new things. Some of my favorite books are The Lord of the Rings by J.R.R. Tolkien, the Harry Potter series by J.K. Rowling, and anything by Jane Austen, but I'll read anything that's interesting and well-written. I love all types of music ranging from jazz to rock to classical. My favorite movies are The Lord of the Rings trilogy, V for Vendetta, Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon, and many others, as well. I also really enjoy volunteering and recently rescued a little Bichon Frise/Poodle mix that had severe burns on his back end and tail who makes me laugh every day with his goofy antics. An odd fact about myself is that I remember the most random and useless things such as unusual facts, trivia, quotes, etc. and frequently use those quotes in conversation, even if no one else gets the references. I also love puns. (They're punderful! )

One thing you should know about me is I had severe social anxiety for many years but it's gotten so much better the last couple years that I've gone from being "severely socially anxious" to merely "shy around strangers sometimes." It still does take me a while to feel entirely comfortable with people but when I do feel comfortable around them, I'm actually surprisingly outgoing. I don't really care for parties, clubs, or bars, and would much rather go to the bookstore or coffee shop. As with many on WP, small talk really seems pointless to me and I'd much rather talk about my interests (a.k.a. obsessions), other people's interests, and more meaningful things ranging from life, the universe, and everything.

As for what I'm looking for, I'm looking for friendship with either gender and also friendship with guys around my age that could turn into something more. I've gone on a few dates with people in college and it just did NOT click with them. They didn't understand that it takes me a while to feel comfortable with someone, let alone kiss them, that I have sensory issues with being touched, that the games that work for NT girls don't work the same for AS girls, etc. I just don't play games or say things I don't mean.

Anyway, if you'd like to get to know me, just PM me! If I don't respond right away, it's probably because I'm busy with classes and/or trying to get up the nerve to actually hit "send." Nervous about this, but willing to give it a shot!