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Rather conceited and full of himself - obsessed with outward appearance. Probably quite vain.

Is he a male model or something?

He might be relatively intelligent with a relatively good sense of humour but the looks/fashion/hair obsession and probable fawning of other people all over him, hanging on his every word will have made him big headed and not really in touch with reality ie he'll think he's a lot more entertaining and witty than he really is

Generally not a nasty person though

Eh that guy you posted above is so so to me. So we all have our opinions on who's hot or not. I used to at one time thought 98 degrees were the greatest looking men. But that was so long ago.

So I have three obsessions some of which can be very odd.

In no order

PITBULL, AKA Mr Worldwide, Mr 305, Armando Bond, Armando Perez

Westies (I have always loved animals. For instance the other day I saw a mother duck and her ducklings cross the street close to my office building. It was so cute! The babies were so fluffy. Men and women were stopping traffic so that the mother duck and her babies can safely cross the busy DC street. People had their Iphones to record or take pictures. My favorite dog breed are Westies aka West Highland White Terrier) I have my 2nd Westie named Ruby who's nearly 2. My Timmy was my first ever dog and he died when he was only 6. He was my best friend. I would say my only friend I ever known)

Exposed pipes. This may be sound I know. But I find exposed pipes to be ugly, funny and odd. I went to a upscale girls boarding school with my cousin. When the student tour guide showed us the girls dorm we looked at the ceiling and were shocked to see exposed pipes. This girls schools is for the very wealthy people. The school could have covered up the pipes. It was ugly and creepy looking. The school was built around 1920. But when my cousin and I visited a boarding school that was co ed in PA they had no exposed pipes and that school was built in the 1890s! I'm sure this girls school has enough money to cover up the stupid pipes. I don't know. Maybe teen girls don't mind? It's not in their dorms but in the hallway and laundry room. The laundry room freaked my cousin out. So this girls school was definitely a no go for her. For some reason exposed pipes in apartments is popular. WHY??? I don't want to see pipes! lol


So what if I am out on a date with a hot man and I ask him about exposed pipes? That may scare him away? One co worker told me to tell the man maybe on 10th date but it may be my last date, so better to wait till my children are in college to tell him about my obsession with pipes.

Some lady told me its better for me to be obsessed over Pitbull than pipes. lol



The actor for the new Superman movie I think has black hair. Henry Cavill.

My thoughts exactly.

That's all so true about him!

Yes, he used to model, though he told me it was mainly so he could try to get laid with the female models of the agency That smile deceived me at first...

Who is he? Is he Italian model?



About my cousin not choosing that girls school. It's not just the exposed pipes it was the facility. The classrooms needed to be repaired. The Curriculum wasn't what she liked. But boarding is out of the question now since she has serious health issues. She lived with my parents and I for not even a year. She got so home sick for South Korea that her dad took her out of the private religious school here in Virginia and packed up all her things and now she's living with her parents and going to a public school. So high school will also be in South Korea. She's just 13.

See?

People often say it's not possible to read a person from a photo or by their expressions but it is if you have learned all the signs and what look/expression correlates with what thinking style

I have it all in my head like a massive database of people types

I would also say that male model types, even models in general are pretty generic in attitude

the trials and tribulations of humanity don't tend to impact on their lives very much therefore they don't interest me

they are bland and unformed by human experience

I have to agree with that, I value people more who want to be valued for their creativity rather than just looks, that's why I have a lot of appreciation for artists or anyone doing something creative, pushing themselves out there. I think strength can come in many forms, it can come in a single mother who faces raising a child alone, a fireman running into a burning building or someone just pushing through to put a positive message across.

Even things like muscles and tattoos are appealing to me because they speak conviction and character to me, some people might be put off that I have heavy body tattoos but to me, they signify something that is very personal to me.

What are her health issues?

So are you South Korean too?

Why did she come over to America in the first place if she liked her home country so much?

My cousin had depression and weight issues. She wouldn't eat healthy and she exercised every single day. She just became very withdrawn and losing weight fast. Lack of monthly cycles for 6 months. She just missed South Korea and her family.

I'm half South Korean. Mom is from there. Dad is white, New Jersey native.

I don't know why her dad wanted her to study in the US. She was only 12 when she came to live with us. To me that's too young. She only had me, and my parents here in Virginia. There are plenty of foreign schools in South Korea.

If you like the muscles and tattoos that's the main thing

I'm a nice girl. I'm not like the women in his videos yet I am crazy about him. Maybe I'm confused person?