07 Dec 2017, 6:42 pm
Sweetleaf
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07 Dec 2017, 6:49 pm
Closet Genious wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Closet Genious wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Closet Genious wrote:
This whole scenario about people becoming shorter and taller is honestly a bit hilarious boo...
What’s more hilarious is the pretense of missing the point - and the avoidance of giving a clear cut answer by pointing out how this can be possible in real life.
As if they are completely unable to imagine fictive scenarios - I thought aspies are supposed to be creative who create things like pokemon.
Oh well....but I am sure they’re starting to understand the OP’s point of view.
No I agree with you, but the scenario makes me laugh when I visualize it.
So I thought maybe the question you're setting up for the females here, is a tough one.
Well, it is a fact that shortness is a common turn off for many women like how fatness is a turn off for many me (yet there are way more men who are into BBWs).
So the story is equivalent to the OP case really - his gf became fat in a short period.
For sure, and I think we both now the answer to question.
The dating landscape is without a doubt, very unforgiving if you're a short man. Even if you're just below average it's already a disadvantage. It doesn't help that height is impossible to change.
One of my friends is a short man, he's like the same height as me....I'm 4'11 and he's around 5 feet or 5' 1" or something. Anyways regardless of it potentially being unforgiving he doesn't seem to have much trouble in the dating landscape. He even has been involved in polygamous type situations from what I understand. But he also doesn't walk around with a chip on his shoulder about his height....and probably doesn't care about women who would reject him simply on that basis.
07 Dec 2017, 6:50 pm
Sweetleaf wrote:
Closet Genious wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Closet Genious wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Closet Genious wrote:
This whole scenario about people becoming shorter and taller is honestly a bit hilarious boo...
What’s more hilarious is the pretense of missing the point - and the avoidance of giving a clear cut answer by pointing out how this can be possible in real life.
As if they are completely unable to imagine fictive scenarios - I thought aspies are supposed to be creative who create things like pokemon.
Oh well....but I am sure they’re starting to understand the OP’s point of view.
No I agree with you, but the scenario makes me laugh when I visualize it.
So I thought maybe the question you're setting up for the females here, is a tough one.
Well, it is a fact that shortness is a common turn off for many women like how fatness is a turn off for many me (yet there are way more men who are into BBWs).
So the story is equivalent to the OP case really - his gf became fat in a short period.
For sure, and I think we both now the answer to question.
The dating landscape is without a doubt, very unforgiving if you're a short man. Even if you're just below average it's already a disadvantage. It doesn't help that height is impossible to change.
One of my friends is a short man, he's like the same height as me....I'm 4'11 and he's around 5 feet or 5' 1" or something. Anyways regardless of it potentially being unforgiving he doesn't seem to have much trouble in the dating landscape. He even has been involved in polygamous type situations from what I understand. But he also doesn't walk around with a chip on his shoulder about his height....and probably doesn't care about women who would reject him simply on that basis.
Exceptions don't change the rule.
07 Dec 2017, 6:53 pm
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07 Dec 2017, 7:18 pm
sly279 wrote:
Guys prefer women shorter then them so it’s not suprising gay guys prefer short men.
That said men are more accepting of women their same hieght or taller then women are of men same hieght or shorter
That said men are more accepting of women their same hieght or taller then women are of men same hieght or shorter
Uh, I suppose.. but think about it: It's impossible for all gay guys to be like the typical female & prefer guy's shorter than them. Obviously it takes both types, taller guys that prefer shorter guys, and shorter guys that prefer taller guys.
Probably, yeah. But still, just because one is more common doesn't mean the other doesn't exist and people should just say F it and give up their search.
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08 Dec 2017, 1:14 am
Sweetleaf wrote:
Closet Genious wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Closet Genious wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Closet Genious wrote:
This whole scenario about people becoming shorter and taller is honestly a bit hilarious boo...
What’s more hilarious is the pretense of missing the point - and the avoidance of giving a clear cut answer by pointing out how this can be possible in real life.
As if they are completely unable to imagine fictive scenarios - I thought aspies are supposed to be creative who create things like pokemon.
Oh well....but I am sure they’re starting to understand the OP’s point of view.
No I agree with you, but the scenario makes me laugh when I visualize it.
So I thought maybe the question you're setting up for the females here, is a tough one.
Well, it is a fact that shortness is a common turn off for many women like how fatness is a turn off for many me (yet there are way more men who are into BBWs).
So the story is equivalent to the OP case really - his gf became fat in a short period.
For sure, and I think we both now the answer to question.
The dating landscape is without a doubt, very unforgiving if you're a short man. Even if you're just below average it's already a disadvantage. It doesn't help that height is impossible to change.
One of my friends is a short man, he's like the same height as me....I'm 4'11 and he's around 5 feet or 5' 1" or something. Anyways regardless of it potentially being unforgiving he doesn't seem to have much trouble in the dating landscape. He even has been involved in polygamous type situations from what I understand. But he also doesn't walk around with a chip on his shoulder about his height....and probably doesn't care about women who would reject him simply on that basis.
I am ina Polygamous situation and I don’t “walk around with a chip on my shoulder” in real life.
Your friend is not going to tell you of his height struggles in dating, because he is a man who knows you in real life - and we men, rarey open up their feelings in real life.
While here is a forum, just because he doesn’t tell you - doesn’t mean he never struggled and doesn’t mean he doesn’t vent online anonymously; all short men in the world went through rejections because of their height - but they will just not tell so you in real life.
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