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<- Still single, still waiting. Special lady, COME GET ME!

Let's see if there's anyone in Sydney. I'm 24, a student in the Sydney College of the Arts. Interested in digital art, social drinking, Lost, gaming and like to watch a lot and lot of movies. If you are an art type of people and wanna hangout just pm me:)

Why not post here!

I live in Canada, in the Ottawa area. Not sure if I am on the spectrum but possibly, not too worried about it though. I'm 34 single mom of an ADHD daughter with Sensory processing disorder.

Would like to meet a guy who enjoys learning new things, especially if interested in technology. Someone who has come to some acceptance with this world of ours and is ok with living outside the norm of life and who doesn't mind being around a kid who lives inside, outside, and all over the damn box.

I work as a systems analyst. I like to work, it's a happy zone for me.

As to looks I am BBW, and look like the picture posted with this post. I don't have glasses anymore though so maybe I look less nerdy, don't worry, the nerd is still in me

reposting now that I have a non-cartoon pic.

Age: 30
Height: 5'11"
Build: Somewhat overweight, but my height makes up for it.
Hair: Brown
Eyes: Brown
Location: Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Looking for: 25-32 (give or take)

Drink: Socially
Drugs: No
Smoke: No

Interests: Movies, Singing Karaoke, Playing Videogames

Occupation: No paid gigs, but I still do hard work as a volunteer and blogger (I've also been getting ODSP income supports since around June).

Hi, I'm a 47-year-old Asperger male in Northern Ireland. My degree is in Music (Classical) and although I've not yet managed to make it my full-time job, it's what I should be doing and I continue to work at that! I have a particular interest in the teaching of musical instruments.

Musically, I'm a church organist and choirmaster and have done quite a bit of choral singing with a preference for Cathedral-type choral music. I have composed some music and I also play in a large amateur orchestra.

Outside of my classical musical interests, I'm into photography (especially architecture), museums and galleries, television dramas and documentaries, food and drink, general knowledge, and autism/mental health issues.

I am looking for a female soulmate in the British Isles, preferably in her 30s but definitely no older than me, Christian but not "happy clappy", with some degree of shared interests and outlook. Just how much we need to have in common is something to work out in time. I wouldn't want to be over-prescriptive and having us missing out on each other!

By the way, I like word-play enough to use an anagram as my username

Ok here we go!

35 year old female and diagnosed Aspie. I to like so many other Aspies look a lot younger than I am. I live in the south of Sweden. I don't mind long distance relationships but I have no money so you would need to have some to be able to visit me.

My main interests are medicine (strange decease and stuff), reading, writing, photography, films, architecture and cars.

I'm good at technical stuff and enjoy fixing things.

My favourite things to do are lying around reading, watching documentaries, doing research on my special interest of the moment, sleeping and driving.

Oh dear, I sound like a real couch potato! I do actually enjoy exercising as well. But being as hopeless as I am at getting started on thing not much of anything gets done I'm afraid.

I have green eyes dark or light depending on the weather and I'm a natural blond but I dye it red. A bit fat at the moment but it doesn't bother me. It's pretty much all in the right places, quite hourglass leaning a bit towards pear shaped. To give you a better idea, I'm a Uk size 18 and an american 14-16. I'm 165 cm tall.

I'm looking for someone who is genuinely kind and emotionally stable. I try my best to treat people with respect and kindness and I don't tolerate people who take their anger out on others.
I prefer men but don't really have a type as such. I'm germophobic so cleanliness is a must. Well my phobia has gotten a lot better so I'm not going to pester you about regular stuff. Good teeth and good breath is a must. I let people be who they are as much as possible and I expect the same in return. No control freaks or judgmental people!

I'm strong and independent but when it comes to love I have some issues. I'm quite screwed up in this area.

Ok well if you're interested send me a pm telling me a bit about yourself.

Let's see, I'm 21, male, living in New England in USA. I'm 5'9, weigh 195lbs. I'm diagnosed NVLD/Aspergers. I'm an Orthodox Christian, and my religion is an important part of my life, and I'd like to find someone likeminded religiously. My favorite activity is figure skating. I really love skating, I'm not especially skilled at it, but I've only been skating for a year or so, and it's become one of my favorite things. I also lift weights and cycle (though I don't cycle too much anymore, trying to get back into it.) What else, I currently live at home with my mother and rest of my family, I have a license, no job currently. I can also work on cars if I need to, it used to be a big hobby of mine, but now I'm starting to resent it, I still have projects that need to get done in that arena.

For entertainment, I don't watch much TV. I play video games sometimes, lately my latest video game addiction has been Fallout 3 and New Vegas. My favorite game of all time would have to be Shenmue. Most of the stuff I watch is Japanese or Asian, lots of anime. My favorite TV shows would have to be the Great Teacher Onizuka live action and the Taiwanese drama Mars. Probably about half the music I listen to in a given day is Japanese. I pretty much always have music on, but have a hard time sitting down watching things, whereas music I can have it on while doing other things. My musical tastes, are, well, girly. I listen to lots of Japanese pop, electronic music, specifically eurodance, eurobeat, and italodisco and I like romantic songs a lot. I also like Michelle Branch a good deal for some reason, I usually listen to her before bed. Oh, lately I like Russian music, too, my favorite Russian artist is Angelika Varum.

I enjoy cooking a great deal, it's a big hobby of mine. I try to make sure 80-90% of what I eat is cooked myself from scratch. Obviously can't be perfect and I treat myself here and there; I don't think of myself as a "health nut" or anything, just I like eating that way, it's cheaper and better for you. I lived off prepackaged food as a teenager, and taught myself cooking at 17-18 years old, the reason why was because I got really fat and in poor health from prepackaged food, and I can't go back to that again. I'd prefer having a girl who knows how to cook, and has tried many different foods. Even if you can't cook now, I'd like you to be willing to learn some cooking and try many varieties of food. Cooking and food, specifically international food is a big hobby (or maybe special interest?) of mine, so I don't know if I could be with a girl who only eats, say, pizza, burgers, and fries or something.

As far as my personality, well, I don't know, I might be a crappy judge of me, but let's see. I'm fairly outgoing. I'll probably ramble on to you forever about like...something. I'm not really the "quiet" Asperger type, I can't help but think of myself as being like, say, Chris-chan or something (that's great to put in a dating profile, right?) I enjoy trying new things, as long as I can be assured it won't kill me/seriously injure me/etc. I try to think of myself as being adaptive, and able to work with, through, or against circumstances around me, sometimes I am adaptive, sometimes I'm not, but adapting and overcoming seems to be the name of the game in life. Generally people say I'm an "outside the box" kind of thinker, I usually do solve a given problem in an unorthodox way.

I guess that's it about me.

I am a 19 year old straight male currently residing in the state of North Carolina. I am 6'3, 130 pounds (I am aware that I am a twig) I am an unabashed Atheist - And believe that religion negatively influences humanity. Though I can tolerate eastern religions such as Buddhism, though I couldn't see myself practicing any religion. Diagnosed Asperger's Syndrome. I have a picture of myself I'm willing to divulge, albeit I'd prefer someone ask privately first. Personality wise I am a introverted. I score as an "INTJ" which borderlines on being an "INTP" on the Jung typology test. Ever seen the movie Ben X? That's the kind of Aspie I am. Though I do talk a wee bit more than he did. I'd consider myself cynical, but passionate. Bitter, yet ambitious for more out of life. Long distance relationships are welcomed! Especially if one is European.

Music is something that is very important to me. My taste in music are as follow; Joy Division, The Smiths, David Bowie, Nirvana, Kraftwerk, Leonard Cohen, Siouxsie And The Banshees, New Order, Smashing Pumpkins, Radiohead, Sonic Youth, The Pixies, Echo & The Bunnymen, The Cure, Ride, The Chameleons, They Might Be Giants, Tears For Fears, Klaus Nomi, Mazzy Star, Jesus And Mary Chain, KMFDM, Rage Against The Machine, Nine Inch Nails, The Who, The Clash, Pink Floyd, Syd Barret, King Crimson, Yes, Mozart, Beethoven, Wagner, The Protomen, Tool, Post-Punk, Shoe gazing, New Wave, Classical. A hefty list, I know. But I'm not out to waste anyone's time by hiding my favorite bands here and there in a post. Joy Division is my favorite band - Ian Curtis was a genius.

In fact, most mediums of art are important to me. Pertaining to movies and television shows. I like; One Flew Over The Cuckoo's Nest, Blade Runner, Barry Lyndon, Scott Pilgrim, A Clockwork Orange, Paths Of Glory, Annie Hall, Taxi Driver, (500) Days Of Summer, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Howl's Moving Castle, Spirited Away, The Graduate, Fight Club, Little Nemo: Adventures in Slumberland, Cowboy Bebop, Mobile Suit Gundam, Zeta Gundam, Char's Counter Attack, Twin Peaks, The X-Files, Neon Genesis Evangelion, Berserk, Ingmar Bergman, Stanley Kubrick, Alfred Hitchcock, David Lynch, Woody Allen.

Mobile Suit Gundam, Pychology and Philosophy are my Aspie obsessions. Mobile Suit Gundam especially (Though I don't like anything outside the Universal Century - And even then I only like MSG, Zeta Gundam, War In Pocket and Char's Counter Attack) If I had the money, I'd likely purchase a lot of the models and build them. Alas, I am but a poor poet. Oh! I love poetry too. George Gordon Byron is a historical figure which interesting me greatly and I love the poetry he wrote. Paradise Lost is another favorite of mine when it comes to poetry. Other than those, I like Kierkegaard, Sartre, Hegel, Marx, Sherlock Holmes, Lovecraft, Poe, I Have No Mouth And I Must Scream, A Scanner Darkly, Do Androids Dream Of Electric Sheep?, Scott Pilgrim, Shakespeare.

Last but not least. I love video games. KOTOR, KOTOR2, Neverwinter Nights 1 & 2, Final Fantasy Tactics, Harvest Moon series, Rune Factory series, Guild Wars 2, Legend Of Zelda (Majora's Mask is my favorite.), Mobile Suit Gundam Federation VS Zeon, The Summoner, Persona series, Little Nemo: The Dream Master, Legends of Legaia, Legend Of Dragoon. Mostly older games and never FPS... Unless it is Deus Ex. But that was more of a hybrid. When I'm not lurking around on the internet, I'm usually playing games on my emulators or playing Guild Wars 2.

Message me if you wish to find out more.

First of all, I'm Clarence Chen - a freshman in high school, and I live in the SF Bay Area. I have gone here because I have gotten in trouble for issues with girls ever since 6th grade, and it has taken a huge toll on my self-esteem. I do have a few friends, but they are clueless about how to help me out without changing my personality drastically. To be more specific with how the girls at my middle and high school complained, I am very touch-oriented, and personal space has been a great challenge for me. That has led to girls calling me creepy, shunning me, and complaining to the dean on multiple occasions. I now am at the verge of being expelled, and all I want is someone that has gone through the same or similar experiences as me, and finds me desirable as who I am.

I do admit I don't have that many interests, but I am pretty dedicated to them, like most of you out there, I'm guessing. My primary interest, other than girls, is mathletics. I have gotten 2nd place in the SF Chapter Mathcounts competition, and I still am a very active mathlete, practicing various problems, and trying to improve myself. Other than that, I also have a keen interest in city and transport planning, and simulation games tied to that like Simcity. I don't really like to do sports, but I do run several times a week, and I also bike whenever I have a chance (I don't have a bike right now, but I'm planning to buy one). In ordinary academics, I perform pretty well in school, getting As' in most of my classes, and I sometimes tutor too. Lastly, I'm bilingual and biliterate in English and Mandarin, even though my vocabulary in Mandarin could be a bit bigger - I know few scholarly or technical terms, but I strive to improve that situation.

As for who I prefer, I almost always prefer Asian girls over other races (sorry if I'm being racialist or even racist), but other than that, how they respond to touch and personal space, and if they are not faking their feelings about it, I'm pretty open.

My ideal partner is another story, though. She would also be a mathlete, first of all, around as good as I am. As for body proportions, she would be a few inches taller than me (I'm 5'5), curvy with somewhat thick legs (I do have thick legs too), and we would be strong enough to be able to carry each other. She would not be necessarily "fast" or "easy", in fact I want someone who is able to emotionally connect. She would genuinely not be afraid of general contact or proximity, and maybe even would initiate the touching. She MUST not be trying to set me up, though, as I have experienced that scenario before. She would be open to talk about her family life and culture, and we would visit each others' house often to be together. She would also be independent and questioning politically and spritually, like I am. Lastly, she would understand how drinking, recreational drugs, and unsafe sex would take a toll on both of our lives.

I hope that this is enough for now, and the clock is ticking for me - one more act and I would be suspended swifly - and possibly expelled. I hope that there is someone out there who knows my situation and is willing to help.

I'm Andre. I'm a 20 years young song writer from California who is majoring in photography. I'm somewhat athletic and I play soccer in my free time, when I was younger I was also into baseball. Even though I'm athletic, I do consider myself a complete dork and I'm proud of it.

I am really involved in the music scene and often go to live concerts to watch local bands, which reminds me, I am in love with playing acoustic guitar. I don't think I could ever live without my guitar or my Rock music, since both of those are what I live for. I'm a big fan of bands like Nirvana, Foo Fighters, and A Day to Remeber but I'm also a fan of Japan Rock, Dubstep, Rap, Metal, and occasionally pop.

As for moves, I love horror and comedy movies and essentially anything with Zombies, Adam Sandler, or Will Ferrel. And if the things I'm explaining about myself don't already tell you I'm a complete dork, I am a big anime fan. Speaking about anime, I love Japanese video games like Final Fantasy and that sort. Something about Japanese culture amuses me.

Anyhow, I don't want to bore you guys with tidbits of information about myself considering I'm not that unique lol. I'm not necessarily looking for a date on here nor am I setting standards with who I talk to on here, even though I admit I prefer talking to women. I am accepting however and will talk to anyone who has similar interests with me, because to me finding a like minded person is the most important thing. I'm actually quite excited to talk to you interesting people out there

Hey, thanks for giving this a look for starters. I'm just going to kind of spew this all out in no particular order.

I'm male, my name is Lee, I'm not Chinese, I'm 20 years old. I'm from Tennessee in the United States. I'm about 5'6'', 109 pounds, I'm very skinny I know. I'm working on that with exercise, supplements and dieting. I'm an atheist. I'm a Republican. I live at home with my mom and my brother. It's embarrassing but it's hopefully not going to last much longer. I'm currently unemployed but that is also something that is open to change in the next few days.

I like to read books, write stories/songs/poems, play video games and train in mixed martial arts. It's probably not a valid career choice at this point but I've been considering it for a few years now. I want to fight at 125 pounds, so we'll see.. I also love music, it's a huge part of my life. My favorite bands are as follows: Nirvana, Trapt, Breaking Benjamin, Staind, Skillet, Three Days Grace and many others. You get the basic idea. I like a very specific musical/lyrical style..

I watch a lot of television, probably too much. My favorite shows (past and present) are The Ultimate Fighter, Dexter, Homeland, The Walking Dead, House and Firefly.

People tell me I'm charming and unique and interesting but I choose not to believe them because maybe being confident about those things would mess it up. I just try to be myself and be honest with myself and honest with anyone and everyone I talk with. Honesty's a prized quality to me.

Send me a message if you're interested or if you just want to talk.

Ok not going into detail much here but I.m 26, unemployed alchoholic, a bit crazy and ehh I own my own home too, who wouldnt want that ey