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Would you date someone fatter than you?
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19 Jul 2010, 1:27 pm

Online dating gets results, maybe not results you'll like but not ones unlike what you'll find in the real world. I've never dated an aspie to my knowledge, so maybe you shouldn't be so quick to say that NTs won't like you.


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19 Jul 2010, 1:31 pm

Pistonhead wrote:
Online dating gets results, maybe not results you'll like but not ones unlike what you'll find in the real world. I've never dated an aspie to my knowledge, so maybe you shouldn't be so quick to say that NTs won't like you.


I suppose. Are all or most NT's beaters and cheaters like I've had? If so, then I'll get my tubes tied and forget it. Mom won't get the grandchildren that she's been bugging me about but too bad. :/



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19 Jul 2010, 1:42 pm

Erisad, how accurate this photo of yours?



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19 Jul 2010, 1:43 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Erisad, how accurate this photo of yours?


I took it on my phone and uploaded it. No photoshop or anything. Why? >.>



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19 Jul 2010, 1:55 pm

Not that I know of, but then again I haven't ever dated or slept with a guy. Why bother getting your tubes tied if you aren't going to do anything? Don't let your mom tell you that you need to have her grandchildren, it's your body not hers, if she wants some more children in the family she should adopt or something.


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19 Jul 2010, 1:58 pm

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Not that I know of, but then again I haven't ever dated or slept with a guy. Why bother getting your tubes tied if you aren't going to do anything? Don't let your mom tell you that you need to have her grandchildren, it's your body not hers, if she wants some more children in the family she should adopt or something.


It'll stop the hormone flow so I won't have to deal with feminine issues. :D

I do want to be a mother, just not now. I just wish I could have a quality relationship to prove that I CAN make it there someday. Also, adoption is very expensive. I'd be caring for the child all their life, why would I need to spend 300k just to take her home? :/



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19 Jul 2010, 2:01 pm

Erisad wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Erisad, how accurate this photo of yours?


I took it on my phone and uploaded it. No photoshop or anything. Why? >.>


Your face is extremely baby face - not so good for the world of dating. Women and men might find Babyfaces as cute but that's all.

Usually overweight can cause such 'babyfacing' or maybe your face is just a late bloomer. Maybe after few years , your face will become more feminine , weight loss will help a lot to achieve that. Don't hesitate to consult beauty experts , ask for tips for how to look more feminine. Either way , you do need to lose weight.
Once you achieve that, guys will drool over your heels like pathetic dogs and you won't need the sh***y online dating anymore.



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19 Jul 2010, 2:06 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Erisad wrote:
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Erisad, how accurate this photo of yours?


I took it on my phone and uploaded it. No photoshop or anything. Why? >.>


Your face is extremely baby face - not so good for the world of dating. Women and men might find Babyfaces as cute but that's all.

Usually overweight can cause such 'babyfacing' or maybe your face is just a late bloomer. Maybe after few years , your face will become more feminine , weight loss will help a lot to achieve that. Don't hesitate to consult beauty experts , ask for tips for how to look more feminine. Either way , you do need to lose weight.
Once you achieve that, guys will drool over your heels like pathetic dogs and you won't need the sh***y online dating anymore.


I don't think I'm a late bloomer. I have boobs and stuff. >.>

I know that I need to lose weight. I have been working out and stuff. I just wish it would fall off faster. At the rate it's going, I won't be a healthy weight until 2 years from now when I'm out of college and probably too involved with work to date anyone. :/



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19 Jul 2010, 2:11 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Once you achieve that, guys will drool over your heels like pathetic dogs and you won't need the sh***y online dating anymore.


I didn't read any of this thread, but why is online dating sh***y? Especially if your body isn't the fittest? Seems like an aid to me.



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19 Jul 2010, 2:15 pm

charade wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Once you achieve that, guys will drool over your heels like pathetic dogs and you won't need the sh***y online dating anymore.


I didn't read any of this thread, but why is online dating sh***y? Especially if your body isn't the fittest? Seems like an aid to me.


Online dating is scary. I feel that people are lying to me on it and I can't tell their intentions until we meet for a date. I could be attacked and raped for all I know. I wouldn't want to date someone that I don't already know. D:



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19 Jul 2010, 2:59 pm

Erisad wrote:
Pistonhead wrote:
Online dating gets results, maybe not results you'll like but not ones unlike what you'll find in the real world. I've never dated an aspie to my knowledge, so maybe you shouldn't be so quick to say that NTs won't like you.


I suppose. Are all or most NT's beaters and cheaters like I've had? If so, then I'll get my tubes tied and forget it. Mom won't get the grandchildren that she's been bugging me about but too bad. :/


I thought women could not get their tubes tied unless they already had a kid.; least that's what I've heard. It sounds like you have some bad opinions & misconceptions about NTs & online dating just like some guys have bad opinions & misconceptions about fat women


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19 Jul 2010, 3:03 pm

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Erisad wrote:
Pistonhead wrote:
Online dating gets results, maybe not results you'll like but not ones unlike what you'll find in the real world. I've never dated an aspie to my knowledge, so maybe you shouldn't be so quick to say that NTs won't like you.


I suppose. Are all or most NT's beaters and cheaters like I've had? If so, then I'll get my tubes tied and forget it. Mom won't get the grandchildren that she's been bugging me about but too bad. :/


I thought women could not get their tubes tied unless they already had a kid.; least that's what I've heard. It sounds like you have some bad opinions & misconceptions about NTs & online dating just like some guys have bad opinions & misconceptions about fat women


Fair enough. :/



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19 Jul 2010, 3:38 pm

I think that if anyone is seeking a mate, the one best thing they can do to improve their odds is to keep an open-mind. Don't judge anyone, or anything that may help you get where you'd like to be.



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19 Jul 2010, 4:49 pm

charade wrote:
I think that if anyone is seeking a mate, the one best thing they can do to improve their odds is to keep an open-mind. Don't judge anyone, or anything that may help you get where you'd like to be.


Makes sense. I have no problem admitting that I'm judgmental. I think everyone is to an extent, hence the whole "judging a book by it's cover" mentality is so evident nowadays.



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19 Jul 2010, 7:46 pm

nick007 wrote:

I thought women could not get their tubes tied unless they already had a kid.; least that's what I've heard. It sounds like you have some bad opinions & misconceptions about NTs & online dating just like some guys have bad opinions & misconceptions about fat women


No, they just really, really don't want to do it to younger girls because they think you'll change your mind and want to have a baby someday. I've asked about it a few times and that's what they say every time :roll: But Erisad, I don't think getting tubes tied would help with hormones and weight stuff. If you think your hormones are causing you weight problems, you need to just go to an endocrinologist. And you can ask there and be sure.


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19 Jul 2010, 7:57 pm

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Erisad, I don't think getting tubes tied would help with hormones and weight stuff. If you think your hormones are causing you weight problems, you need to just go to an endocrinologist. And you can ask there and be sure.


I would schedule appointments to figure this out but my mother doesn't want to spend any money. Yes we are on a tight budget but I can't afford to pay for it myself. I feel like I'll never get this stuff dealt with until I move out on my own, which probably won't happen until I'm 40. :/