What type of girl do you not want?

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@BlueMax, how is this thread a "guy party"? If you take off the heteronormative-tinted lenses you may notice many of the women posting in this thread aren't entirely heterosexual.

Any woman with Boarderline personally disorder! "my wife" Or crazy in genral . Seams to be the women I used to be attracted. They made me feel needed. I am a people please. Trying to change that. Some one that can't do anything on there own. I am very independent and need a lot of time for instrests.

Types of women I don't want:

-Women who smoke and/or are alcoholics

-Overtly religious types

-Women who are abusive/manipulative/controlling

-Women who are just downright ignorant or crazy or thinks the world revolves around her

-Women who already have kids who act like complete brats

-Women who have a problem with the opposite gender

one that cant go with the flow
one that doesnt complain when shes not having a great time
one thats not self centered or cocky
one that is always looking for attension
one that keeps secrets
one that doesnt speak her mind
one that isnt optimistic
one that lies or"not tell whole truths"
one that doesnt value relationships as much as i
one that hasnt grown out of the playing game stage
one that has very short hair
one that isnt loyal
one that wears the shortest shorts u can possibly wear
one that thinks she deserves the world handed on a silver platter
one that isnt 50/50 in relationship
one that has no morals,class,self respect or integrity
i could go on and on... lol

Women who are complete jerks or who have kids and teach their children or have taught their children to be absolute jerks.

Someone who has, or wants children.

I'll go about describing her traits:

1. Hedonistic (pursues pleasure as a path to happiness)
2. Superficial
3. Vain
4. Idiotic
5. Contains silicon "enhancements"
6. Uses spray tan
7. Oblivious
8. Authoritarian
9. Unquestioning
10. Arrogant
11. Superiority complex
12. Drama queen

I could actually go on forever.

There's alot of personality traits we don't like, some we can put up with, there's really just 2 in particular I can't even give someone the light of day if they have them. I can't do the overly religious, I don't belive in god, I don't want help believing in god, I don't want my future children believing in god and the whole mentality of life and everything in general that comes with religion just isn't my lifestyle at all. The opinionated/elitist mentality I can't stand either. It's okay if I'm legitimately wrong about something, but some people just want to force opinions on you or attack you if you disagree with them, not even just politics/big issues etc but even little things in life.. I couldn't put up with that. f**k, I couldn't even put up with it as friends.

Sometimes you need to break your list and give it a try.
Even if it doesn't work, you're sure to learn something new about what you do or don't like, and maybe your list will change. Or become even more fixated (which isn't always a bad thing). Maybe you'll even realize that their 'bad traits' are acceptable, the way they manage them:

Example:
I prefer a nonsmoker: Why?
I hate ashtrays and smelly rooms.
But! I'm dating a smoker right now
She smokes outside.
Thus; I don't have to deal with ashtrays or fumes.
She knows it and brushes teeth and showers regular before bed.
Acceptable.

(Caveat: She doesn't earn enough money to support the habit. Not Acceptable, and if there's a next time, this will be a consideration)

Hypocritical women who have children and tell their children to be well-mannered & respectful towards others when really it's the mother who needs to be well-mannered & respectful towards others herself.

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My standards are the same regardless of gender. For reference: