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25 Jul 2011, 9:07 am
Who_Am_I wrote:
swbluto wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
swbluto wrote:
Most anti-prostitute females seem to come from the girlfriend alliance... I WONDER why this is... competition, maybe? 
Yep. They're afraid they won't get to sleep with you. Just keep telling yourself that....
Bahahaha, I don't care if a girl does or doesn't want to sleep with me. The statement applies to pro-prostitution men in general, which a sizable amount are generally desirable by a significant number of women (Particularly many of those who can afford regular access to prostitutes since we know many women are attracted to a really big bag of gold). And that, my dear, is called undesired competition.
I am not your dear, mon petit.
C'est n'est mon petit, mon chien.
25 Jul 2011, 9:11 am
swbluto wrote:
Erisad wrote:
swbluto wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
swbluto wrote:
Most anti-prostitute females seem to come from the girlfriend alliance... I WONDER why this is... competition, maybe?
Yep. They're afraid they won't get to sleep with you. Just keep telling yourself that....
Bahahaha, I don't care if a girl does or doesn't want to sleep with me. The statement applies to pro-prostitution men in general, which a sizable amount are generally desirable by a significant number of women (Particularly many of those who can afford regular access to prostitutes since we know many women are attracted to a really big bag of gold). And that, my dear, is called undesired competition.
If a man is seeing a hooker, that's the kind of man I want to avoid so it's not a competition issue. It's just that I don't like how many women are forced into sex trafficking and are continually abused just to make ends meet. :/
If all men visited hookers, you'd avoid them all so, yes, it is ultimately a competition issue.
But, no one should have to worry about that, as men generally don't advertise their visits to prostitutes to girls they could be interested in. Or wait...
If all men visited hookers, the STD levels would skyrocket. :/
No, people should be concerned about stuff like that. Otherwise we would be self-absorbed as*holes. Of course, that's the main reason men visit prostitutes, they're selfish and only care about getting off, not about the abuse they're causing to the worker. After all, women are only good for sex so why should you give a s**t about them?
25 Jul 2011, 9:11 am
swbluto wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
you have been married, so i don't think you would particularly understand it either.
No, I've never been married nor divorced. I'm trying to imagine how you surmised this and I can say that it seems flattering.
(Or, maybe not if you thought I was divorced. 
)I will say, however, I've had a few girlfriends.
http://www.wrongplanet.net/postp3678528.html#3678528
http://www.wrongplanet.net/postp3678747.html#3678747
http://www.wrongplanet.net/postp3678891.html#3678891
it was based on these posts - you made it sound like you had to give away half of your income to an ex-wife. so you've never been married.
my point still stands - you were criticising people for making recommendations to virgins, and they are in the same situation as you.you are not a virgin either.
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Among the virgins and the non-religious, they are primarily too poor to afford a prostitute, so what else would I expect from people who want to appease females with "acceptable opinions"?
this doesn't make sense.
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it helps me understand what people think if I understand their perspective and their situation in life and particular belief systems has a lot to do with that.
but you're incorrectly sorting people, so it doesn't really work.
swbluto wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
swbluto wrote:
Most anti-prostitute females seem to come from the girlfriend alliance... I WONDER why this is... competition, maybe?
Yep. They're afraid they won't get to sleep with you. Just keep telling yourself that....
Bahahaha, I don't care if a girl does or doesn't want to sleep with me. The statement applies to pro-prostitution men in general, which a sizable amount are generally desirable by a significant number of women. And that, my dear, is called undesired competition.
uhhhh no. apparently not, because when men visit prostitutes it makes them less desirable. anyways if a man is highly desirable, then by definition he doesn't need to visit a prostitute. LOL
EDIT: pre-emptively removed something that looked insulting.
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25 Jul 2011, 9:13 am
hyperlexian wrote:
uhhhh no. apparently not, because when menvisit prostitutes it makes them less desirable. anyways if a man is highly desirable, then by definition he doesn't need to visit a prostitute. LOL
This.
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25 Jul 2011, 9:18 am
Erisad wrote:
swbluto wrote:
Erisad wrote:
swbluto wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
swbluto wrote:
Most anti-prostitute females seem to come from the girlfriend alliance... I WONDER why this is... competition, maybe?
Yep. They're afraid they won't get to sleep with you. Just keep telling yourself that....
Bahahaha, I don't care if a girl does or doesn't want to sleep with me. The statement applies to pro-prostitution men in general, which a sizable amount are generally desirable by a significant number of women (Particularly many of those who can afford regular access to prostitutes since we know many women are attracted to a really big bag of gold). And that, my dear, is called undesired competition.
If a man is seeing a hooker, that's the kind of man I want to avoid so it's not a competition issue. It's just that I don't like how many women are forced into sex trafficking and are continually abused just to make ends meet. :/
If all men visited hookers, you'd avoid them all so, yes, it is ultimately a competition issue.
But, no one should have to worry about that, as men generally don't advertise their visits to prostitutes to girls they could be interested in. Or wait...
If all men visited hookers, the STD levels would skyrocket. :/
No, people should be concerned about stuff like that. Otherwise we would be self-absorbed as*holes. Of course, that's the main reason men visit prostitutes, they're selfish and only care about getting off, not about the abuse they're causing to the worker. After all, women are only good for sex so why should you give a sh** about them?
During work hours, prostitutes are only good for sex. Using prostitutes doesn't necessarily say anything about ones views on women in general as women are good for other reasons.
Like staying in the kitchen and making sandwiches.
25 Jul 2011, 9:20 am
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25 Jul 2011, 9:21 am
Erisad wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
uhhhh no. apparently not, because when menvisit prostitutes it makes them less desirable. anyways if a man is highly desirable, then by definition he doesn't need to visit a prostitute. LOL
This.
Even desirable men have to work at it, and picking up the phone is much easier. That difference in effort involved is worth something, and to those wealthy enough, it's worth it.
25 Jul 2011, 9:27 am
25 Jul 2011, 9:27 am
swbluto wrote:
Erisad wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
uhhhh no. apparently not, because when menvisit prostitutes it makes them less desirable. anyways if a man is highly desirable, then by definition he doesn't need to visit a prostitute. LOL
This.
Even desirable men have to work at it, and picking up the phone is much easier. That difference in effort involved is worth something, and to those wealthy enough, it's worth it.
Yeah but do you feel fulfilled afterwards? I don't know how people can enjoy casual sex. It's meaningless if the person doesn't care about you. You may as well masturbate to porn and save your money. At least you're not abusing a poor sex worker if you use your hand. :/
25 Jul 2011, 9:29 am
swbluto wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
swbluto wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
swbluto wrote:
Most anti-prostitute females seem to come from the girlfriend alliance... I WONDER why this is... competition, maybe?
Yep. They're afraid they won't get to sleep with you. Just keep telling yourself that....
Bahahaha, I don't care if a girl does or doesn't want to sleep with me. The statement applies to pro-prostitution men in general, which a sizable amount are generally desirable by a significant number of women (Particularly many of those who can afford regular access to prostitutes since we know many women are attracted to a really big bag of gold). And that, my dear, is called undesired competition.
I am not your dear, mon petit.
C'est n'est mon petit, mon chien.
I do hope that was ghetto slang, otherwise I might get upset and take it as a personal attack, my little banana.
25 Jul 2011, 9:30 am
swbluto wrote:
Erisad wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
uhhhh no. apparently not, because when menvisit prostitutes it makes them less desirable. anyways if a man is highly desirable, then by definition he doesn't need to visit a prostitute. LOL
This.
Even desirable men have to work at it, and picking up the phone is much easier. That difference in effort involved is worth something, and to those wealthy enough, it's worth it.
YOU might think so but most men don't ever visit a prostitute in spite of having money. so to them, it obviously isn't worth it. your conclusions are flawed.
25 Jul 2011, 9:38 am
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25 Jul 2011, 9:41 am
hyperlexian wrote:
swbluto wrote:
During work hours, prostitutes are only good for sex. Using prostitutes doesn't necessarily say anything about ones views on women in general as women are good for other reasons.
Like staying in the kitchen and making sandwiches.
Like staying in the kitchen and making sandwiches.
you're wrong, of course. studies have shown that men who visit prostitutes (IN GENERAL) view women and sex differently from men who do not. this would affect all of their relationships with females.
here is an article about the most comprehensive study completed to date:
http://www.guardian.co.uk/society/2010/ ... rostitutes
and the fulltext here:
http://www.eaves4women.co.uk/Documents/ ... %20Sex.pdf
now, this doesn't apply to every single man, but it is an overall trend. this divide can be seen on this thread as well - a significant number of the men on WP who support the idea of visiting prostitutes have a deplorable attitude towards women in general.
It pretty much stated there are the "men who want to form a relationship with the prostitute" and the "Men who didn't want the prostitute to enjoy themselves". While, I understand there are those with those motives, there are those who just want to get their rocks off who don't need a deep freudian psychoanalysis to explain their sexual desire. What to make of that group, hmmmm?
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(i get it that you are trying to be as inflammatory as possible. but you're being overly silly. don't understand why you are doing that except that maybe you enjoy flame wars?)
It's a joke so, yes, it's "overly silly".
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25 Jul 2011, 9:50 am
hyperlexian wrote:
swbluto wrote:
Erisad wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
uhhhh no. apparently not, because when menvisit prostitutes it makes them less desirable. anyways if a man is highly desirable, then by definition he doesn't need to visit a prostitute. LOL
This.
Even desirable men have to work at it, and picking up the phone is much easier. That difference in effort involved is worth something, and to those wealthy enough, it's worth it.
YOU might think so but most men don't ever visit a prostitute in spite of having money. so to them, it obviously isn't worth it. your conclusions are flawed.
"Most people" simply do what other people are doing, so I wouldn't take it as any indication of how 'rational' a given lifestyle or action is. Most people believed in a flat earth circa 1400, and we all saw how rational that was...
(Note, I'm not saying that relationships are irrational. Rather, I'm saying there are multiple rational choices including all sorts of relationships and prostitution.)
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25 Jul 2011, 9:50 am
Erisad wrote:
swbluto wrote:
Erisad wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
uhhhh no. apparently not, because when menvisit prostitutes it makes them less desirable. anyways if a man is highly desirable, then by definition he doesn't need to visit a prostitute. LOL
This.
Even desirable men have to work at it, and picking up the phone is much easier. That difference in effort involved is worth something, and to those wealthy enough, it's worth it.
Yeah but do you feel fulfilled afterwards? I don't know how people can enjoy casual sex. It's meaningless if the person doesn't care about you. You may as well masturbate to porn and save your money. At least you're not abusing a poor sex worker if you use your hand. :/
Probably said this many times before, or said something on the same line. But it isn't all about the sex, it is about relieving the void. And sex does relieve that void, even if it is temparary. I know how loneliness spoils the enjoyment of almost everything. However, I know that it does't poil the enjoyment of sex with a prostitutes. I am almost certian the after affects can last for many days also. I
25 Jul 2011, 10:00 am
Aspie_Chav wrote:
Erisad wrote:
swbluto wrote:
Erisad wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
uhhhh no. apparently not, because when menvisit prostitutes it makes them less desirable. anyways if a man is highly desirable, then by definition he doesn't need to visit a prostitute. LOL
This.
Even desirable men have to work at it, and picking up the phone is much easier. That difference in effort involved is worth something, and to those wealthy enough, it's worth it.
Yeah but do you feel fulfilled afterwards? I don't know how people can enjoy casual sex. It's meaningless if the person doesn't care about you. You may as well masturbate to porn and save your money. At least you're not abusing a poor sex worker if you use your hand. :/
Probably said this many times before, or said something on the same line. But it isn't all about the sex, it is about relieving the void. And sex does relieve that void, even if it is temparary. I know how loneliness spoils the enjoyment of almost everything. However, I know that it does't poil the enjoyment of sex with a prostitutes. I am almost certian the after affects can last for many days also. I
If it's not all about the sex, why see a prostitute at all? Get a hobby or make some friends. It'll make you feel a lot less lonely without the risk of STDs or negative reputation.
