Interracial Dating and double standards

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Superhot Asian guy
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IuvtyFx5pt4[/youtube]

That was still a girl who was doing the generalizing.

Still, a woman hoping to find a husband who would be supportive of her career, and who wouldn't expect her to take orders from his mother, would probably find a larger pool of suitable candidates in UK and USA than in Japan. If she (like other Asian chicks) also has a preference for fair skin, long noses, round eyes and larger cocks, then she knows what she has to do.

While there is considerable variability between people within a country or culture, from my world travels earlier in life, there is quite a lot of variability in people between countries, such that certain traits are fairly predictable based on the country you are in. In France, children are introduced to wine at a young age. In the USA, this would be illegal and immoral.

Being able to generalize can be useful in narrowing one's search. If you have certain criteria that are more prevalent in one ethnic group than another, knowing this can be useful to help you to avoid wasting a lot of time and can increase your chances of a desireable outcome.

Still disagree

Last edited by lost561 on 11 Aug 2013, 12:46 pm, edited 1 time in total.

That video makes Asian girls look bad. And those are the Americanized ones. I wouldn't count out personality on the whole though.

Why the heck does it matter how the relationship started? If you love the person, and are compatible, that should be all that matters.

http://kotaku.com/the-world-of-japanese ... -506417591

I can't see how this would be a heaven for a man, care to explain that ArrantPariah?



Personally, I would kick out of the window anyone who offers me a limited "pocket money" of MY work's salary. I understand that any breadwinner needs to limit his/her personal expenditures for the sake of the family but the Japanese model is just too much, and it's so damn sexist that even the working wives do this to them but not vice versa.

The Japanese are, I think, the hardest working people on the planet. A typical salaryman has a very long commute, is expected to show ludicrous levels of devotion to his employer, works ridiculously long hours, and is expected to go out drinking with his co-workers after work. He doesn't spend much time at home.

And how do Japanese men put up with this, without keeling over from exhaustion?

My theory: it is the oxytocin that Japanese men derive from their interactions with the ultra-charming Japanese women. Not just the wives--Japan is noted for the wide variety of kinky services that one may find in many locations. By making these services readily available, male oxytocin levels are optimized, and the men are able to work without collapsing. Otherwise, Japan's economy would go into a tailspin.

The wife controlling the money and giving the husband a small allowance is fairly typical in a lot of Asian countries. It does help to limit the money that men waste on cigarettes and booze.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AVFJVW5SiZ4[/youtube]

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JWb_i56MhHs[/youtube]I usually get this kind of reaction with the local women where I live in a predominate Asian community! Just a simple smile and greeting makes them very happy and sometimes when they see me walking down the sidewalk and I catch them looking they smile! I tend to blush afterwards though hehe!

For gents of my age cohort, the most likely solutions seem to be Thailand

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xWT19QPZ6KE[/youtube]


and the Philippines

http://www.loveme.com/tour/testimonials.shtml

There's also something,a phenomena I've noticed about Asian girls that maybe make them more desirable for other races on dating sites: THEY SO OFTEN REPLY to messages, like 99% of the times, those who are living locally and abroad alike. Stereotypical, I know, but I base this observation on all attempts with Asian girls.

I haven't had any luck to date anyone except one for various reasons but that's something nice from them that they almost always REPLY politely, whether they are interested or not, normally delayed but they always reply, every Asian girl visited my profile after sending her a message, always reply - they're probably culturally raised that ignoring the person talking to you (who's normally talking, not harassing for sure) is a lack of respect - and they seem to apply this principle even online. Guys won't go for girls who ignore them after all.

Have anyone noticed this disparity on dating sites?

Hyeeeup. I could care less about about all these funny ideas about how "demure" or "faithful" or whatever Asian girls are. I just like the way they look. That's it!

Anyway, here is how to hook a White girl.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rwUkTY6KWQo[/youtube]

I've run into the other problem. It really depends on whether you can pass as NT or not but a lot of ethnic cultures whether Asian, Eastern European, African, Latin etc have more issues with disability than the West. Like they don't get it and just call you loco. This is because you don't want genetic issues in your family, and you don't just marry a person you marry a family. Even here, there are some families in mainstream black / white communities that aren't already neurodiverse and would not want that for their child. Now I generally preferred to date Asian guys in the past because I'm Chinese and culturally we get along.

But my husband is Black (I'm not racist) from a neurodiverse family but here's the deal - I have a terrible feeling that disability had something to do with it. More the neurodiverse family thing than the culture thing. I'm not NT-passing at all. Usually if I'm dating a guy in my culture the parents start talking about kids, and frankly I don't want my kids to go what I went through, and they don't want their kids to go through what I went through either. I know some Asian guys with ASD but it's way, way less common than in other cultures for some reason. So for me the choices were, dating people from neurodiverse families dating neurodiverse people, and so like culture became less of an important criterion than whether or not they can deal with the way you are.

Just my $.02

I came to the realization that White Caucasians are the most group in the world who have racists, that's why the term White supremacy exists.

I have never ever encountered an Asian/African/Hispanic/Indian who showed a racist attitude toward me. To be fair, some Middle Easterners (who call themselves Whites too) have it toward other darker/yellow ethnicities.

I personally find Japanese women more appealing and alluring than any other Asian women but I also find blue eyed brunettes and redheads attractive. As for them being slim,plump, buxom or not is all relative. Because what really matters is the connection two people in love make and share. Along with any hobbies and what not that they might share. On a side note maybe if there were more interracial marriages then maybe the world would be a better place. Of course when ever I see a white guy with an asian woman I can't help but think luck sob.