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15 Mar 2013, 4:49 pm

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We rarely show Vaginas any more in films either.

Back in the 70's it was far more prevalent because all you were really showing was a patch of hair, now with grooming standards having shifted to removal of hair they are less likely to be seen at all.

One of the most recent examples I can think of is probably Scary Movie.. which featured a penis as well as a vagina in different parts of the movie, both used for comedic props.

The fact you used the word 'Thingy' however is a whole other kettle of fish.


What's wrong with 'thingy'? I hate the word 'penis'



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15 Mar 2013, 4:56 pm

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:? Well definitely I'm not fascinated by the whores in his music videos. I don't need to dress like a whore to get a guy's attention. At least I personally don't think so. I don't know. I just watch it because he's just dreamy.

it's not necessary to put the women down with insulting words just because you don't like their attire or behaviour - clearly he DOES like the way they are. and considering he's not such a nice person himself, it's curious that you're giving him a free ride but you trash the women instead.



I dont know. Part of me wants to dress like that to get a man to love me and not have them think that I'm a naive half Asian. Being half Asian also is bad in certain ways. Some men think Asian women are easy and that they are very submissive which is sad. So Asian women can get used in a way. So if I dressed in tight tops or tight bottoms and g strings and dance around like those ladies in Pitbull's videos maybe I may get more men attracted to me? But at the same time they dont look classy. I don't know. Should we women all dress like that to get a man as a potential husband?? Pitbull dresses well. I like the suit and sunglasses. The only negative thing I read about him is the punching of fan on stage but while I don't like violence at all, it was like the fan provoked him. But we don't have the actual words that were exchanged between the fan and Pitbull.


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15 Mar 2013, 5:02 pm

nessa238 wrote:
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We rarely show Vaginas any more in films either.

Back in the 70's it was far more prevalent because all you were really showing was a patch of hair, now with grooming standards having shifted to removal of hair they are less likely to be seen at all.

One of the most recent examples I can think of is probably Scary Movie.. which featured a penis as well as a vagina in different parts of the movie, both used for comedic props.

The fact you used the word 'Thingy' however is a whole other kettle of fish.


What's wrong with 'thingy'? I hate the word 'penis'


Tough, it's not a "Thingy". Children say 'Thingy'. Immature people say 'thingy'.



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15 Mar 2013, 5:04 pm

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We rarely show Vaginas any more in films either.

Back in the 70's it was far more prevalent because all you were really showing was a patch of hair, now with grooming standards having shifted to removal of hair they are less likely to be seen at all.

One of the most recent examples I can think of is probably Scary Movie.. which featured a penis as well as a vagina in different parts of the movie, both used for comedic props.

The fact you used the word 'Thingy' however is a whole other kettle of fish.


What's wrong with 'thingy'? I hate the word 'penis'


Tough, it's not a "Thingy". Children say 'Thingy'. Immature people say 'thingy'.


It's a thingy if I want to call it that :)

A man has a 'thingy' and a woman has a 'down there'



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15 Mar 2013, 5:06 pm

Yeah, just like I said, Immature people.



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15 Mar 2013, 5:07 pm

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Yeah, just like I said, Immature people.


If that's your personal definition of immaturity

Mine differs :wink:



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15 Mar 2013, 5:07 pm

rabbittss wrote:
We rarely show Vaginas any more in films either.

Back in the 70's it was far more prevalent because all you were really showing was a patch of hair, now with grooming standards having shifted to removal of hair they are less likely to be seen at all.

One of the most recent examples I can think of is probably Scary Movie.. which featured a penis as well as a vagina in different parts of the movie, both used for comedic props.

The fact you used the word 'Thingy' however is a whole other kettle of fish.


I was gonna say pretty much the same.

Sure, there are loads of boobs in movies but plenty of bare male chests too. The issue there is that women's chests are more sexualized than men's, not that they're shown more often.

And the genitals of both genders are very rarely shown, though I'd say exposed penises are probably more common in mainstream media than exposed vulvas.



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15 Mar 2013, 5:11 pm

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We rarely show Vaginas any more in films either.

Back in the 70's it was far more prevalent because all you were really showing was a patch of hair, now with grooming standards having shifted to removal of hair they are less likely to be seen at all.

One of the most recent examples I can think of is probably Scary Movie.. which featured a penis as well as a vagina in different parts of the movie, both used for comedic props.

The fact you used the word 'Thingy' however is a whole other kettle of fish.


I was gonna say pretty much the same.

Sure, there are loads of boobs in movies but plenty of bare male chests too. The issue there is that women's chests are more sexualized than men's, not that they're shown more often.

And the genitals of both genders are very rarely shown, though I'd say exposed penises are probably more common in mainstream media than exposed vulvas.


What I mean is it's not fair that women's chests are exposed more than a man's sexual part

There's no male equivalent of breasts hence the nearest equivalent is the penis, which isn't shown often



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15 Mar 2013, 5:20 pm

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It's not quite equal though is it?

We see a lot more female flesh than male


I don't know. I didn't watch much, and I have no interest in the male flesh. Perhaps when you factor in the intense fascination that the ladies have in him, you need to compensate with a larger portion of female flesh to get any gents interested, so that it evens out in the end product.


I don't watch these videos at all as they're boring to me

I'd be happier if we saw a few male organs on the screen though - that would even up the score nicely
and not even because I want to look at men's parts but because we see endless permutations of female nudity but rarely any
male exposure

Oh but it might make the men all sad and insecure :cry:


Looks like someone needs to go on chat roulette.



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15 Mar 2013, 5:26 pm

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It's not quite equal though is it?

We see a lot more female flesh than male


I don't know. I didn't watch much, and I have no interest in the male flesh. Perhaps when you factor in the intense fascination that the ladies have in him, you need to compensate with a larger portion of female flesh to get any gents interested, so that it evens out in the end product.


I don't watch these videos at all as they're boring to me

I'd be happier if we saw a few male organs on the screen though - that would even up the score nicely
and not even because I want to look at men's parts but because we see endless permutations of female nudity but rarely any
male exposure

Oh but it might make the men all sad and insecure :cry:


Looks like someone needs to go on chat roulette.


Why do you say that?



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15 Mar 2013, 5:27 pm

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15 Mar 2013, 5:35 pm

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There's no male equivalent of breasts hence the nearest equivalent is the penis, which isn't shown often



No, the Female equivalent of the Penis is the Vagina.



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15 Mar 2013, 5:37 pm

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There's no male equivalent of breasts hence the nearest equivalent is the penis, which isn't shown often



No, the Female equivalent of the Penis is the Vagina.


That's not what I said

I said what was the male equivalent of female breasts

There isn't one, hence the penis has to stand in



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15 Mar 2013, 5:40 pm

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the penis has to stand in


That is what it is for.



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15 Mar 2013, 5:41 pm

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the penis has to stand in


That is what it is for.


This is getting silly!



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15 Mar 2013, 5:42 pm

nessa238 wrote:
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the penis has to stand in


That is what it is for.


This is getting silly!


Well, we are returning to the original topic, which is what men want in a woman.