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Why does an 'ideal body' have to be imperfection free? Perhaps people get carried away with what an ideal body has to be...they want a fantasy body not a real attainable body.

Hmmm.... this gives me an idea of an experiment, I am gonna message overweight/MoreToLove/Overweight women and check the attitude they demand from men toward their over weight VS their own attitude toward shortness in men, I already have an idea of past experiences but it will be interesting to make a showcase of this....double standard attitude.

Let's see if they adopt what they preach against body shaming (hint: most of the ones I met online didn't so far).

Boo, she didn't actually say she would not date a short man. You said you're short and she said yes you are.

You terminated the experiment prematurely. 

Yeah wtf Boo, she didn't say anything wrong. Maybe you have a complex.

I 'sensed' the "attitude" :p

You think only women can sense attitudes?

You know Peacesell, when all women who are taller than you tell you they won't date you because you're too short for them then the natural and normal thing to do is to start avoiding wasting time with any woman taller than you. It's pretty natural to develop this 'complex'.

Regardless you ruined the experiment but not waiting until she explicitly said she hates short guys.

Is the reason you date so many Asian girls because many of them are shorter than you?

IDK based on this response I wouldn't be surprised if maybe they do sense a little bit of stuck up/superiority complex attitude from you. I get it you don't like that poster thinks maybe people could pick up on your attitude online...but its certainly not that terribly out there of a possibility.

Also the way you worded that seems to imply you think women are generally irrational and illogical, that is an example of how people can sense your attitude on-line.

Because otherwise it wouldn't fit the definition of ideal.

Why am I low status? Just because I have a blue collar job and no friends? I own my own house.

It is the reverse, it is for that reason Asian girls are by far more likely to accept to date me.

Asian girls don't accept me. They usually want to date other Asians

To see if the women would go for short guys who were successful, ABCNEWS’ Lynn Sherr created extraordinary résumés for the shorter men. She told the women that the shorter men included a doctor, a best-selling author, a champion skier, a venture capitalist who’d made millions by the age of 25.

Nothing worked. The women always chose the tall men. Sherr asked whether there’d be anything she could say that would make the shortest of the men, who was 5 feet, irresistible. One of the women replied, “Maybe the only thing you could say is that the other four are murderers.” Another backed her up, saying that had the taller men had a criminal record she might have been swayed to choose a shorter man. Another said she’d have considered the shorter men, if the taller men had been described as “child molesters.”

Lest you think this is an example of reality TV finding evidence to support a story, Tom tried his own experiment last week. Sure enough, few women give a fair shake to a man who is 5’3”, no matter what else he has going for him.

I’m going to let Tom take it from here.

So I tried changing my profile for three days just to see what the difference was between being 5’3″ and 5’10”. I wanted to know if height was the only difference and the constant deal breaker. So I moved my profile from Pittsburgh and posted it for 3 days in a town where nobody knew me (Philadelphia). Here’s what I found:

5’3” in Pittsburgh /5’10” in Philadelphia
Mutual matches 0 /80
Reverse matches 12 /400
Petite women w/pics w/in 50 miles 45 /650
Views in 3 days 11 /212
Emails received – unsolicited 0 /32
Winks received – unsolicited 2 /28
Emails sent out 6 /6
Replies received to emails sent out 0 /6

I 'sensed' the "attitude" :p

You think only women can sense attitudes?

You know Peacesell, when all women who are taller than you tell you they won't date you because you're too short for them then the natural and normal thing to do is to start avoiding wasting time with any woman taller than you. It's pretty natural to develop this 'complex'.

Sweetleaf is right to an extent. Women can't read your mind but we can sense a tone in how your profile or messages are written.