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08 Jan 2018, 3:57 am

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Be frikin grateful, you're lucky anyone likes you at all! I've never met a girl who appeared to like me ever in my entire life!



Hello mjames72 welcome to Wong Planet

Would you notice if one did? the signs can be very subtle. I usually only know if someones been interested in me after they've given up and if it's been witnessed by someone else who then tells me. Or are you talking internet dating?



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08 Jan 2018, 5:39 am

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I didn't post an actual claim.

Boo was drawing a comparison between guys and transexuals or whatnot sending dick pics. By the way you tried to invalidate his words it is apparent that you disagree with him. Don't you?
So what data do you have to say that we shouldn't believe Boo?
Also, I don't think anyone published transexual dick pics statistics. Is it wrong for Boo to talk about his experience? In another thread you just made a claim talking about your experience with guys.


No, I simply asked for evidence.

He didn't present any.

What kind of evidence do you expect him to present on the topic, apart from his personal experience? I don't think there's official transexual dick pics data out there.



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08 Jan 2018, 6:36 am

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I didn't post an actual claim.

Boo was drawing a comparison between guys and transexuals or whatnot sending dick pics. By the way you tried to invalidate his words it is apparent that you disagree with him. Don't you?
So what data do you have to say that we shouldn't believe Boo?
Also, I don't think anyone published transexual dick pics statistics. Is it wrong for Boo to talk about his experience? In another thread you just made a claim talking about your experience with guys.


What he said XFilesGeek, it's based on my apps usage experience, go use these date apps and see by yourself.

However, I can easily collect screenshots of nudes sent by transexuals - and I can do something similar to this : viewtopic.php?t=358512

My whole point is: It's a myth that Nude-senders are all heterosexual guys, there's a lot of unsolicited nude sending and nude exchange going on among lesbian/bi women and same for the ladyboys/transgenders - and in my experiments, they send unsolicited stuff more than guys.
But if you want me to do a full stats study with numbers and graphs, you have to pay me. :)



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08 Jan 2018, 7:16 am

I don’t think anyone said it was all heterosexual guys. It’s commonly known to be rampant in the homosexual community of both genders.



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08 Jan 2018, 5:02 pm

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I don’t think anyone said it was all heterosexual guys. It’s commonly known to be rampant in the homosexual community of both genders.


True. And it's pretty awesome. :P


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08 Jan 2018, 5:44 pm

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I don’t think anyone said it was all heterosexual guys. It’s commonly known to be rampant in the homosexual community of both genders.


True. And it's pretty awesome. :P

You know, we are talking about people who send unsolicited pics with sexual content yo somebody who didn't ask for it.



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08 Jan 2018, 5:49 pm

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I don’t think anyone said it was all heterosexual guys. It’s commonly known to be rampant in the homosexual community of both genders.


True. And it's pretty awesome. :P

You know, we are talking about people who send unsolicited pics with sexual content yo somebody who didn't ask for it.


Yes, I know, and it's fantastic that so much of the gay community initiates conversations via hookup apps with unsolicited nude photos. I didn't even have to ask and so many beautiful young hotties send me their sexiest photos. That is fantastic! I'm not even bothered by the ones I'm not attracted to, as one has to accept receiving those, too, for the opportunity to view the super hot ones when they're sent. 8)


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08 Jan 2018, 5:52 pm

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I don’t think anyone said it was all heterosexual guys. It’s commonly known to be rampant in the homosexual community of both genders.


True. And it's pretty awesome. :P

You know, we are talking about people who send unsolicited pics with sexual content yo somebody who didn't ask for it.


Yes, I know, and it's fantastic that so much of the gay community initiates conversations via hookup apps with unsolicited nude photos. I didn't even have to ask and so many beautiful young hotties send me their sexiest photos. That is fantastic! I'm not even bothered by the ones I'm not attracted to, as one has to accept receiving those, too, for the opportunity to view the super hot ones when they're sent. 8)

Nothing fantastic about filthy scum sending unsolicited perverted pics to people who didn't ask for it, unless it's a dedicated app. It's a form of sexual aggression and all these degenerates should be banned.



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08 Jan 2018, 6:03 pm

Peacesells wrote:
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I don’t think anyone said it was all heterosexual guys. It’s commonly known to be rampant in the homosexual community of both genders.


True. And it's pretty awesome. :P

You know, we are talking about people who send unsolicited pics with sexual content yo somebody who didn't ask for it.


Yes, I know, and it's fantastic that so much of the gay community initiates conversations via hookup apps with unsolicited nude photos. I didn't even have to ask and so many beautiful young hotties send me their sexiest photos. That is fantastic! I'm not even bothered by the ones I'm not attracted to, as one has to accept receiving those, too, for the opportunity to view the super hot ones when they're sent. 8)

Nothing fantastic about filthy scum sending unsolicited perverted pics to people who didn't ask for it, unless it's a dedicated app. It's a form of sexual aggression and all these degenerates should be banned.


:lol: It's a gay hookup app, unsolicited nudes come with the territory - and for the most part, people welcome them as I do. People who don't specify in their profile that they prefer Not to receive such pics. Otherwise it's open season for unsolicited nudes & I appreciate them in all their sexy naked pretty little gay boy glory. 8)


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08 Jan 2018, 6:17 pm

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:lol: It's a gay hookup app, unsolicited nudes come with the territory - and for the most part, people welcome them as I do. People who don't specify in their profile that they prefer Not to receive such pics. Otherwise it's open season for unsolicited nudes & I appreciate them in all their sexy naked pretty little gay boy glory. 8)

Depends on the app and if it allowes it, people shouldn't do it on normal dating apps. You shouldn't be supposed to speficy such things on your page in order not to have scum and freaks sexually harass you with unrequested dick pics. And if 10 people like it, it doesn't mean that the 11th is going to like it too.



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08 Jan 2018, 6:42 pm

i dunno about the gay men; but among the online lesbian community sending unsolicited women parts (to other women or to.... men prenting to be women bahaha) seem to be the default etiquette.



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08 Jan 2018, 6:42 pm

Peacesells wrote:
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:lol: It's a gay hookup app, unsolicited nudes come with the territory - and for the most part, people welcome them as I do. People who don't specify in their profile that they prefer Not to receive such pics. Otherwise it's open season for unsolicited nudes & I appreciate them in all their sexy naked pretty little gay boy glory. 8)

Depends on the app and if it allowes it, people shouldn't do it on normal dating apps. You shouldn't be supposed to speficy such things on your page in order not to have scum and freaks sexually harass you with unrequested dick pics. And if 10 people like it, it doesn't mean that the 11th is going to like it too.


Just because something is different than YOU prefer, in terms of dating/hookups/apps/pics etc, does NOT make the people "scum and freaks," who DO willingly participate in things you don't particularly care for. You're not obligated to do these things, but it is RIDICULOUS of you to judge others for their sexual practices that have NOTHING to do with you. You do you, everyone else will be themselves & get along just fine, thank you very much.


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08 Jan 2018, 6:43 pm

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i dunno about the gay men; but among the online lesbian community sending unsolicited women parts (to other women or to.... men prenting to be women bahaha) seem to be the default etiquette.


Based on my personal experiences, it's a very small minority of gay males that don't welcome unsolicited nudes on hookup apps.


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08 Jan 2018, 6:48 pm

Well I guess then that straight men are from mars, straight women from venus, lesbian women are from mercury, gay men from jupiter.

And bi women’s whole attitudes seem to flipflop 180 degrees depending whether they’re dating a man or a woman.



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08 Jan 2018, 7:30 pm

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Just because something is different than YOU prefer, in terms of dating/hookups/apps/pics etc, does NOT make the people "scum and freaks," who DO willingly participate in things you don't particularly care for. You're not obligated to do these things, but it is RIDICULOUS of you to judge others for their sexual practices that have NOTHING to do with you. You do you, everyone else will be themselves & get along just fine, thank you very much.

This is uttet BS. Sending unsolicited sexual pictures to people is a form of sexual assault and the fact that 9 people out of 10 may like it doesn't imply that it's good, a 10th person may feel completely justificated in feeling offended and reporting you. Maybe those filthy freaks don't know that there are apps and sites for such activities.
Also it's not that I criticize other people's different ways, it's that my ways are right and such caveman ways are obviously wrong. If they used the apps that are made for it and allow it I couldn't care less.



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08 Jan 2018, 9:31 pm

goldfish21 wrote:
Just because something is different than YOU prefer, in terms of dating/hookups/apps/pics etc, does NOT make the people "scum and freaks," who DO willingly participate in things you don't particularly care for. You're not obligated to do these things, but it is RIDICULOUS of you to judge others for their sexual practices that have NOTHING to do with you. You do you, everyone else will be themselves & get along just fine, thank you very much.


There is such a thing as having too much empathy for others. I’m not about to accept pedophiles’ actions as deserving of acceptance. With consenting adults, your advice applies. Being sent unsolicited dick pics means one person did not consent it, and it doesn’t deserve empathy.

I don’t personally care about being sent dick pics, it just looks ugly and I tell them so and block them. But some people don’t cope with that sort of thing well. If someone forces their genitalia on you, you have every right to call them scum freaks.