Do you feel unattractive?

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I'm not physically unattractive but i think my personality repels others.

When I'm stationary I'm fine. But when I open my mouth or move around...its not too good.

I wouldn't say I don't completely care how I look, I do a bit. But overall I don't think care that much.

I'm trying to put some effort into how I look, because you get judged on it. So it is better to look more attractive, but there really isn't all that much you can do to improve your looks (hair, clothes, get in and stay in shape, that's about all you can do ). It's a down hill fight though anyway, the older we get the worse we are going to look.

I am unattractive. My own feelings about it fluctuate.

Yes i feel unattractive, and I try to tell myself that I don't care, but really i do. I manage to fool myself sometimes and that gives me some false confidence, but it never lasts. It follows my depression cycles. When i'm down, I feel unattractive. When i'm up, well, I feel better about myself. I wouldn't say "attractive", but better. It's something that's followed me for my entire life.

No, I am not convinced that the opposite sex could like me for a long time. I tell myself that eventually they'll get sick of all my weird habits, and flaws. That's another reason I've never been into dating. I guess it's an insecurity of mine.

I consider myself mediocre I guess. I just stink at comparing to others, so i dont know.
I have found, in multiple situations, married women liking me. And it is awfully awkward. But I think thats more due to my nature than looks.
I also have a few friends who are gay and tag along to gay bars every so often, and its really odd but somewhat amusing that when I walk into the bar, 80% of the guys are undressing me with their eyes. I can feel all the eyes on me. I dont ever get that sensation in normal bars with women, so attribute it to men being hornier with less standards or I have something about me that gay men find attractive, but it happens =P.

I don't really feel unattractive. The one thing I'm a bit insecure about is my weight. I'm not really overweight, but I think if I lost 15-20 pounds I'd be a lot more confident.

I'm told I've got a unique look about me. I don't have a certain style - my general dress is normal, but in a weird way. It'd make sense if you saw me every day. Anyways, it kind of makes it hard for people to put a label on me. I like that.

I feel very unattractive, I'm short and small and many people think i'm 18. Girls have told me i'm cute on many occasions, but they are usually the type that lie and say things to get their way. On the other hand, I think I've been with more girls than a loser like me should have ever been with. Now that I'm getting older the few girls that have actually talked to me are WAY too young. Girls my own age won't even look at me. Either way what really matters to me is the fact that I'm lonely and haven't been with a girl for like 4 years.

I am attractive to myself. I don't really have an opinion about whether I am attractive to others in general though I have only had positive responses so I guess I am not ugly.

I am not sure. I have trouble judging such things.

I am ,as overall, unattractive: physically, mentally, socially and financially.

But I don't really care anymore...

Mentally & socially, no; physically, yeah.

I always feel unnatractive though I think this is down to low self-esteem, as I always feel everyone looks down on me as if im inferior to them.

at the moment, i just feel unwell.. i ate too much, too fast..
i'm gonna go ahead & contradict myself by saying that i Do feel attractive in body, mind & the other.

You're funny, and witty, and have a generally balanced perspective on things. Those are socially attractive traits. And I swear this is the third time I've tried to post the same message - stupid WP.

Yes...

Well LePetitPrince, I don't think you're unattractive. I think you you're under the delusion that it's your looks and not the fact that you are a porcupine.

Just a suggestion, might want to get those needles filed down before another lady hurts herself while passing by...

Last edited by MissConstrue on 03 Jun 2009, 4:00 am, edited 1 time in total.