deadeyexx wrote:
So much talk on here about nice guys, jerks, attractivness, etc... that everyone's missing the biggest reason they have trouble getting dates. SOCIAL RELEVANCE. If you don't have a social network with lots of friends, taking you to lots of social functions, where you meet lots of new people, then being a super-attractive jerk counts for nothing. All these qualities only matter if you're on the radar in the first place.
One girl I met online asked, "why do you have to meet women online?", "aren't women coming onto you all the time?".
My response: "what women?"
I agree, the lifestyle is crucial.