Importance of isolation

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How is it you meet a woman in isolation? Do you watch her, and then sneak up on her? I am having a hard time picturing this.

Or do you mean walking past her on a path, and smiling at her and saying "Hi How are you"?

I'm glad I read this thread. My favorite place to approach women, aside from on campus and in coffee shops/bookstores and the like, is out on hiking trails. It's because of reason a) that Winternight gave, about women being sexually freer when they know they're not being watched, and also because in those settings I'm usually both stimulated and also free to be myself, as it doesn't feel like a social situation.

One of my fantasies is to run into a girl out somewhere in nature, such as up on a mountain when we've both stopped to look at the view, and have her be almost instantly attracted to me, so we move to making out and then maybe more. There is just raw beauty of trees, rocks, maybe even a few deer or other animals to watch us, but no people to be weirded out or tell us to "get a room". Or in fact, even better would be if the *girl* walked up to me in that kind of situation and just started touching me.

Now I know this is unlikely, but the fact is, if I'm out on a trail and a beautiful woman walks by I'm likely to at least try staring a conversation, and if it gets going start walking by her. Now, after reading this thread, I realize that many women don't think this way.

No, it's the safety factor. You want women, the more delicate of the sexes to be comfortable and to fee lsafe



Yes and no. Yes, you increase your chances of being better to communicate because you're more at ease and in an environment with which you are more comfortable. No because she is more likely to hesitate and analyze everything you say and do.

So... If you want to learn how to be more comfortable around women, then isolated locations are better. If you are looking to make a connection, where the woman is at ease is a much better location.

You've asked the question; you're only getting the answer requested... just not the one you wanted, it seems.

Meeting people in isolation is a ploy often used by those with malign intent - whether or not it is your own intent, it creates a sense of questionable intentions on the part of others. Finding an opportunity to meet is one thing, but arranging for such a private meeting can be off-putting. Even when the genders are reversed - I would not be comfortable meeting a woman in private for fear of some sort of accusation.

Don't be angry that people responded to your question; if you are seeking support instead of insight, you might want to consider using the Haven instead of L&D forum.


M.