I think i've accidently screwed up bad

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I'd suggest giving the feud a cooldown. Just realise she's a woman and needs her space at times. If she did infact over-react she'll come to her senses and appoligize about it, then you should appologize for attempting to ruin something you believed was rightfully yours. Wait a week or so before appologizing again, if she still wants to shun you off then let her be.

Time heals all wounds. Given enough time, she'll get over it. You gave an honest answer to a serious question and there's nothing wrong with that.

If you gave an honest answer and pissed off a guy friend, would you be as hurt/worried, ultimately feeling the need to apologize?

Yeah, she may be pretty, she may be all that - but do you think she wants a guy who doesn't speak his mind?

OP, I think you've missed the point of your encounter with this woman. You told her you loved her - she didn't bite. You also told her you loved her months before she met her bf - she didn't bite then either, and instead chose to start dating her bf. I'm sorry hon - she's just not that into you.

You have a choice to make: keep carrying a torch for her; or accept that the feeling isn't mutual and find a girl who is not involved with someone else - and is interested in dating you. It may well be a blessing that your relationship with this girl has cooled for now...it will give you a chance to start separating from her - which is probably the best thing for you.