Okay this isn't just an aspie issue, even NT's and other ND's have this issue all because they expect their mates to read their minds.
My mom said the reason why so many relationships fail is because people don't tell their partner what they are doing wrong or what is bugging them and they wait till they can't take it and then they blow up.
I read a book called The Seven Dumbest Relationships Mistakes Smart People make and one of the dumbest mistakes are "Expecting your partner to read your mind." The doctor wrote in there that you have to tell people how you feel, what they are doing is bothering you, let them know what you want from them, etc.
The reason why people do this is because they think if you love them that much, you will know. To me that sounded so aspie. Hey even NT's and other ND's lack theory of mind when they act this way.
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22 Dec 2009, 5:47 am
