Have you ever had a gf/bf?

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Yup, one gf in junior high a year above me. It lasted for 7 months, and we both kept each other amused. Im sure she wondered why I liked staring a bright flashy screens while randomly pressing buttons, and me wondering why she liked buying shiny things that never amounted to anything more then trivial decoration!

lol i love those!! my favorite arcade game was Raiden..! !! and i also liked side scrolling platform games!! !! !!

Yes, I did have relationships. Both serious relationships I had lasted 6 months.
Last year when I finished our 'thing' I was broken, tired, empty battery of all communication stuff
Now I am not sure if I want to give that much energy to another person again...

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I have had only one girlfriend (NT), her name was Claudia. She was extremely abusive (in the emotional sense, she wasn't violent or anything). She and I were together from 1997-1998. SHe constantly jerked me around, she tried to get me to drive my parents' car without a license (I was 17 at the time, I didn't get my license until I was 21). She stood me up at prom, and she cheated on me numerous times (sometimes with people who were in gangs).

For years, I came to the conclusion that all NT's were like Claudia.

Tim

nah i havent. i try to pretend to myself that it doesnt matter but as far as i can figure out the whole basis of existence is to make babies. i wish i was one of those people who were happy to be physically alone and didnt need anyone else but i'm not. however if i leave the house 2 days in a row i start to get stressed. ive spent most of my life in isolation as its just too emotionally painful to be around others i find

I've had no romantic relationships that i count.
I had one just horrible one and one that just didn't really work out.
I don't think i'll be dating again any time soon.

Just not feeling alone is enough. Complicating things with everything that seems to go with dating never seems to work for me. Especially since it seems like older guys like to exploit 20 something girls who don't really have a clue when it comes to social stuff.

So I guess i'm alone in having had a boyfriend (and a girlfriend breifly too actually) but wishing i hadn't.

There are two girls that say they'll file restraining orders if I speak with them again. Does that count? It doesn't so I'm single at the time. 19 years old, don't know any female well. Currently a Physics major, so guess how many girls in it (1 for every 10 guys). Seeing as I don't go to social events and nearly every group I'm involved with is all guys (Aikido, Judo, GAMER), I'm not meeting anyone.

I usually don't notice if someone is interested in me, and if I do, I always seem to avoid them. So, no, I've never been involved in a romantic relationship.

I am twenty six years old and have never had a boyfriend.

I'm not sure whether it is down to bad timing. I always seem to get attached to guys who are either completely unsuitable, unavailable or not interested. Similarly I have had guys like me but I wouldn't touch them with a barge-pole. It may be that deep down I know I can't bear the pain of getting together with someone who will hurt me one day. I went on a date once and it scared the crap out of me, I think because I need my personal space and I hate feeling claustrophic. I realised recently though that I don't like the idea of sharing my life with someone so maybe that is what's behind it. I don't think I care whether I ever have children either...

Good grief. Do you live in Canada or something?

These girls should be ashamed of themselves for judging you like that.

Restraining orders have very good uses (not withstanding that they can be ineffective, as was the case with that murder case I've mentioned too many times), but at least in left-wing utopias like Canada, they're used recreationally. Like pot.

It took untill I was 20 to actually have some kind of mutual interest - only lasted a month or so and at the end of it my friends were a little confused as to why she left (then it turned out she ended dating and marrying one of my guy friends). After that its been more of what I saw in highschool with getting interest, usually untill they figured out I wasn't NT and the thing I hated was that a lot of the girls who really liked me and were really interested I just couldn't find the spark or attraction (which bugged me, a lot of them were really cool). Right now it's been a few weeks since my last almost but I'm getting out there more now and it looks like my opportunities are on the rise.

On virginity no, it's gone and I'm glad just because I know exactly what I'm missing - when you still have it you get the impression sex is way better than it is.

Had a girlfriend from around my 16th birthday for 8 months. Mainly physical relationship on my part. She on the otherhand was apparently deeply in love.

This past November I met my one and only. Been together for...almost 5 months now. Feels great.

I had 5 and for every one there was somebody to tell me how my date sucked, and I should not go out with her.

I'm 25, and have never been in a relationship or never kissed anyone. Quite the extreme opposite actually. My frumpy physical appearance and lack of self-confidence instantly turns women off.

Never dated, never kissed, and I'm 25.


Oddly, a majority of my friends have been women. Though by now, it's been about a quarter of my life since I've had any friends at all

(I gave up entirely on people for a long time, and only recently have I started trying to interact again)

I've had a disastrous online relationship, but never an actual in-person one.
I feel like a 13-year-old sexually/mentally, despite the fact that I'm 19 (20 in a few weeks.)
It doesn't help that I live in a small town about an hour drive away from the nearest somewhere, and the only places to socialize are bars (and I'm too young to drink.)
I don't see a meaningful relationship with another person anytime soon in my future.