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24 May 2010, 3:47 pm

^^^I think hanging with losers could be better than having no one to hang with. I cut losers out of my life & I have almost no one to assimilate with now. I may of not liked hanging with em often but it was still better than nothing. Least the losers liked having me around


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24 May 2010, 5:14 pm

Well, maybe that's your opinion, but I'd rather stay at home reading a book, playing a game, or watching a DVD or cable, and that's when I don't get out by myself, walking down the streets, looking at what's new in the bookstores, electronics stores, going to the movies, eating something... I just ran across an old friend on the street last Saturday, and even though we only talked briefly, we had chatted on Facebook a few days earlier and had talked about doing something on a Saturday, now I'm going to send him a message to talk about that again. And speaking of that, I opened a Facebook account a while ago for the purpose of getting in touch with my old friends with whom I lost contact because of studies or work... there's going to be a school reunion later this year, for instance, and I've also contacted friends from the university... of course if you never had other friends to begin with, then you have a problem, but in my case, that group, even though they were around my age, turned out to not be what I was looking for, and it took me a while to realize it... everyone else who has a life has eventually left that group, too.



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03 Jun 2010, 4:58 pm

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what haapened made me sad, but doesnt change how i feel about you. i felt like i wanted to give up on yout at first. but then i thought why should i... your worth fighting for

i dont dont if ur aspergers plays a part in it or whether one day you will stop running from me? but as long as ur still kinda here i will still be here waiting for you

and i will still be here each time you run

thats all i wanted to say

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i had to ask it coz i dont know. its been so off and on

and i dont disresepect u atall for that

if thats just you and ur aspergers then i will learn to love it

if thats just the circumstances then i will learn to change it

if u were messing me around then there would be no point for me would there

just needed to know if it was worth me persuing it, being stubborn

if u want to just be my friend then im lucky to have u as a friend

i just needed to know

and i know after the 'issue' that everything went quiet and we didnt talk



^ that some of the stuff that was sent to me today , i've not made any commitments... Do i miss her company? YES , do i think about her when i walk along the beach? YES. But i know what would happen if i was back with her a lack of trust regarding her drink. Is she playing the sympathy trip with me? she even asked me if i was just messing her about :?



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03 Jun 2010, 5:32 pm

She's still in denial, I think.



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04 Jun 2010, 3:38 am

Aimless wrote:
She's still in denial, I think.


Could well be :?



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04 Jun 2010, 2:02 pm

I'll probably end up meeting her tomorrow night just because we are going to the same church



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04 Jul 2010, 10:53 am

It get's worse!

I went for a day out and met her for a day out , no love involved just as friends because of her issues. She told me she maybe bipolar and multipersonality disorder , We had a great time though and left it as that , two days later she text's me about being on a run for charity in a field. Relay for life or something , sure enough i check it out and there is an event. She mentions to me that she will run for my grandad and those that have died for cancer. I said to her well done , i was proud. The next day she text's me that she is doing fine but it's hot.

Well here it gets weird , she texts my mum :? that she was raped in a tent at the event. Apparantly she was told by someone else but she doesn't remember it , now my first thought was alcohol!. Now i asked her how she was again , still the same response. I then mentioned that my mum told me what happened , and suddenly it's i'm sorry don't be angry. I said GO TO THE POLICE , but she responds i'll do the run first and then go to the police... wtf :? . She also says " i'm fine , will text you later ".

I asked her point blank , if you was raped you'd go to the police you wouldn't continue the run and you wouldn't say you was fine and i asked her did you drink?

Thank f**k i didn't get deeply involved with this woman



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04 Jul 2010, 10:58 am

indeed.



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04 Jul 2010, 11:07 am

Aimless wrote:
indeed.


Imagine if i slept with her , damn so who's the kid from? :oops:



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04 Jul 2010, 1:43 pm

WeatherFreak wrote:
Aimless wrote:
indeed.


Imagine if i slept with her , damn so who's the kid from? :oops:


I think the lesson is :arrow: do NOT date anyone who has a drug or alcohol problem cuz lots of people on stuff do things they don't remember. Also most of the bipolar people I've known had major problems in their lives cuz of drugs


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04 Jul 2010, 3:28 pm

nick007 wrote:
WeatherFreak wrote:
Aimless wrote:
indeed.


Imagine if i slept with her , damn so who's the kid from? :oops:


I think the lesson is :arrow: do NOT date anyone who has a drug or alcohol problem cuz lots of people on stuff do things they don't remember. Also most of the bipolar people I've known had major problems in their lives cuz of drugs


True!



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04 Jul 2010, 3:35 pm

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Look, there is no other way to put this but this woman is a serious cantidate for loser of the year - if not the century. Why the hell would you want to be with someone like this? Do yourself a favour and set you sights a little (or a lot) higher.


While I agree with you on that sentiment, it's really hard to do that, especially when this type of woman is the only one that pays any attention to you at all.


And you wonder why I pay for sex...