Qualities you want in a guy/girl?

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So you could have a hermaphrodite fetish?

You should set some boundaries there, mate.

There's some weird fetishes out there.

2girls1cup is a trailer for a porn movie.

What about someone like me? I have largely male interests (computer/techie stuff mostly), and i don't get into fashion things as much either, but when it comes to the matters of the heart, I guess I'm more in touch with my feminine side... I don't want to have sex for its own sake like a lot of other guys, and I want to find someone to spend the rest of my life with, and possibly raise a family... is that too feminine for someone like you?

I think it's pretty misguided to think that not wanting sex and only caring about love and family is a "feminine" thing. Most people I know, both male and female, are cool with casual sex, at least under the right circumstances, and also want to eventually settle down and have a family.

Either way I think astaut was talking more about looks.

Hmm. Well here goes:

lively and somewhat outgoing (quiet is ok, but not too quiet)
Funny
Confident
Well-adjusted
Intelligent
Can argue and justify their opinions well
Is a classical musician (or at least has some appreciation for music)
Likes books
Is not afraid to be silly sometimes
Is a bit of a romantic.

Of course I am describing one of my friends, but we are not in love.

I want some caracteristics for my spouse:

An heterosexual man
Christian
Understanding
Affectuous
Tall
Not afraid to cry
Intelligent
Generous
Kind
Sensual
Lovable

Voilà!

I like guys who have a sensitive side and care about animals : )

Some odd ones on my end (and ones that should exist in ANY relationship)

1) Absolute honesty. That means no lying, no nothing of the sort.
2) Straightedge. Sorry, but I don't date girls who have a love for beer pong, the bong and any girl who thinks sex is disposable.
3) Someone who is kind enough to see past my autism
4) Brains. Sorry, but I don't want an airhead for a significant other.
5) An understanding of my life and how aspects of it have come to be.
6) A challenge in the relationship itself. An easy relationship is more likely to break easily.
7) A hundred other things I can't think of at the moment (most are nice, but I would let many slide if need be).

Age 20-25
Female
Moderate to high sex drive
Don't care about height/weight proportion, but not too keen on fat girls
Catholic, Protestant, or Jewish
NOT a liar
MUST be intelligent
MUST be sensual and sexy
Lovable
MUST like helping people
Very kind and nice
Does not smoke and does not drink

geuine, kind, responsible and intelligent

physically i don't care
and look-wise, don't care either. as long as he doesn't look "evil".

You almost had me sold until I read the last one... sorry...

I am sure you are lovable.

* MUST be a devout Catholic
* Political orientation shouldn't matter-she just can't be radical left-wing
* MUST be willing to have children
* Black/dark brown long hair (VERY appealing to my eye)
* MUST be at no more than a healthy weight
* Someone who's around my intelligence level, or at least
* MUST be 5'5" or taller
* MUST share my passion for staying physically fit
* MUST be two years younger than I

I don't know sometimes. Physical traits can vary a lot from one girl I like to another. Skinny, plump, blonde, brunette... I just want someone cute who is also cool to be with. I'd like someone who isn't too shy, can be sensual and affectionate. Above all, they have to be able to accept me, good and bad. Be supportive and understanding when things aren't always going well and when things are good, let's have the time of our lives.

I suppose some of my dealbreakers are; already having kids, smoking, evangelicalism, ideological conservatism, and asexuality.

I'd want someone who is down to earth and flexible. None of that "I think its fun to fight with you" garbage. But, yeah that's what would WANT. Good luck finding that.

You are probably lovable but frustrating...