19 Jun 2010, 4:34 am
Seanmw wrote:
awwwh, my girlfriend is also pretty much my best 
friend too.
& i just love the sense of deep connection. it's as if before her i never really clicked with anyone else on that level, or really understood what the feeling was that couples around me seemed to be experiencing, i mean like, i'd had plenty of crushes before and some lesser relations, even the odd aspie obsession at one point, but nothing really like this.
friend too.& i just love the sense of deep connection. it's as if before her i never really clicked with anyone else on that level, or really understood what the feeling was that couples around me seemed to be experiencing, i mean like, i'd had plenty of crushes before and some lesser relations, even the odd aspie obsession at one point, but nothing really like this.
That's very sweet. Have you met her in person yet?
19 Jun 2010, 5:21 am
We had been friends for several months before he decided he would like to have something further with me. We kinda talked about it sometimes while we were only friends but he said he didn't know if he was "able" to due to his ASD and OCD. So I come back from a holiday, and he tells me he'd like to try being with me (he says he felt empty while I was away). I think about it for a week or two and say yes. Things get very emotional fast. In the end he delivered a paper thin excuse to break up involving my one night stand from three years ago, as his ex GF finally got the money to fly to see him.
Oh wait, that's not a relationship success story 
19 Jun 2010, 5:56 am
Seanmw wrote:
book_noodles wrote:
I will have been with my boyfriend for 2 years on July 3rd It is awesome. He's also my best friend.
awwwh, my girlfriend is also pretty much my best It is awesome. He's also my best friend. friend too.& i just love the sense of deep connection. it's as if before her i never really clicked with anyone else on that level, or really understood what the feeling was that couples around me seemed to be experiencing, i mean like, i'd had plenty of crushes before and some lesser relations, even the odd aspie obsession at one point, but nothing really like this.
she's basically my other half... except much cuter and in girl form
.& when she recently pretty much came out and said she wanted to get married and make babies with me someday, i was positively ecstatic
. 'cause even just a year ago, i'd never have imagined being in this kind of situation, being that i'm an aspie and typically not that great with people, and hence honestly had serious doubts at the time about ever finding anyone. So even now, i still occasionally get that giddy, dazed, dumbstruck feeling seeing where i am now.Lol you're young man, a girl who is talking about babies at 19 is also extremely inexperienced and also naive.
I'd tread carefully.....aspie women talking about babies is never a good sign they can't even take care of themselves..
19 Jun 2010, 6:06 am
Seanmw wrote:
RainSong wrote:
Seanmw wrote:
Ahh, i see. niceee
& i'm guessing the ring in the pic is some kind of promise ring or something?
haha, or do you just particularly like that hand ?
& i'm guessing the ring in the pic is some kind of promise ring or something?
haha, or do you just particularly like that hand
?It's his engagement ring (and his hand, of course).
I feel like it would be vaguely creepy to have some random person's hand there.
It's actually silver with an inscription inside and out. It's not really a typical engagement ring (though it's not really typical for males to wear them either), but it's meaningful, and he likes it, so that's what's important.
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19 Jun 2010, 7:43 am
19 Jun 2010, 8:34 am
TXaspie wrote:
Seanmw wrote:
book_noodles wrote:
I will have been with my boyfriend for 2 years on July 3rd It is awesome. He's also my best friend.
awwwh, my girlfriend is also pretty much my best It is awesome. He's also my best friend. friend too.& i just love the sense of deep connection. it's as if before her i never really clicked with anyone else on that level, or really understood what the feeling was that couples around me seemed to be experiencing, i mean like, i'd had plenty of crushes before and some lesser relations, even the odd aspie obsession at one point, but nothing really like this.
she's basically my other half... except much cuter and in girl form
.& when she recently pretty much came out and said she wanted to get married and make babies with me someday, i was positively ecstatic
. 'cause even just a year ago, i'd never have imagined being in this kind of situation, being that i'm an aspie and typically not that great with people, and hence honestly had serious doubts at the time about ever finding anyone. So even now, i still occasionally get that giddy, dazed, dumbstruck feeling seeing where i am now.Lol you're young man, a girl who is talking about babies at 19 is also extremely inexperienced and also naive.
She's expressing natural, heartfelt desires. To scoff so condescendingly is rude and ugly behavior. 19 is not an unnatural age to have children.
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I'd tread carefully.....aspie women talking about babies is never a good sign they can't even take care of themselves..
I know that many aspies can and do take care of themselves, and make great mothers.
19 Jun 2010, 12:41 pm
TXaspie wrote:
Seanmw wrote:
book_noodles wrote:
I will have been with my boyfriend for 2 years on July 3rd It is awesome. He's also my best friend.
awwwh, my girlfriend is also pretty much my best It is awesome. He's also my best friend. friend too.& i just love the sense of deep connection. it's as if before her i never really clicked with anyone else on that level, or really understood what the feeling was that couples around me seemed to be experiencing, i mean like, i'd had plenty of crushes before and some lesser relations, even the odd aspie obsession at one point, but nothing really like this.
she's basically my other half... except much cuter and in girl form
.& when she recently pretty much came out and said she wanted to get married and make babies with me someday, i was positively ecstatic
. 'cause even just a year ago, i'd never have imagined being in this kind of situation, being that i'm an aspie and typically not that great with people, and hence honestly had serious doubts at the time about ever finding anyone. So even now, i still occasionally get that giddy, dazed, dumbstruck feeling seeing where i am now.Lol you're young man, a girl who is talking about babies at 19 is also extremely inexperienced and also naive.
I'd tread carefully.....aspie women talking about babies is never a good sign they can't even take care of themselves..
. Like she she says ideally she wants to get married when we're 24. That's still 4 years away, so not even exactly a huge rush on that, let alone children.
and actually, by this time next month we'll both be 20.
19 Jun 2010, 12:48 pm
RainSong wrote:
Seanmw wrote:
RainSong wrote:
Seanmw wrote:
Ahh, i see. niceee
& i'm guessing the ring in the pic is some kind of promise ring or something?
haha, or do you just particularly like that hand ?
& i'm guessing the ring in the pic is some kind of promise ring or something?
haha, or do you just particularly like that hand
?It's his engagement ring (and his hand, of course).
I feel like it would be vaguely creepy to have some random person's hand there.
It's actually silver with an inscription inside and out. It's not really a typical engagement ring (though it's not really typical for males to wear them either), but it's meaningful, and he likes it, so that's what's important.
what's the inscription say?
19 Jun 2010, 2:47 pm
Seanmw wrote:
awwwwh, that's sweet
what's the inscription say?
what's the inscription say?
Thanks.
The inside says, "I Am My Beloved's and My Beloved Is Mine" and the outside says, "Love Forever - D & H".
19 Jun 2010, 10:01 pm
20 Jun 2010, 12:19 am
angez22 wrote:
Im married to another undiagnosticated asperger.. we been together for around 3 years and even if sometimes its not easy for the both of us .... I dont regret at al. In my case it was my first serious relationship, before I met him , I thou I was gonna end alone for the rest of my life, mostly due the incapacity to find someone that I could connect with, in a meaningful way ........ so far its a sucessful story, I think in our case helps that we are both in the spectrum and we respect eachother space a lot.
awwwh, i hope mine works out like yours did .
My current girlfriend is my first relationship too.
20 Jun 2010, 1:25 am
Seanmw wrote:
angez22 wrote:
Im married to another undiagnosticated asperger.. we been together for around 3 years and even if sometimes its not easy for the both of us .... I dont regret at al. In my case it was my first serious relationship, before I met him , I thou I was gonna end alone for the rest of my life, mostly due the incapacity to find someone that I could connect with, in a meaningful way ........ so far its a sucessful story, I think in our case helps that we are both in the spectrum and we respect eachother space a lot.
awwwh, i hope mine works out like yours did .My current girlfriend is my first relationship too.
My current bf is my first "serious" relationship.
20 Jun 2010, 9:22 pm
melbi wrote:
Seanmw wrote:
angez22 wrote:
Im married to another undiagnosticated asperger.. we been together for around 3 years and even if sometimes its not easy for the both of us .... I dont regret at al. In my case it was my first serious relationship, before I met him , I thou I was gonna end alone for the rest of my life, mostly due the incapacity to find someone that I could connect with, in a meaningful way ........ so far its a sucessful story, I think in our case helps that we are both in the spectrum and we respect eachother space a lot.
awwwh, i hope mine works out like yours did .My current girlfriend is my first relationship too.
My current bf is my first "serious" relationship.
maybe it's the dolphins
they're rather cute, cheery looking animals
20 Jun 2010, 11:00 pm
Seanmw wrote:
melbi wrote:
Seanmw wrote:
angez22 wrote:
Im married to another undiagnosticated asperger.. we been together for around 3 years and even if sometimes its not easy for the both of us .... I dont regret at al. In my case it was my first serious relationship, before I met him , I thou I was gonna end alone for the rest of my life, mostly due the incapacity to find someone that I could connect with, in a meaningful way ........ so far its a sucessful story, I think in our case helps that we are both in the spectrum and we respect eachother space a lot.
awwwh, i hope mine works out like yours did .My current girlfriend is my first relationship too.
My current bf is my first "serious" relationship.
maybe it's the dolphins
they're rather cute, cheery looking animals
hi Seanmw,
Thank you for the comment
In real life Melbi is cheerful too (sometimes a bit too hyper...), as long as the depressed/anxious side of her doesn't come out Melbi is on anti-depressant Pristiq and anti-psychotic Seroquel for severe anxiety control.
I love dolphins, they make me happy!! ! Love their smile and loving nature
20 Jun 2010, 11:20 pm
melbi wrote:
Seanmw wrote:
melbi wrote:
Seanmw wrote:
angez22 wrote:
Im married to another undiagnosticated asperger.. we been together for around 3 years and even if sometimes its not easy for the both of us .... I dont regret at al. In my case it was my first serious relationship, before I met him , I thou I was gonna end alone for the rest of my life, mostly due the incapacity to find someone that I could connect with, in a meaningful way ........ so far its a sucessful story, I think in our case helps that we are both in the spectrum and we respect eachother space a lot.
awwwh, i hope mine works out like yours did .My current girlfriend is my first relationship too.
My current bf is my first "serious" relationship.
maybe it's the dolphins
they're rather cute, cheery looking animals
hi Seanmw,
Thank you for the comment
In real life Melbi is cheerful too (sometimes a bit too hyper...), as long as the depressed/anxious side of her doesn't come out Melbi is on anti-depressant Pristiq and anti-psychotic Seroquel for severe anxiety control. I love dolphins, they make me happy!! ! Love their smile and loving nature
Ahhh, i see
. your very welcome haha
i like dolphins too. Nice to meet Melbi
& i also take medication for anxiety at the moment, just Paxil thoughh.
21 Jun 2010, 6:53 am
Nice to meet you too Seanmw
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