I have a crush on a possible Aspie girl

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Listen Giftorcurse, I was this girl...she clearly likes you.

My experience: I'll use point form & third person so I don't bore anyone.
*saw boy on bus on way home from school
*he was THE PERFECT GUY in every way in girl's eyes
*she was 16 years old, virgin, very shy, timid, smart, loner, weird
*very powerful feelings toward an otherwise total stranger!
*boy followed girl off bus one day to talk to her
*girl was stunned and terrified that she would say something 'weird' and boy would run away
*boy talked to girl for a long time on the phone everyday
*girl couldn't identify her feelings for boy, but was very scared. she had been hurt by other boys in the past and she didn't want to think that boy was like that at all
*boy pursued girl, but girl was just too scared to communicate properly and despite incredibly intense feelings toward the other, their relationship ultimately failed.
*girl would never agree to be alone with boy or go out on a date because she didn't know what to do, or how to act, and since she liked him SO much, she didn't want to mess up...but in the end she messed up because she didn't try hard enough...(or did she?)

So, my advice to you would be to just back off and be cool for a bit. If she is an Aspie too, then she is likely struggling with these issues or something similar. I am 30 now, and am JUST beginning to understand myself and why my teen years were as hard and terrible as they were. If u just be casual and friendly for awhile it will give her a chance to work up some courage/confidence to move forward. She may not be ready yet, and that's ok. If she's the only one for u, then u'll just have to wait until she comes around!

You can have a happy ending with ur perfect partner too if u're willing to put in the effort! Good luck!

Who would like me? I'm the most pathetic creature on the planet.

Due to a request, this post has been edited to remove its contents.

You know, there was this one time she actually defended me in class when I was being verbally harrassed.

This just in: I heard from a friend that she was extremely sensitive. Pop culture for instance. She doesn't approve of any subject matter that is even remotely mature, and the book that I'm writing... imagine something from Zack Snyder's wet dream and multiply it by a billion. In other words, not for kids, which she considers herself. Not a young woman. Not a girl. A child. Her friend put it this way: while having the physical appearance of a girl of sixteen, she's mentally a seven year old. This would explain why she's afraid of me; it would violate her Disney-brand purity. I know. She's a Disney maniac. She also into mega happy endings, the good guy prevailing, true love being found, blah blah blah. Me... I'm her polar opposite. With my writing, you get three endings: bittersweet, downer or Gainax. Happy is rare, and very expensive. Given my cynical worldview, the moral divide of the characters is between black and grey, sometimes taking one or the other entirely.

I actually think the woman-girl aspect of her is a major turnoff.

This just in: she doesn't like me. In all probability, she hates me. I thought we could at least be friends. But she doesn't want me. No one wants me.

Might as well down a bunch of pills with soda, sit in the corner and listen to "Bohemian Rhapsody".

I'm not worth it. She doesn't want anything to do with me. I don't deserve anyone.

That serial whore Destinee said waved at me from her van as it zoom by my grandmother's house. In my mind, I thought of tossing a grenade in the van. I thought of reducing her to a shell of a girl. I wanted revenge. Sometimes, I get horny around her for superficial reasons, and then I shudder. Revenge gets on my mind. She'll pay for making me into a school laughingstock.

Come to think of it, I may have a crush on an Aspie girl. But I'll never tell!