I lost my virginity

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jaguars_fan
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31 May 2006, 11:20 pm

Space wrote:

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Do we really need to know what you do behind close doors?

I agree. What if I started a thread about how I like to dress up in diapers and a bonnet, and then s**t myself because it sexually gratifies me, and then ask if this is typical for people with AS?

You owe me a keyboard

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01 Jun 2006, 6:11 am

Maybe I should go out and have unenjoyable sex with a lot of desperate losers.

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01 Jun 2006, 6:19 am

hale_bopp wrote:

Maybe I should go out and have unenjoyable sex with a lot of desperate losers.

If you're a woman, I'm ready...

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01 Jun 2006, 9:26 am

hale_bopp wrote:

Maybe I should go out and have unenjoyable sex with a lot of desperate losers.

LMAO... What a desperate, desperate cry of pessimism.

Sorry, I realize where I erred. Sometimes I can come off sounding a bit too optimistic. hale_bopp, I've also known a few decent guys who've had more experience that dated someone of significantly less experience.

I really think the point is, find someone you like and worry about all that other stuff later. If you and the other person really care about each other, then experience doen't matter (the context changes).

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01 Jun 2006, 10:09 am

hale_bopp wrote:

Maybe I should go out and have unenjoyable sex with a lot of desperate losers.

That's a rather pessimistic attitude.

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01 Jun 2006, 1:57 pm

hale_bopp wrote:

Maybe I should go out and have unenjoyable sex with a lot of desperate losers.

Maybe you should go do that.

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01 Jun 2006, 2:18 pm

Space wrote:

hale_bopp wrote:

Maybe I should go out and have unenjoyable sex with a lot of desperate losers.

Maybe you should go do that.

This thread... etc.

(j/k)

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01 Jun 2006, 10:13 pm

If I lose my virginity this board will be the first to know.

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02 Jun 2006, 8:08 am

Why is experience an issue? If the person has no or little experience, then I imagine it would be fun to be the 'teacher' and moreover, to have the privilege of sharing that person's first sexual experience. If the person is experienced, then that's great too because there's little awkwardness and everything ends up being far more 'efficient'. :lol:

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02 Jun 2006, 8:42 am

Enigmatic_Oddity wrote:

If a person is male and inexperienced, that means negative social proof which makes him less attractive. If someone is female and inexperienced, I think thast is seen as less important.

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04 Jun 2006, 10:46 pm

wow it look like some of you seem upset about me sharing about losing my virginity.
The reason I put on this board is because even A guy like me ( who not very good with girls)
can lose it . so can anyone of you,If i offended anyone that wasn't my intetion.

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05 Jun 2006, 3:26 am

tell when you lose your anal cherry then maybe people will be more interested, until you have been anally penetrated you're still a virgin to me...

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05 Jun 2006, 10:18 am

billiscool wrote:

Just in case you are referring to me (not sure), I would like to clarify that I was not criticising you. I was only meaning to criticise the phrase that people use ("I lost my virginity"), not you.

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05 Jun 2006, 10:46 am

hale_bopp wrote:

emp wrote:

and a**holes who think that a girl is spoilt once she is no longer a virgin (a view more often held by religious fanatics).

I tend to have the opposite problem. I'm scared of even mentioning virginity to guys beucase they like a girl that is experienced.

Same in my situation. I usually keep my mouth shut about being a virgin because sometimes it makes guys feel really uncomfortable. I guess they feel pressure of being someone's first and how well they might do. Another reason is that there are some creepy guys out there that are really into the idea of being a girl's first.

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10 Jun 2006, 8:20 am

When I lost mine or as someone said gained sexual experience I had to keep it a secret, if my dad found out hell and hadis would have vacated the solar system.
It is good to be able to rejoice with fellow friends, especially when you thought it would never happen.
We thought we would have to pay for someone to marry our daughter(before we knew about the aspie) now she has an AS boyfriend and they plan to be eachothers first when hey are married.
And we don't even have to pay him lol.
Joking aside I think it is great, just be careful and have fun. :wink:

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