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The_Face_of_Boo
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25 Sep 2010, 10:33 am
hyperlexian wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
I have a bad feeling about all this over-excitement.
do you mean you have a bad feeling in that online dating is statistically difficult to be successful at? it's still fun to try, isn't it? i take it your experiences have not been great? i think there is something wonderful about the hopeful anticipation that precedes any actual dating. even if most relationships fail, there are places and times and points of excitement etc, that are worth pursuing.
i guess i don't plan well for the future, so i can get very excited in any given moment, without regard to what the past taught me or where the future is heading. so i feel happy for people who are at certain important points, because it is surrounded by a big unknown, and events can turn an individual in any direction.
it just occurred to me that you were probably cautioning the OP about the fact the woman hasn't logged on in a long time and may have moved on. dang, your posts are cryptic.
hey....it's just a feeling , damn it
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dang, your posts are cryptic.
but ...but ..... I am the face of boo , brining bad news and killing people's fun times is my job
25 Sep 2010, 10:44 am
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
I have a bad feeling about all this over-excitement.
do you mean you have a bad feeling in that online dating is statistically difficult to be successful at? it's still fun to try, isn't it? i take it your experiences have not been great? i think there is something wonderful about the hopeful anticipation that precedes any actual dating. even if most relationships fail, there are places and times and points of excitement etc, that are worth pursuing.
i guess i don't plan well for the future, so i can get very excited in any given moment, without regard to what the past taught me or where the future is heading. so i feel happy for people who are at certain important points, because it is surrounded by a big unknown, and events can turn an individual in any direction.
it just occurred to me that you were probably cautioning the OP about the fact the woman hasn't logged on in a long time and may have moved on. dang, your posts are cryptic.
hey....it's just a feeling , damn it
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dang, your posts are cryptic.
but ...but ..... I am the face of boo , brining bad news and killing people's fun times is my job
hahaha you always cause me to try to explain myself. it's like i am always trying to impress you. i guess your opinions are important to me, even if they are nihilistic.
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The_Face_of_Boo
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03 Oct 2010, 9:14 am
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Jono wrote:
I sent a message to a second person who did reply back to me even though her profile indicates that she replies very selectively. Unfortunately, her reply seems to indicate that there's not much commonality, saying "we'll probably bore each other to death" while I talk about science and she recounts "adventures" from her childhood.
I'm not having much luck here so far. Although the last person I messaged was an 86% match based on my answers to the OKCupid match question the above paragraph seems to indicate that she probably isn't the kind of person I've been targeting. In fact there doesn't seem to be a lot of women on there, at least in my area, that are the kind of people I've been. Amongst the ones that are, they often haven't logged in for a long time, are single mothers or several years younger than me. There is one who's 24 years old and logged on in the past week but I don't know how acceptable it is for a 30 year old to date a 24 year old.
I still think that the match system on OKCupid is impressive though since just about everyone who does fall into my targeted group seems to have high match percentages.
I'm not having much luck here so far. Although the last person I messaged was an 86% match based on my answers to the OKCupid match question the above paragraph seems to indicate that she probably isn't the kind of person I've been targeting. In fact there doesn't seem to be a lot of women on there, at least in my area, that are the kind of people I've been. Amongst the ones that are, they often haven't logged in for a long time, are single mothers or several years younger than me. There is one who's 24 years old and logged on in the past week but I don't know how acceptable it is for a 30 year old to date a 24 year old.
I still think that the match system on OKCupid is impressive though since just about everyone who does fall into my targeted group seems to have high match percentages.
Honestly , Jono .....
I think that even if you roll yourself in some pig poop and run in the street half naked , you would have a better chance meeting a potential gf than using the okcupid.
Who knows? Maybe someone will find that attractive.
By the way, why do you believe that dating sites have less of chance to work for AS men than it does for NT men? That seems to be what you keep trying to say.
The_Face_of_Boo
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03 Oct 2010, 9:26 am
Jono wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Jono wrote:
I sent a message to a second person who did reply back to me even though her profile indicates that she replies very selectively. Unfortunately, her reply seems to indicate that there's not much commonality, saying "we'll probably bore each other to death" while I talk about science and she recounts "adventures" from her childhood.
I'm not having much luck here so far. Although the last person I messaged was an 86% match based on my answers to the OKCupid match question the above paragraph seems to indicate that she probably isn't the kind of person I've been targeting. In fact there doesn't seem to be a lot of women on there, at least in my area, that are the kind of people I've been. Amongst the ones that are, they often haven't logged in for a long time, are single mothers or several years younger than me. There is one who's 24 years old and logged on in the past week but I don't know how acceptable it is for a 30 year old to date a 24 year old.
I still think that the match system on OKCupid is impressive though since just about everyone who does fall into my targeted group seems to have high match percentages.
I'm not having much luck here so far. Although the last person I messaged was an 86% match based on my answers to the OKCupid match question the above paragraph seems to indicate that she probably isn't the kind of person I've been targeting. In fact there doesn't seem to be a lot of women on there, at least in my area, that are the kind of people I've been. Amongst the ones that are, they often haven't logged in for a long time, are single mothers or several years younger than me. There is one who's 24 years old and logged on in the past week but I don't know how acceptable it is for a 30 year old to date a 24 year old.
I still think that the match system on OKCupid is impressive though since just about everyone who does fall into my targeted group seems to have high match percentages.
Honestly , Jono .....
I think that even if you roll yourself in some pig poop and run in the street half naked , you would have a better chance meeting a potential gf than using the okcupid.
Who knows? Maybe someone will find that attractive.
By the way, why do you believe that dating sites have less of chance to work for AS men than it does for NT men? That seems to be what you keep trying to say.
Dating sites are useless for the vast majority of male gender on this planet, let alone the male aspies.
03 Oct 2010, 9:42 am
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Jono wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Jono wrote:
I sent a message to a second person who did reply back to me even though her profile indicates that she replies very selectively. Unfortunately, her reply seems to indicate that there's not much commonality, saying "we'll probably bore each other to death" while I talk about science and she recounts "adventures" from her childhood.
I'm not having much luck here so far. Although the last person I messaged was an 86% match based on my answers to the OKCupid match question the above paragraph seems to indicate that she probably isn't the kind of person I've been targeting. In fact there doesn't seem to be a lot of women on there, at least in my area, that are the kind of people I've been. Amongst the ones that are, they often haven't logged in for a long time, are single mothers or several years younger than me. There is one who's 24 years old and logged on in the past week but I don't know how acceptable it is for a 30 year old to date a 24 year old.
I still think that the match system on OKCupid is impressive though since just about everyone who does fall into my targeted group seems to have high match percentages.
I'm not having much luck here so far. Although the last person I messaged was an 86% match based on my answers to the OKCupid match question the above paragraph seems to indicate that she probably isn't the kind of person I've been targeting. In fact there doesn't seem to be a lot of women on there, at least in my area, that are the kind of people I've been. Amongst the ones that are, they often haven't logged in for a long time, are single mothers or several years younger than me. There is one who's 24 years old and logged on in the past week but I don't know how acceptable it is for a 30 year old to date a 24 year old.
I still think that the match system on OKCupid is impressive though since just about everyone who does fall into my targeted group seems to have high match percentages.
Honestly , Jono .....
I think that even if you roll yourself in some pig poop and run in the street half naked , you would have a better chance meeting a potential gf than using the okcupid.
Who knows? Maybe someone will find that attractive.
By the way, why do you believe that dating sites have less of chance to work for AS men than it does for NT men? That seems to be what you keep trying to say.
Dating sites are useless for the vast majority of male gender on this planet, let alone the male aspies.
Ok, I'll take your word for it. Let's wait and see.
The_Face_of_Boo
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03 Oct 2010, 10:55 am
Jono wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Jono wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Jono wrote:
I sent a message to a second person who did reply back to me even though her profile indicates that she replies very selectively. Unfortunately, her reply seems to indicate that there's not much commonality, saying "we'll probably bore each other to death" while I talk about science and she recounts "adventures" from her childhood.
I'm not having much luck here so far. Although the last person I messaged was an 86% match based on my answers to the OKCupid match question the above paragraph seems to indicate that she probably isn't the kind of person I've been targeting. In fact there doesn't seem to be a lot of women on there, at least in my area, that are the kind of people I've been. Amongst the ones that are, they often haven't logged in for a long time, are single mothers or several years younger than me. There is one who's 24 years old and logged on in the past week but I don't know how acceptable it is for a 30 year old to date a 24 year old.
I still think that the match system on OKCupid is impressive though since just about everyone who does fall into my targeted group seems to have high match percentages.
I'm not having much luck here so far. Although the last person I messaged was an 86% match based on my answers to the OKCupid match question the above paragraph seems to indicate that she probably isn't the kind of person I've been targeting. In fact there doesn't seem to be a lot of women on there, at least in my area, that are the kind of people I've been. Amongst the ones that are, they often haven't logged in for a long time, are single mothers or several years younger than me. There is one who's 24 years old and logged on in the past week but I don't know how acceptable it is for a 30 year old to date a 24 year old.
I still think that the match system on OKCupid is impressive though since just about everyone who does fall into my targeted group seems to have high match percentages.
Honestly , Jono .....
I think that even if you roll yourself in some pig poop and run in the street half naked , you would have a better chance meeting a potential gf than using the okcupid.
Who knows? Maybe someone will find that attractive.
By the way, why do you believe that dating sites have less of chance to work for AS men than it does for NT men? That seems to be what you keep trying to say.
Dating sites are useless for the vast majority of male gender on this planet, let alone the male aspies.
Ok, I'll take your word for it. Let's wait and see.
That would be my fate if I wait.
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