ApsieGuy wrote:
Chronos wrote:
ApsieGuy wrote:
Chronos wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
and the very-socially-inept girls are accepted if they have a bit of beauty while the socially-inept guys are mocked and torn to pieces unless if they are drop dead hot or celeb.
As a very socially inept girl with a bit of beauty, I can say your perception that we are accepted is false...unless you mean accepted by 250lb, 50 year old married truckers who haven't showered for a few days.
Accepted by an average guy of average build who is within a few years of our own age, showered within the past few days and it not married, no, we generally are not.
First lets talk about what "a bit of beauty" actually means. I define it as not having butt ugly facial features. Quite simple.
But most of the men in my part of the woods would define it as exceptional facial features, pearly white straight teeth, a nice smile, no body hair below the eyelashes, no stretch marks, no abdominal pouch, no saggy skin, no saggy breasts, no cellulite...the list goes on.
If you don't want a woman with all of these imperfections, fine, but the problem is too many men around here will zero in on even one of these imperfections....for relationship purposes, not just a one night stand, because in the back of their mind they are comparing her to all the photoshopped images they have been brainwashed with.
The "average girl" doesnt have body hair below the eye lashes, or saggy skin...
See, this is what frustrates me. Women expect a better looking guy than them.
In reality, the average girl does have these things. So I rest my case.
ApsieGuy wrote:
No, the average girl does NOT have all those things. The average women over 30 yes. The average women under 30...no
Women do not stop being women when they turn 30.
ApsieGuy wrote:
Most 23 year old women I know do NOT have saggy skin, or sagging breast.
Since you've seen them all naked, right?
ApsieGuy wrote:
You need to clarify these things.
Being you have made the assumption that "women" means "under 30" I believe you are the one who needs to clarify.
ApsieGuy wrote:
I work at a hospital too. I can tell you from all the women ive seen...and i see a crapload...most women under 30 do not have the qaulities you described. In fact, most women I see under 40 don't have those qaulities....
As a woman, who has access to women's locker rooms, and most other places where women unclothe, and who has a lot of sisters, with a lot of friends, and is permitted access to their inner world, and things they do not discuss amongst men, and things they try to hide from men, and given the fact that I myself am a women and have been theoretically tasked with meeting the unrealistic requirements of "how an average woman is supposed to look" as set forth by the media, I am quite certain that I have more authority on this matter than you.
And I am perplexed as to why you bother asking questions when you inevitably reject the answers because they do not conform to your apparently misguided perceptions about the world.
What did you want the answer to be? Being you apparently did not ask the question for anything more than to enforce an already pre-existing belief, you must have had something in mind, so do share with us.
17 Oct 2010, 10:22 am
