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30 Oct 2010, 11:04 pm

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It's your affair but the hatred guy can be a gold heart if you let him a chance.


Maybe you mean a different word than "hate" because I don't think it reasonable at all to expect any man or woman to give a chance person who hates them for their sex, religion, race, or any reason.


Let's be clear here:
Hate = La haine

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For be attractive for women you need to be a stupid gym guy with a ton of muscle after use of steroid(small dick) with a big car and cash.


This is NOT TRUE. To be honest with you, I don't know a single woman who is into the very muscular gym types, and most women I know find men with that much muscle gross. You do not need a fancy car either. An average car is fine. Even an older car as long as it's clean inside. And cash...eh, depends. I don't know what women in Quebec are like but even in a city as shallow as Los Angeles, most of the guys have girlfriends, or at least manage to get with women.

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My problem is caused in school period i can't sue for damage caused and interest... stupid system


Yeah but the system deserve a big legal proceedings for that. Bullying is intolerable.



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30 Oct 2010, 11:24 pm

i will require therapy to my autism specialist but i see him like 1 time at 6 months



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31 Oct 2010, 12:27 am

It is your anger and hatred that is holding you back from the happyness you seek. There is an incredible world of the most amazing experiences
of love and sex you could imagine out there waiting for everyone, so many oportunitys are around all of us, there are plenty of realy cool like minded people . You can never acheive love by holding hatred. Hatred is not your freind, it will hurt you the most in the end, as it is now. Hatered is winning over you. It will be an incredible experience of release when you can let go of that anger for good. You will be able to live again. I have been through some unimaginable crap in my life, so I speek from experience. You must forgive and move on. Trust me you don't need money to have amazing experiences with the opposite sex.
Anger is not your freind, it will destroy you, as it nearly did me. Don't ever give up, there is a life out there with your name on it waiting for you to live it. Trust me when you get there you will never look back, it is so worth it. Get help with your anger and hatred, that is your Key.
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31 Oct 2010, 1:04 am

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It is your anger and hatred that is holding you back from the happyness you seek. There is an incredible world of the most amazing experiences
of love and sex you could imagine out there waiting for everyone, so many oportunitys are around all of us, there are plenty of realy cool like minded people . You can never acheive love by holding hatred. Hatred is not your freind, it will hurt you the most in the end, as it is now. Hatered is winning over you. It will be an incredible experience of release when you can let go of that anger for good. You will be able to live again. I have been through some unimaginable crap in my life, so I speek from experience. You must forgive and move on. Trust me you don't need money to have amazing experiences with the opposite sex.
Anger is not your freind, it will destroy you, as it nearly did me. Don't ever give up, there is a life out there with your name on it waiting for you to live it. Trust me when you get there you will never look back, it is so worth it. Get help with your anger and hatred, that is your Key.
Best of luck.

beautiful, fantastic, wonderful sentiments.


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31 Oct 2010, 1:14 am

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It is your anger and hatred that is holding you back from the happyness you seek. There is an incredible world of the most amazing experiences
of love and sex you could imagine out there waiting for everyone, so many oportunitys are around all of us, there are plenty of realy cool like minded people . You can never acheive love by holding hatred. Hatred is not your freind, it will hurt you the most in the end, as it is now. Hatered is winning over you. It will be an incredible experience of release when you can let go of that anger for good. You will be able to live again. I have been through some unimaginable crap in my life, so I speek from experience. You must forgive and move on. Trust me you don't need money to have amazing experiences with the opposite sex.
Anger is not your freind, it will destroy you, as it nearly did me. Don't ever give up, there is a life out there with your name on it waiting for you to live it. Trust me when you get there you will never look back, it is so worth it. Get help with your anger and hatred, that is your Key.
Best of luck.

beautiful, fantastic, wonderful sentiments.


Hope i not have a long waiting list for therapy. Quebec Health System treat you as a number. I think i have for a long time with all my issues (Women Hate,Asperger,Self Esteem) i don't want to wait 3-4 years i'm near craziness



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31 Oct 2010, 3:08 am

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get privated and give me some news


I've had men turn their noses up at me Many a time don't you worry. I have been called horrible things, looked down on, and its something many people in the world can relate to. But when that happens, what I do is strive to be a better and more successful person than them, instead of getting upset because people think i'm ugly or "stupid" or unattractive.

If someone does not like you, does not want to date you or talk to you, it really isn't your problem. We all have our own paths and they can be only walked down by us.



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31 Oct 2010, 3:40 am

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If someone does not like you, does not want to date you or talk to you, it really isn't your problem

Well put hale bopp.



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31 Oct 2010, 4:33 am

hale_bopp wrote:
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get privated and give me some news


I've had men turn their noses up at me Many a time don't you worry. I have been called horrible things, looked down on, and its something many people in the world can relate to. But when that happens, what I do is strive to be a better and more successful person than them, instead of getting upset because people think i'm ugly or "stupid" or unattractive.

If someone does not like you, does not want to date you or talk to you, it really isn't your problem. We all have our own paths and they can be only walked down by us.


I totally agree hale bopp, my sentiments exactly.
I have been looked down on, and made fun of a lot as well. but I am learnig to take the energy of negative experiences of rejection and discrimination and chanel it into becoming a better person, The real value is in good people. The nasty ones then show them selves up for what they realy are. There is a like minded match out there for us all, eventualy we find them.


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31 Oct 2010, 11:26 am

hale_bopp wrote:
J-P wrote:
get privated and give me some news


I've had men turn their noses up at me Many a time don't you worry. I have been called horrible things, looked down on, and its something many people in the world can relate to. But when that happens, what I do is strive to be a better and more successful person than them, instead of getting upset because people think i'm ugly or "stupid" or unattractive.

If someone does not like you, does not want to date you or talk to you, it really isn't your problem. We all have our own paths and they can be only walked down by us.


Hate conduct me to think we need to supress some groups rights.(women and immigrants). In my case i was reject(girl and boy...i been abandoned 2 times on a 3 months period by friends) more often then my turn i'm badly endomagged mentally



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31 Oct 2010, 12:31 pm

I should technically at least try to chime in and say something positive or helpful here. I'm afraid I can't do that though, not after reading what you've written. I can only give two pieces of advices:

1. Learn to spell "fascism" properly.
2. Please, die. Just die. Or simply disappear from this planet. It doesn't need more of your kind.

And yes, I'm a rather hateful person myself.



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31 Oct 2010, 5:18 pm

TechnicalPacifist wrote:
I should technically at least try to chime in and say something positive or helpful here. I'm afraid I can't do that though, not after reading what you've written. I can only give two pieces of advices:

1. Learn to spell "fascism" properly.
2. Please, die. Just die. Or simply disappear from this planet. It doesn't need more of your kind.

And yes, I'm a rather hateful person myself.


i'm back from a wrestling show and i feel better for now

yeah Montreal hosted the house show of WWE

btw english is not my main language



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01 Nov 2010, 3:40 am

J-P wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
J-P wrote:
get privated and give me some news


I've had men turn their noses up at me Many a time don't you worry. I have been called horrible things, looked down on, and its something many people in the world can relate to. But when that happens, what I do is strive to be a better and more successful person than them, instead of getting upset because people think i'm ugly or "stupid" or unattractive.

If someone does not like you, does not want to date you or talk to you, it really isn't your problem. We all have our own paths and they can be only walked down by us.


Hate conduct me to think we need to supress some groups rights.(women and immigrants). In my case i was reject(girl and boy...i been abandoned 2 times on a 3 months period by friends) more often then my turn i'm badly endomagged mentally


I get abandoned by people all the time, its not exclusive to you, it happens to everyone because it's life. If you really want to get through this, you need to go to therapy.



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01 Nov 2010, 3:46 am

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i'm back from a wrestling show and i feel better for now

yeah Montreal hosted the house show of WWE

btw english is not my main language

If you want to work on your social skills in a way that will be conducive to work on building up friendships and eventually an relationship, I can assure you going to WWE events won't do it. Not only is it male dominated and full of steroid-infused freaks, most people see wrestling as juvenile. The way you're going to do this is to get off the damn computer/Xbox/PS3 and go outside and interact with (like-minded) people. Talk to your therapist as well.



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01 Nov 2010, 11:10 am

nthach wrote:
J-P wrote:
i'm back from a wrestling show and i feel better for now

yeah Montreal hosted the house show of WWE

btw english is not my main language

If you want to work on your social skills in a way that will be conducive to work on building up friendships and eventually an relationship, I can assure you going to WWE events won't do it. Not only is it male dominated and full of steroid-infused freaks, most people see wrestling as juvenile. The way you're going to do this is to get off the damn computer/Xbox/PS3 and go outside and interact with (like-minded) people. Talk to your therapist as well.


I think the best for me is to go to a autism organism meet my pairs. At least for form friendship

Yeah WWE is steroid fused but it's a way to get out of loneliness for some hours i can tell you i feel better after for the rest of day

i fear to talk to stranger and they reaction because of my hard school period i judge by what i see(Exemple:He dress like that mean he a stupid hip hop fan)

game console is my only way to fight loneliness



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01 Nov 2010, 5:00 pm

J-P wrote:
nthach wrote:
J-P wrote:
i'm back from a wrestling show and i feel better for now

yeah Montreal hosted the house show of WWE

btw english is not my main language

If you want to work on your social skills in a way that will be conducive to work on building up friendships and eventually an relationship, I can assure you going to WWE events won't do it. Not only is it male dominated and full of steroid-infused freaks, most people see wrestling as juvenile. The way you're going to do this is to get off the damn computer/Xbox/PS3 and go outside and interact with (like-minded) people. Talk to your therapist as well.


I think the best for me is to go to a autism organism meet my pairs. At least for form friendship

Yeah WWE is steroid fused but it's a way to get out of loneliness for some hours i can tell you i feel better after for the rest of day

i fear to talk to stranger and they reaction because of my hard school period i judge by what i see(Exemple:He dress like that mean he a stupid hip hop fan)

game console is my only way to fight loneliness

That makes me feel sad



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01 Nov 2010, 5:21 pm

J-P wrote:
nthach wrote:
J-P wrote:
i'm back from a wrestling show and i feel better for now

yeah Montreal hosted the house show of WWE

btw english is not my main language

If you want to work on your social skills in a way that will be conducive to work on building up friendships and eventually an relationship, I can assure you going to WWE events won't do it. Not only is it male dominated and full of steroid-infused freaks, most people see wrestling as juvenile. The way you're going to do this is to get off the damn computer/Xbox/PS3 and go outside and interact with (like-minded) people. Talk to your therapist as well.


I think the best for me is to go to a autism organism meet my pairs. At least for form friendship

Yeah WWE is steroid fused but it's a way to get out of loneliness for some hours i can tell you i feel better after for the rest of day

i fear to talk to stranger and they reaction because of my hard school period i judge by what i see(Exemple:He dress like that mean he a stupid hip hop fan)

game console is my only way to fight loneliness

One way to GET OFF THE DAMN COMPUTER AND XBOX is to find groups on meetup.com but...
I feel your social skills are in need of some work. I would talk to a therapist or psych about that. Also, high school is HELL for anyone, NT and ASD.