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Jono
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03 Nov 2010, 2:25 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
^ Maybe yes........maybe not .... I can't remember! O_O

Maybe .... LPP is ....dead? and reborn as me? hooo ...scary.

Maybe ....LPP was a mere human?......exposed to high level of radiation , mutated and became....ME?! A face of BOO!

Or LPP was a total different being back then?

In both cases, Boo is not LPP.


I didn't think so. At least if you were, I'd still be waiting for the unique LPP sense of humor :wink: :

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03 Nov 2010, 3:28 pm

I think us Aspie guys could be incompatible with most women. I'm direct, straightforward & like constituency. Lots of Aspie guys as well as NT guys complain about women playing mind games, being to emotional, not being sure of what they want, not making sense ect ect. I never heard a woman have these complaints about a man. I think us Aspie guys should give up on women & start dating each other. I'd be interested if we can take things slow & not have sex for a while.

Or we can move to countries that have arranged marriages. I wish we had em here in America


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03 Nov 2010, 3:47 pm

The value of the L&D forum is really dependent on what you want to get out of it. If you are looking for a direct result in the form of dates from members here, don't count on that -- in general a forum isn't a great place for that, but especially not one that services people with a syndrome that explicitly includes social difficulties!

Also, some of the rancor here is because there probably should be separate forums for Men's and Women's issues. We start on one topic, and then drift over into the realm of gender politics, which I think wasn't the intention of the L&D forum.

What you do get out of the L&D forum -- free advice, and a place to vent (though probably a lot of the venting should happen on the gender issues forums I suggest above). Some of us have had some luck or success in dating, and do have some nuggets of wisdom to pass on. Whether you actually act on those gems is up to you ;)



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03 Nov 2010, 4:02 pm

nick007 wrote:
I think us Aspie guys could be incompatible with most women. I'm direct, straightforward & like constituency. Lots of Aspie guys as well as NT guys complain about women playing mind games, being to emotional, not being sure of what they want, not making sense ect ect. I never heard a woman have these complaints about a man. I think us Aspie guys should give up on women & start dating each other. I'd be interested if we can take things slow & not have sex for a while.

Or we can move to countries that have arranged marriages. I wish we had em here in America

okay, i shall make those complaints. i don't like complaining about one gender, particularly, but you are failing to understand that men can be just as difficult as women in many cases. i am hereby complaining that some men:

- play mind games
- are too emotional
- aren't sure of what they want
- don't make sense

now you can no longer make the claim that women don't complain about men being like that.


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03 Nov 2010, 4:39 pm

hyperlexian wrote:
nick007 wrote:
I think us Aspie guys could be incompatible with most women. I'm direct, straightforward & like constituency. Lots of Aspie guys as well as NT guys complain about women playing mind games, being to emotional, not being sure of what they want, not making sense ect ect. I never heard a woman have these complaints about a man. I think us Aspie guys should give up on women & start dating each other. I'd be interested if we can take things slow & not have sex for a while.

Or we can move to countries that have arranged marriages. I wish we had em here in America

okay, i shall make those complaints. i don't like complaining about one gender, particularly, but you are failing to understand that men can be just as difficult as women in many cases. i am hereby complaining that some men:

- play mind games
- are too emotional
- aren't sure of what they want
- don't make sense

now you can no longer make the claim that women don't complain about men being like that.


Nice try but sarcastic comments don't count :lol: I really do think us Aspies should try dating the same sex considering how lots of us have major problems with the opposite sex because of our AS issues. Lots of Aspie guys will not stand much of a chance with women & lots of Aspie women have lots of problems finding guys


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03 Nov 2010, 4:43 pm

nick007 wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
nick007 wrote:
I think us Aspie guys could be incompatible with most women. I'm direct, straightforward & like constituency. Lots of Aspie guys as well as NT guys complain about women playing mind games, being to emotional, not being sure of what they want, not making sense ect ect. I never heard a woman have these complaints about a man. I think us Aspie guys should give up on women & start dating each other. I'd be interested if we can take things slow & not have sex for a while.

Or we can move to countries that have arranged marriages. I wish we had em here in America

okay, i shall make those complaints. i don't like complaining about one gender, particularly, but you are failing to understand that men can be just as difficult as women in many cases. i am hereby complaining that some men:

- play mind games
- are too emotional
- aren't sure of what they want
- don't make sense

now you can no longer make the claim that women don't complain about men being like that.


Nice try but sarcastic comments don't count :lol: I really do think us Aspies should try dating the same sex considering how lots of us have major problems with the opposite sex because of our AS issues.

it's not sarcastic. i've had mindgames, emotional responses, lack of certainty, and all kinds of other nonsense from men...


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03 Nov 2010, 4:44 pm

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nick007 wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
nick007 wrote:
I think us Aspie guys could be incompatible with most women. I'm direct, straightforward & like constituency. Lots of Aspie guys as well as NT guys complain about women playing mind games, being to emotional, not being sure of what they want, not making sense ect ect. I never heard a woman have these complaints about a man. I think us Aspie guys should give up on women & start dating each other. I'd be interested if we can take things slow & not have sex for a while.

Or we can move to countries that have arranged marriages. I wish we had em here in America

okay, i shall make those complaints. i don't like complaining about one gender, particularly, but you are failing to understand that men can be just as difficult as women in many cases. i am hereby complaining that some men:

- play mind games
- are too emotional
- aren't sure of what they want
- don't make sense

now you can no longer make the claim that women don't complain about men being like that.


Nice try but sarcastic comments don't count :lol: I really do think us Aspies should try dating the same sex considering how lots of us have major problems with the opposite sex because of our AS issues.

it's not sarcastic. i've had mindgames, emotional responses, lack of certainty, and all kinds of other nonsense from men...


Odd that I never heard a woman 1ce make that complaint till I mentioned it :?


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03 Nov 2010, 4:47 pm

nick007 wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
nick007 wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
nick007 wrote:
I think us Aspie guys could be incompatible with most women. I'm direct, straightforward & like constituency. Lots of Aspie guys as well as NT guys complain about women playing mind games, being to emotional, not being sure of what they want, not making sense ect ect. I never heard a woman have these complaints about a man. I think us Aspie guys should give up on women & start dating each other. I'd be interested if we can take things slow & not have sex for a while.

Or we can move to countries that have arranged marriages. I wish we had em here in America

okay, i shall make those complaints. i don't like complaining about one gender, particularly, but you are failing to understand that men can be just as difficult as women in many cases. i am hereby complaining that some men:

- play mind games
- are too emotional
- aren't sure of what they want
- don't make sense

now you can no longer make the claim that women don't complain about men being like that.


Nice try but sarcastic comments don't count :lol: I really do think us Aspies should try dating the same sex considering how lots of us have major problems with the opposite sex because of our AS issues.

it's not sarcastic. i've had mindgames, emotional responses, lack of certainty, and all kinds of other nonsense from men...


Odd that I never heard a woman 1ce make that complaint till I mentioned it :?

maybe you aren't actually asking.... or maybe you aren't listening to the answers.


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03 Nov 2010, 8:54 pm

nick007 wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
nick007 wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
nick007 wrote:
I think us Aspie guys could be incompatible with most women. I'm direct, straightforward & like constituency. Lots of Aspie guys as well as NT guys complain about women playing mind games, being to emotional, not being sure of what they want, not making sense ect ect. I never heard a woman have these complaints about a man. I think us Aspie guys should give up on women & start dating each other. I'd be interested if we can take things slow & not have sex for a while.

Or we can move to countries that have arranged marriages. I wish we had em here in America

okay, i shall make those complaints. i don't like complaining about one gender, particularly, but you are failing to understand that men can be just as difficult as women in many cases. i am hereby complaining that some men:

- play mind games
- are too emotional
- aren't sure of what they want
- don't make sense

now you can no longer make the claim that women don't complain about men being like that.


Nice try but sarcastic comments don't count :lol: I really do think us Aspies should try dating the same sex considering how lots of us have major problems with the opposite sex because of our AS issues.

it's not sarcastic. i've had mindgames, emotional responses, lack of certainty, and all kinds of other nonsense from men...


Odd that I never heard a woman 1ce make that complaint till I mentioned it :?


@Nick007, I've posted plenty of times about a recent ex who was a lying, temper-tantrum-throwing, manipulative drama queen. So if you doubt the veracity of @hyperlexian's statements, feel free to look at my old posts - they'll leave no room for doubt.


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03 Nov 2010, 9:06 pm

HopeGrows wrote:
nick007 wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
nick007 wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
nick007 wrote:
I think us Aspie guys could be incompatible with most women. I'm direct, straightforward & like constituency. Lots of Aspie guys as well as NT guys complain about women playing mind games, being to emotional, not being sure of what they want, not making sense ect ect. I never heard a woman have these complaints about a man. I think us Aspie guys should give up on women & start dating each other. I'd be interested if we can take things slow & not have sex for a while.

Or we can move to countries that have arranged marriages. I wish we had em here in America

okay, i shall make those complaints. i don't like complaining about one gender, particularly, but you are failing to understand that men can be just as difficult as women in many cases. i am hereby complaining that some men:

- play mind games
- are too emotional
- aren't sure of what they want
- don't make sense

now you can no longer make the claim that women don't complain about men being like that.


Nice try but sarcastic comments don't count :lol: I really do think us Aspies should try dating the same sex considering how lots of us have major problems with the opposite sex because of our AS issues.

it's not sarcastic. i've had mindgames, emotional responses, lack of certainty, and all kinds of other nonsense from men...


Odd that I never heard a woman 1ce make that complaint till I mentioned it :?


@Nick007, I've posted plenty of times about a recent ex who was a lying, temper-tantrum-throwing, manipulative drama queen. So if you doubt the veracity of @hyperlexian's statements, feel free to look at my old posts - they'll leave no room for doubt.


I'll take your word for it but I honestly have never heard a women complain about guys playing hard-to-get, guys asking for an honest opinion & then getting upset when one is given or guys telling a woman that they want her to do something when they want her to do the opposite


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